How to accord near abortion?
I'm so sorry you are dealing with this situation. I don't instinctively know how it feels to go through an abortion but I know how it feels to lose a pregnancy and it hurts. I'm sorry your boyfriend is not in attendance for you but he doesn't seem worth your time hun esp since he does not want to be there for you in this passionate time. You can only take it day by hours of daylight but you have to realize that things will be better and you dont need any of these people who are not near to support you and be there for you - family included. Google abortion support groups - i know there are oodles girls in your shoes who need a friend. ask your counselor if there are any around you. No one will " bring back it" like you do b/c everyone would deal with things different, but hold on to seeing her or find another person to talk to.
Do not keep defeat yourself up over it. It is a sad thing you had to do but it have happened and you can not let it keep you from moving forward. One sunshine you will find a guy who will respect you and treat you like a princess and you will wonder why you ever cared for the jerk who isn't nearby for you now. I know you have got to be premonition all kinds of things right now and words won't sooth them but love yourself and keep hold of trying ok
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I know its a rough time..
But..
You used to be that baby..
Imagine if you never came into this world..You wouldn't have asked that give somebody the third degree.
I believe..abortion shouldn't be an option.
If you really want the baby gone..put him/her up for adoption.
you basically made the rough time yourself.
having an abortion & killing a inlet is not the right thing to do.
your going to fell guilt the rest of your life
thats the biggest mistake you could possibly make.
but i know its thorny but if you dont get back together soon you mite have to verbs.
ps- not being mean or anything but your going to get alot of criticism because you have an abortion=( =( .
Hey..To be honest, I understand completely what you are going through. Me and my bf have been together for over 2 years, and we loved eachother so much that we tried for a child. It took us about 11 months, and I finally got pregnant last summer, but I be only 17. The joy and happiness of finally self pregnant was so overwhelming,my life couldn't be better. I was around 6 and 1/2 weeks pregnant when we finally told our parents...but they automatically freaked out and said we were too young and we just could not hold the baby. His parents told him that if I did not get an abortion, they would never let me see him again. I be so torn and scared, but I couldn't loose him..I loved him too much. I decided to go ahead and enjoy an abortion (against my own will) 11 months of trying for a baby down the drain. What really helped me get through those subsequent painful months might also help you. What you should do is think almost all the things you did before and after you knew you be pregnant. Think about all the feelings you have about being pregnant...how excited and happy you be. Remember that your baby is in heaven contained by a good place, and you will eventually have another one. But no baby will ever replace the first. I am 18 years elderly now, and after a painful 6 months of trying for another baby (we tried again more or less 4 months after the abortion) I just found out I am gonna be a mommy a few days ago. Just explain to your bf that loosing a baby takes a big toll on a woman. All the vibrations of regret and guilt and loosing something that was inside of you is hard to deal beside. Tell him all you need is some support with going through these tough times. Trust me, everything will be okay. Things will go and get better..and you will be able to have another baby formerly you know it. Just stay strong and think about that baby once within a while. If you need to talk about anything, simply send me a message. I hope everything turns out better for you.
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