..I'm pregnant..upset?
Okay I am 17 (will be 18 in December) and I have just found out that I am pregnant..My boyfriend is hugely supportive and I know that he will be a GREAT father and wont leave me.but I am just scared of my dad..he told me if I ever return with pregnant at such an early age...I better leave the country..I think I will be a great parent to my adjectives child but I am terrified of my father's reaction...he will probably kill my boyfriend even though its not his culpability..please, help me I am so scared..what countries are good to step to? D:
you should talk to him about it
california?
If you're old enought to own sex and fall pregnant then you should be mature ample to be able to sit down with your father and tell him your word. If you are to be a mother then you'll be enduring many various more daunting situations such as this one. Time to grow up me thinks and take the bull by the horns. Hope you and your partner work out and the baby is a thrilled and healthy one. All the luck in the world - i was a infantile mum (19) and it worked out well for me.
Its not your boyfriends fault? So who else are you letting between your legs? Anyways, I really don't know what to give an account you...Hate to say it but you should have been a perfect girl and kept your legs closed...Goodluck with your dad.
Ok first of all relax. You wouldn't want to stress your self out. Personally I think you're too young to own a child. But if you are "REALLY" sure you and your boyfriend want this baby, I would tell your mum first. Yore dad was most promising just being a dad and threatening you not to have a child at a immature age. He would never deport you! I would wait until you are 18 before you tell them. Simply because they hold no control over you. Also see a nearby hospital and ask your doctor for advice. If you decide to enjoy the baby I hope it is healthy and happy one :)
Hope I help
ur dad is not gonna kill u or your bf...thats his grandchild.. he'll be mad but he'll get hold of over it, u better keep it
I vote Japan!
No really - first the scolding. What are you thinking at 17 getting pregnant? You're not even old enough to support yourself let alone a child.
And on to the answer..
Sit him down and detail him straight up. Tell him when you're ready, don't rush it. Let him know that you're scared and all that - any parent would right to be heard they'll be angry if you get pregnant, but when it comes down to it they will be supportive and understanding.
okkkk .. that sucks 4 u just tell your dad the truth and dont depart the country
Parents say a lot of things to startle you so you dont do something. I was always told I was getting luggage for my 18th birthday because thats when I be supposed to be out and they were done supporting me but when it was time for me to actually live on my own they looked-for me home! You have to tell your dad. Be strong for his first reaction afterwards he will get over it and Im sure try to help you. How are his parents? Where is your mother?
I know anything like that can make you surface scared to tell a parent.
Does your boyfriends parents know your pregnant?
Maybe you can have them articulate to your father. Or
Have all of your parents and tell them at once. At least you will not be alone. One of your parents will support your edict.
Please call the health and human services to get the medical & support you will entail for your child. WICS or Food Stamps.
ok hun. yea you should be scared,shoulda kept your legs closed..but he cant make you donate the country
as for being 17..i can relate. ]: i just had infant number 2 on July 4th..so if you need to talk or need advice/support my aim is xhunterxmayx chat me up there[; i will be glad to backing you
You seem like your set on having this infant. which is good if you really want it and can do right by it, if you cant, dont hav it!.
really this is a life and a child... who will grow up to be just close to you one day. please make the right decision.
you dad will concordat with it and im sure he will help you out .. and hes hardly going to be horrible to you if your preganant is he ?
you can do this if you want to.
But you dont enjoy to.
think well and think vigorous.
i hope that everything works out . x
Just be honest and talk to him in a very become fully grown manning, I don't think he will hurt his pregnant daughter and if he kills your boyfriend he will turn to jail. LOL It's scary but you can do it.
guam
First of all don't listen to those people who voice ur stupid because ur not accidents happen..tell ur father the truth and if he get upset maybe go to one of those teen pregnancy places.Its going to be okay this is just a bump on aroad call life
oh stop, he won't make you donate the country. he CAN'T
he'll just have to accept it, or y9ou'll own to get a job to get an apartment, and support that kid. Ask facilitate from your other relatives or friends
But don't be so naive to think that your Dad can and will actually sort you leave the counrty
It's adjectives your fault and nobody Else's your boyfriend could leave your today but you know what your still stuck with the tot. but move to a different state FAR away and say bye bye daddy
Answers: First of all, relax!
1) You should know that your Dad will always love you. Dads are very protective over their daughters, and he will surely be upset to some scope. He may be furious, and may even scream and yell. In spite of this, he will still love you and still want your happiness above adjectives else. Dads have little choice but to accept that their little girls are growing up, and that you will someday leave them. With that said, try to get that his anger is understandable to a degree.
