How sturdy is it for me to procure a shared parenting plan?
I have a 8.5 month year old son. His mother left me within her first trimester. We went to a mediator last week and could not agree on any one on one visitation. I asked for 2 Saturday's a month for 8 hours at a time. She lied to intermediary about seeking legal advice, stating she have not researched he rights. My attorney informed me a lawyer contacted him on her behalf. Now we are moving forward to court and she will no longer talk to me.
She will not give me his social shelter number. She allowed me to visit him at her house until I looked at pictures of him from a portrait studio, a membership I purchased for us, and said I snooped through her stuff. She has slandered me to her 2 daughters, proverb I can't take care of my son, because I can't take strictness of myself. Reason being, I am living at home to afford child support, legal fees, and save for a house. She accuse me of having a chemical imbalance to the mediator. I offered to nick a psychiatric evaluation, and random drug screening, as I don't abuse drugs.
She is demoralizing me, saying the court won't bear him from me. I only want one on one time, standard visitation. I am not trying to take him from her.
What lies ahead for me?
She has a daughter who is 17, be expelled from High School 2 years ago, and withdrew from school after spring break because she is pregnant.
Her other daughter is 16, and their child support is on their last leg.
I get the impression as if I were used for a child support check, and am being persecuted for trying to be a loving father, and raise my son.
Please aid me with advise.
Answers: DON'T worry.
Stop trying to contact her.She is visibly a difficult women and you just need to wait until court to sort this out.If you are a perched person, you will get your visitation rights.You could even go for pooled custody if you wished.
If she tries to play games in court, CALMY let the courts know that you are plain for parenting classes and a psych evaluation as well.DON'T let her piss you off.Show them that you are the developed one that doesn't let the petty crap bother you.She is trying to piss you off to try to discourage you.She is only hurting your son within the process which is unfortunate.
Good luck.
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She will not give me his social shelter number. She allowed me to visit him at her house until I looked at pictures of him from a portrait studio, a membership I purchased for us, and said I snooped through her stuff. She has slandered me to her 2 daughters, proverb I can't take care of my son, because I can't take strictness of myself. Reason being, I am living at home to afford child support, legal fees, and save for a house. She accuse me of having a chemical imbalance to the mediator. I offered to nick a psychiatric evaluation, and random drug screening, as I don't abuse drugs.
She is demoralizing me, saying the court won't bear him from me. I only want one on one time, standard visitation. I am not trying to take him from her.
What lies ahead for me?
She has a daughter who is 17, be expelled from High School 2 years ago, and withdrew from school after spring break because she is pregnant.
Her other daughter is 16, and their child support is on their last leg.
I get the impression as if I were used for a child support check, and am being persecuted for trying to be a loving father, and raise my son.
Please aid me with advise.
Answers: DON'T worry.
Stop trying to contact her.She is visibly a difficult women and you just need to wait until court to sort this out.If you are a perched person, you will get your visitation rights.You could even go for pooled custody if you wished.
If she tries to play games in court, CALMY let the courts know that you are plain for parenting classes and a psych evaluation as well.DON'T let her piss you off.Show them that you are the developed one that doesn't let the petty crap bother you.She is trying to piss you off to try to discourage you.She is only hurting your son within the process which is unfortunate.
Good luck.
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