How to give support to a child cope when allowed guardianship have be established?
I have taken legal guardianship of my 3 year old nephew. I also enjoy 3 children of my own. His mom & dad are not together, are very young and financially unstable. He also wasn't getting attention or learning things that he desires for his age.
His grandparents are being extremely demanding that they see him whenever possible. I have tried explaining to them that he is in an adjustment length and needs to be here until he becomes more familiar near knowing this is where he will be living, his home.
He is extremely happy and active during the hours of daylight. At night he cries about wanting his daddy and his grandpa. I am definitely wanting adjectives family members to play a part surrounded by his life, but, I do not think that now is the time for him to be going to different houses. Which also played a big piece in his life before I took him within. His little life was so unstable going from mommy to daddy to grandpa all the time.
I am wondering if anyone have any advice for me regarding this entire situation. This is a new piece for all of us and I want to make sure that the little guy comes first. If anyone has some obedient websites to refer me to..that would be great! I cannot seem to find anything that really relates to my specific situation.
Answers: I think you are on the right track. Crying at night is so commonplace as I am sure you understand.
I would seek a counselor's advice (with and minus the child).
I think bringing the grandparents and parents to your home to visit (eventually) will be good. But don't tolerate the child go to their house just yet.
Again, a counselor who have seen this sort of thing will be able to provide better assistance and warning.
The government agency that helped you gain guardianship may have a resource page online.
Good luck!
I regard as you are doing a good thing by wanting him to stay there so he know thats where he is living etc... He is crying a lot because he wants what is regular for him and he will need to learn the new routine. I would suggest that conceivably letting his grandparents and his parents to come see him at your house. He would then be able to see them but it would still keep him surrounded by the normal routine. Or if you don't want them at your house take him to go see them but stay next to him so he will kind of realize that he will be going back with you.
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His grandparents are being extremely demanding that they see him whenever possible. I have tried explaining to them that he is in an adjustment length and needs to be here until he becomes more familiar near knowing this is where he will be living, his home.
He is extremely happy and active during the hours of daylight. At night he cries about wanting his daddy and his grandpa. I am definitely wanting adjectives family members to play a part surrounded by his life, but, I do not think that now is the time for him to be going to different houses. Which also played a big piece in his life before I took him within. His little life was so unstable going from mommy to daddy to grandpa all the time.
I am wondering if anyone have any advice for me regarding this entire situation. This is a new piece for all of us and I want to make sure that the little guy comes first. If anyone has some obedient websites to refer me to..that would be great! I cannot seem to find anything that really relates to my specific situation.
Answers: I think you are on the right track. Crying at night is so commonplace as I am sure you understand.
I would seek a counselor's advice (with and minus the child).
I think bringing the grandparents and parents to your home to visit (eventually) will be good. But don't tolerate the child go to their house just yet.
Again, a counselor who have seen this sort of thing will be able to provide better assistance and warning.
The government agency that helped you gain guardianship may have a resource page online.
Good luck!
I regard as you are doing a good thing by wanting him to stay there so he know thats where he is living etc... He is crying a lot because he wants what is regular for him and he will need to learn the new routine. I would suggest that conceivably letting his grandparents and his parents to come see him at your house. He would then be able to see them but it would still keep him surrounded by the normal routine. Or if you don't want them at your house take him to go see them but stay next to him so he will kind of realize that he will be going back with you.
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