2) When you are ready to report him, make sure that you are alone. You do not want to bring the Father of the baby into the picture at this point, even if he is willing. Sit down beside your Dad alone and tell him the news. Make sure that you are willing to be truthful beside him regardless of past lies that you may have told him. Betrayal is not a good article when you are telling your Dad something so important. Explain to him how you feel almost the situation and listen to his advice.
3) Telling your Dad your are pregnant as a teenager is not a normal entity for a Dad to expect, so it will take a bit of time for most fathers to accept it and process it. Give them the space to do so, and be within when he has questions or just requirements to talk. He is sure to want to know details of the situation, and you should be willing to give him those you are comfortable beside. He will inevitably feel as though he did something wrong, or was not there for you when he should enjoy been.
4) Over time, telling your Dad you are pregnant will be a good entry. Dad will eventually come around, and sometimes it turns out much better than you might expect. The vast majority of Dads want only for their kids to be happy, and undamaging. If you can show him that you are both, then he will ease his stance somewhat over time.
if his bday is coming up...sing happy birthday dear GRANDPA that is a very suttle course to bring it up and wont be that aquard if he knows he will be a grandpa
tell him when you are 18 so you will be an adult and you can do what ever you want. he can't control you or anyone else after 18 years old. but procure married to the father too, cuz it isn't fair to that baby to not be raised next to a father.
CANADA!
Honestly, if you're that afraid, get a quickie hitch to your bf.
Only if you love him though.
umm idk it is his fault if he gt u prego but move to north caarolina!! theres no1 there!! hope i help!!
~ best of wishes~
You should enjoy closed your legs and just made kisses.
Don't be afraid. Your parents love you no matter what. Don't walk out the country (i hope he was kidding). I'm sure you ARE going to be a great parents. Just don't be scared! Keep living your life! Prove to your Dad that you are in place to be a parent. Just don't storm off.
wow
oh gosh
close your legs!! STUPID
your dad will undrstand he just said thatt make you anxious so you dont get prego but just in baggage when you tell him make sure your boyfriend isnt there and yourmom is within the room
OK, here it is...
this is hard to say but if you live in the US
you should move to a country that you speak the dialogue to, (french= canada, spanish= spain etc.) also if you think he will KILL your boyfreind, you have to get out of in that ASAP! and if you leave the country still stay in contact with your dad within case he is sympathetic, but when you mail him DO NOT give a return address... also, you might want to, when you donate, leave a note explaining everything, also you might want to (once you leave town) receive a job to help pay for bills.
and on countries again here are my recomendations: canada, france, england, italy, spain,
Hope this help...
Its not only you b/f's fault, unless he acted w/o your consent! It pocket two to make a baby. Your as much responsible as your b/f. He may be pizzed, but these things happen. Birth control ... so under-rated!
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you should talk to him about it
california?
If you're old enought to own sex and fall pregnant then you should be mature ample to be able to sit down with your father and tell him your word. If you are to be a mother then you'll be enduring many various more daunting situations such as this one. Time to grow up me thinks and take the bull by the horns. Hope you and your partner work out and the baby is a thrilled and healthy one. All the luck in the world - i was a infantile mum (19) and it worked out well for me.
Its not your boyfriends fault? So who else are you letting between your legs? Anyways, I really don't know what to give an account you...Hate to say it but you should have been a perfect girl and kept your legs closed...Goodluck with your dad.
Ok first of all relax. You wouldn't want to stress your self out. Personally I think you're too young to own a child. But if you are "REALLY" sure you and your boyfriend want this baby, I would tell your mum first. Yore dad was most promising just being a dad and threatening you not to have a child at a immature age. He would never deport you! I would wait until you are 18 before you tell them. Simply because they hold no control over you. Also see a nearby hospital and ask your doctor for advice. If you decide to enjoy the baby I hope it is healthy and happy one :)
Hope I help
ur dad is not gonna kill u or your bf...thats his grandchild.. he'll be mad but he'll get hold of over it, u better keep it
I vote Japan!
No really - first the scolding. What are you thinking at 17 getting pregnant? You're not even old enough to support yourself let alone a child.
And on to the answer..
Sit him down and detail him straight up. Tell him when you're ready, don't rush it. Let him know that you're scared and all that - any parent would right to be heard they'll be angry if you get pregnant, but when it comes down to it they will be supportive and understanding.
okkkk .. that sucks 4 u just tell your dad the truth and dont depart the country
Parents say a lot of things to startle you so you dont do something. I was always told I was getting luggage for my 18th birthday because thats when I be supposed to be out and they were done supporting me but when it was time for me to actually live on my own they looked-for me home! You have to tell your dad. Be strong for his first reaction afterwards he will get over it and Im sure try to help you. How are his parents? Where is your mother?
I know anything like that can make you surface scared to tell a parent.
Does your boyfriends parents know your pregnant?
Maybe you can have them articulate to your father. Or
Have all of your parents and tell them at once. At least you will not be alone. One of your parents will support your edict.
