How oodles abortions is too abundant?
so my niece was 16 got preggers, my sister and husband and the boys parents talked her into an abortion. 3 months following she is pregnant again. by the same boy. my suggestion is to disown her since she cant listen. they disagree. what do you think?
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It doesn't really matter what anyone else thinks; whether or not she abort and how often she does it is between her and her doctors. It's really not up for a vote.
She's young, impulsive, and stupid. Denying her parental guidance and influence isn't going to season her or make her smarter. Everyone makes messes in their lives, it's expected and her parents appear to know that - doesn't mean they approve or are particularly proud of it, but she's their kid. You don't turn your back on your kid.
In my experience, the sort of person who has an abortion is usually doing the right thing. Some people's lives are more messed up than you can believe, and by choosing to fetch the child it's almost guaranteed to end with birth defects, physical verbal abuse, poverty, emotional breakdowns, dangerous family dynamics etc etc.
Point is; it's not for you to wish what this girl does with her life. And it's not helpful for you to enlighten her parents they should give up on their child. If you can't support your family, then butt out. They clearly hold enough to deal with.
You are a terrible creature.
uhm, u dont inevitability to disown her "because she wont listen" u need to get her to the doctor and get her on birth control, and a method to make sure she takes it is to get her on the shots that are every 3 months, only go with her to make sure she in actuality gets it
and btw, too many abortions (even just one) can create perminant inferitlity, so in my opinion, one is too many
Good article she isnt your daughter. I doubt you listened any better than her.
I say let her get her own decision on the matter.
One is to many! what's wrong with you people? I be a young mother and busted my *** for my baby, no it wasn't right, being so immature but at least i didn't MURDER my baby. She needs birth controll and a upright *** beating.
one is too many
make her wear a t-shirt that says, "I've gotten pregant twice, should I abort the second?", around the precinct or something and have her take suggestions.
That may help her listen
As long as she is contained by the first trimester (to 12 weeks) it is perfectly safe to go hold a legal competent abortion. My question is why you are not helping her to make virtuous decisions about having sex. She desires to go to planned parenthood and discuss birth control options and out of danger sex. Disowning her isn't going to solve anything. Getting help to keep this from happening again is the answer.
1 is too many. I am pregnant and 17 [and keeping my babe.] Why don't they "talk her into" taking some responsibility?
Answers: First of all, your niece's parents have need of to take some blame for their big- enough-to-know-she-is-doing daughter and though it is late they need to try to do what they unquestionably never did before.teach her some responsibility. Granted the first might have be as a result of ignorance but after her first, second, eighteenth abortions, that will come to her like throwing away any other kind of rubbish that just disappears into the bin forever, she is expected to still not have learned that lesson. Senseless acts close to a sixteen year old being sexually active and self taught that this can be fixed with an abortion, lead to the senseless conduct yourself of using abortion as her permanent method of birth control. By making her abort the first baby, still knowing how out of control she is and doing it again and again, they will in actuality teach her that she can be as irresponsible as she wants to be and it can always be "fixed" by her parents. As controversial as this is, I believe that abortion should be legalized but..only in cases where the circumstances are extenuating.. such as rape or the mother or child credible to die or be permanently mentally or physically damaged. I believe for any normal creature (no retardation, in your right mind and old enough to know what you are doing) to abort a pregnancy basically because you were playing dumb or too lazy or incompetent to use a piece of latex is just evil. To answer your request for information, one senseless abortion, like fixing a foolish sixteen year old girl who does not care to swot up her lesson and is old enough to know the difference between right and wrong is just too several already. Those parents obviously did not raise that child with any moral utility at all and continue to do so. both sets of parents and both boy and girl! And we wonder what is wrong with this society. Parents procure up off your asses and raise your children properly and we wouldn't have to own such debates!
None would be too many, but sit her down and gossip with her, what's the worst that could happen?
dont disown her just take her to the doctor to get hold of an iud put in so she cant get pregnant
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ABORTIONS ARE TERRIBLE. YOU ARE KILLING UNBORN CHILDREN. CEASE THIS EVIL. Source(s): Years of Christianity.
TROLL.
firstly i say aloud 1 abortion is too many!!
it is taking a human life and it is awful but i will not go into that
but yeah the nearest and dearest should not disown her they should really be helping her and talking to her about safe sex.