Please call the health and human services to get the medical & support you will entail for your child. WICS or Food Stamps.
ok hun. yea you should be scared,shoulda kept your legs closed..but he cant make you donate the country
as for being 17..i can relate. ]: i just had infant number 2 on July 4th..so if you need to talk or need advice/support my aim is xhunterxmayx chat me up there[; i will be glad to backing you
You seem like your set on having this infant. which is good if you really want it and can do right by it, if you cant, dont hav it!.
really this is a life and a child... who will grow up to be just close to you one day. please make the right decision.
you dad will concordat with it and im sure he will help you out .. and hes hardly going to be horrible to you if your preganant is he ?
you can do this if you want to.
But you dont enjoy to.
think well and think vigorous.
i hope that everything works out . x
Just be honest and talk to him in a very become fully grown manning, I don't think he will hurt his pregnant daughter and if he kills your boyfriend he will turn to jail. LOL It's scary but you can do it.
guam
First of all don't listen to those people who voice ur stupid because ur not accidents happen..tell ur father the truth and if he get upset maybe go to one of those teen pregnancy places.Its going to be okay this is just a bump on aroad call life
oh stop, he won't make you donate the country. he CAN'T
he'll just have to accept it, or y9ou'll own to get a job to get an apartment, and support that kid. Ask facilitate from your other relatives or friends
But don't be so naive to think that your Dad can and will actually sort you leave the counrty
It's adjectives your fault and nobody Else's your boyfriend could leave your today but you know what your still stuck with the tot. but move to a different state FAR away and say bye bye daddy
Answers: First of all, relax!
1) You should know that your Dad will always love you. Dads are very protective over their daughters, and he will surely be upset to some scope. He may be furious, and may even scream and yell. In spite of this, he will still love you and still want your happiness above adjectives else. Dads have little choice but to accept that their little girls are growing up, and that you will someday leave them. With that said, try to get that his anger is understandable to a degree.
2) When you are ready to report him, make sure that you are alone. You do not want to bring the Father of the baby into the picture at this point, even if he is willing. Sit down beside your Dad alone and tell him the news. Make sure that you are willing to be truthful beside him regardless of past lies that you may have told him. Betrayal is not a good article when you are telling your Dad something so important. Explain to him how you feel almost the situation and listen to his advice.
3) Telling your Dad your are pregnant as a teenager is not a normal entity for a Dad to expect, so it will take a bit of time for most fathers to accept it and process it. Give them the space to do so, and be within when he has questions or just requirements to talk. He is sure to want to know details of the situation, and you should be willing to give him those you are comfortable beside. He will inevitably feel as though he did something wrong, or was not there for you when he should enjoy been.
4) Over time, telling your Dad you are pregnant will be a good entry. Dad will eventually come around, and sometimes it turns out much better than you might expect. The vast majority of Dads want only for their kids to be happy, and undamaging. If you can show him that you are both, then he will ease his stance somewhat over time.
if his bday is coming up...sing happy birthday dear GRANDPA that is a very suttle course to bring it up and wont be that aquard if he knows he will be a grandpa
tell him when you are 18 so you will be an adult and you can do what ever you want. he can't control you or anyone else after 18 years old. but procure married to the father too, cuz it isn't fair to that baby to not be raised next to a father.
CANADA!
Honestly, if you're that afraid, get a quickie hitch to your bf.
Only if you love him though.
umm idk it is his fault if he gt u prego but move to north caarolina!! theres no1 there!! hope i help!!
~ best of wishes~
You should enjoy closed your legs and just made kisses.
Don't be afraid. Your parents love you no matter what. Don't walk out the country (i hope he was kidding). I'm sure you ARE going to be a great parents. Just don't be scared! Keep living your life! Prove to your Dad that you are in place to be a parent. Just don't storm off.
wow
oh gosh
close your legs!! STUPID
your dad will undrstand he just said thatt make you anxious so you dont get prego but just in baggage when you tell him make sure your boyfriend isnt there and yourmom is within the room
OK, here it is...
this is hard to say but if you live in the US
you should move to a country that you speak the dialogue to, (french= canada, spanish= spain etc.) also if you think he will KILL your boyfreind, you have to get out of in that ASAP! and if you leave the country still stay in contact with your dad within case he is sympathetic, but when you mail him DO NOT give a return address... also, you might want to, when you donate, leave a note explaining everything, also you might want to (once you leave town) receive a job to help pay for bills.
and on countries again here are my recomendations: canada, france, england, italy, spain,
Hope this help...
Its not only you b/f's fault, unless he acted w/o your consent! It pocket two to make a baby. Your as much responsible as your b/f. He may be pizzed, but these things happen. Birth control ... so under-rated!
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