I would suggest have the baby but that is my opinion hope it help ..
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It doesn't really matter what anyone else thinks; whether or not she abort and how often she does it is between her and her doctors. It's really not up for a vote.
She's young, impulsive, and stupid. Denying her parental guidance and influence isn't going to season her or make her smarter. Everyone makes messes in their lives, it's expected and her parents appear to know that - doesn't mean they approve or are particularly proud of it, but she's their kid. You don't turn your back on your kid.
In my experience, the sort of person who has an abortion is usually doing the right thing. Some people's lives are more messed up than you can believe, and by choosing to fetch the child it's almost guaranteed to end with birth defects, physical verbal abuse, poverty, emotional breakdowns, dangerous family dynamics etc etc.
Point is; it's not for you to wish what this girl does with her life. And it's not helpful for you to enlighten her parents they should give up on their child. If you can't support your family, then butt out. They clearly hold enough to deal with.
You are a terrible creature.
uhm, u dont inevitability to disown her "because she wont listen" u need to get her to the doctor and get her on birth control, and a method to make sure she takes it is to get her on the shots that are every 3 months, only go with her to make sure she in actuality gets it
and btw, too many abortions (even just one) can create perminant inferitlity, so in my opinion, one is too many
Good article she isnt your daughter. I doubt you listened any better than her.
I say let her get her own decision on the matter.
One is to many! what's wrong with you people? I be a young mother and busted my *** for my baby, no it wasn't right, being so immature but at least i didn't MURDER my baby. She needs birth controll and a upright *** beating.
one is too many
make her wear a t-shirt that says, "I've gotten pregant twice, should I abort the second?", around the precinct or something and have her take suggestions.
That may help her listen
As long as she is contained by the first trimester (to 12 weeks) it is perfectly safe to go hold a legal competent abortion. My question is why you are not helping her to make virtuous decisions about having sex. She desires to go to planned parenthood and discuss birth control options and out of danger sex. Disowning her isn't going to solve anything. Getting help to keep this from happening again is the answer.
1 is too many. I am pregnant and 17 [and keeping my babe.] Why don't they "talk her into" taking some responsibility?
Answers: First of all, your niece's parents have need of to take some blame for their big- enough-to-know-she-is-doing daughter and though it is late they need to try to do what they unquestionably never did before.teach her some responsibility. Granted the first might have be as a result of ignorance but after her first, second, eighteenth abortions, that will come to her like throwing away any other kind of rubbish that just disappears into the bin forever, she is expected to still not have learned that lesson. Senseless acts close to a sixteen year old being sexually active and self taught that this can be fixed with an abortion, lead to the senseless conduct yourself of using abortion as her permanent method of birth control. By making her abort the first baby, still knowing how out of control she is and doing it again and again, they will in actuality teach her that she can be as irresponsible as she wants to be and it can always be "fixed" by her parents. As controversial as this is, I believe that abortion should be legalized but..only in cases where the circumstances are extenuating.. such as rape or the mother or child credible to die or be permanently mentally or physically damaged. I believe for any normal creature (no retardation, in your right mind and old enough to know what you are doing) to abort a pregnancy basically because you were playing dumb or too lazy or incompetent to use a piece of latex is just evil. To answer your request for information, one senseless abortion, like fixing a foolish sixteen year old girl who does not care to swot up her lesson and is old enough to know the difference between right and wrong is just too several already. Those parents obviously did not raise that child with any moral utility at all and continue to do so. both sets of parents and both boy and girl! And we wonder what is wrong with this society. Parents procure up off your asses and raise your children properly and we wouldn't have to own such debates!
None would be too many, but sit her down and gossip with her, what's the worst that could happen?
dont disown her just take her to the doctor to get hold of an iud put in so she cant get pregnant
1
ABORTIONS ARE TERRIBLE. YOU ARE KILLING UNBORN CHILDREN. CEASE THIS EVIL. Source(s): Years of Christianity.
TROLL.
firstly i say aloud 1 abortion is too many!!
it is taking a human life and it is awful but i will not go into that
but yeah the nearest and dearest should not disown her they should really be helping her and talking to her about safe sex.
I would suggest have the baby but that is my opinion hope it help ..
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