A cross-question in the region of siblings?
I have one son. He is 6.5 months old. I spend all y time kind for him, taking him fun places, I have him on the waiting list (which is over 2 years long) for the premiere preschool in my state, and unsophisticatedly lavish my son with all the attention I can provide.
My issue is, I originally wanted a daughter as all right, and still kind of do, but as I watch my son, the less I ponder i need another child. My husband disagrees, as he also wants a daughter, and still does.
But with have only my son, I wonder, if we added another little darling, would I be able to spend alike amount of time with the new baby as I did near my son? Would my son feel rejected, with this new babe-in-arms for Mommy, (who is HIS mommy) to coo over and hug and cuddle? I know I wouldn't ignore my son, but with how much work babies demand, my atention would be randomly divided.
I was 5 when my mom had my first brother, and I was so overprotective, and was sure my parents didn't love me anymore now that they had their coveted son. I don't want to do that to my boy.
Is their an just the thing sibling separation age? Is there anything i can do if we do decide to try for a girl to make lasting my son isn't... damaged by the arrival of a sibling?
Answers: My sister and I are 8 years apart. I grew up, moved out at 17 and moved in with the man specifically now my husband and father of my 2 1/2 year old and 9 month old. My sister is the star surrounded by everything. When I was 18 my parents divorced and my father married his 'friend' (I like to call her another name). He never kept contained by contact with me and we became estranged until I got a phone beckon in the middle of the night that he died. My sister moved in near him and his new wife at 16 when she could legally leave home because she's "daddy's girl". She's also surrounded by university that my father said was to be paid for if he died. I never got offered anything for academy or any other way. It has been almost her since she was born. I was a mistake and told by my parents often. She be planned. Oh well life goes on.
As for worrying give or take a few if your kids would be loved just the same by you or the same attention, I seriously wouldn't verbs and go ahead and have another baby. I needed a boy, had a girl at 24. She was so great. Smart and cute. While pregnant with my son I worried give or take a few favourtism, would I have enough for both in attention and love and money. I don't have a sneaking suspicion that you'd love your son more than your daughter because you went through that pain. I also don't think you'd love a daughter more than your son. I regard you'd figure it out and learn from your parent's mistake, like mine. My daughter is elder and we can go for walks and have conversations and spend time together. My son and I cuddle and read stories together. There are special things that get them individual and special and I spend time trying to encourage each of them in those areas where on earth they differ and where they are the same.
As your family grows, your love grows. My daughter is getting more territorial beside certain toys so we keep them for special times when my son is napping or for her playtime only. I'm not really getting into detail on this because it grows next to you and you'll make sense of it as it happens personally to you.
I wouldn't loaf for a few years between them because the more used they are to having their parents alone, the more difficult it is to adjust for them. I had mine really close together by accident and own never regreted it ever. She helps to change him, feed him and immediately they play together. She is the ONLY one to make him laugh so hard he have tears in his eyes. Watching my babies have such a close special bond unlike my sister and I breaks my heart because I wish I have it. I nurture it and encourage that closeness.
As for making sure he's not damaged by an arrival of a sibling, let him cuddle the belly. My daughter LOVED to cuddle my 'toddler belly'. She called him Carkle (Carl) because she couldn't say his name and immediately that's his nick name that everyone calls him. Include him surrounded by everything, from laundry to making art for his new siblings bedroom and tell him he's gotta help bear care of 'his baby'. My daughter says that about my son.
As for not self smart or intellegent or spending time with them, my daughter knows her ABC's, animals, counts to 20 and can draw people, rainbows, trees, sunshines and is severely advanced for her age. My son is walking around furniture and standing on his own, dancing, can say dada, mama, baba for bottle, ena (Phoenix for my daughter) nuh-na for food, nini for night darkness and points to your eyes, nose, mouth and ears when asked. He even goes to the door for nini and when he'd like to be outside go the the door and cries for it.
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My issue is, I originally wanted a daughter as all right, and still kind of do, but as I watch my son, the less I ponder i need another child. My husband disagrees, as he also wants a daughter, and still does.
But with have only my son, I wonder, if we added another little darling, would I be able to spend alike amount of time with the new baby as I did near my son? Would my son feel rejected, with this new babe-in-arms for Mommy, (who is HIS mommy) to coo over and hug and cuddle? I know I wouldn't ignore my son, but with how much work babies demand, my atention would be randomly divided.
I was 5 when my mom had my first brother, and I was so overprotective, and was sure my parents didn't love me anymore now that they had their coveted son. I don't want to do that to my boy.
Is their an just the thing sibling separation age? Is there anything i can do if we do decide to try for a girl to make lasting my son isn't... damaged by the arrival of a sibling?
Answers: My sister and I are 8 years apart. I grew up, moved out at 17 and moved in with the man specifically now my husband and father of my 2 1/2 year old and 9 month old. My sister is the star surrounded by everything. When I was 18 my parents divorced and my father married his 'friend' (I like to call her another name). He never kept contained by contact with me and we became estranged until I got a phone beckon in the middle of the night that he died. My sister moved in near him and his new wife at 16 when she could legally leave home because she's "daddy's girl". She's also surrounded by university that my father said was to be paid for if he died. I never got offered anything for academy or any other way. It has been almost her since she was born. I was a mistake and told by my parents often. She be planned. Oh well life goes on.
As for worrying give or take a few if your kids would be loved just the same by you or the same attention, I seriously wouldn't verbs and go ahead and have another baby. I needed a boy, had a girl at 24. She was so great. Smart and cute. While pregnant with my son I worried give or take a few favourtism, would I have enough for both in attention and love and money. I don't have a sneaking suspicion that you'd love your son more than your daughter because you went through that pain. I also don't think you'd love a daughter more than your son. I regard you'd figure it out and learn from your parent's mistake, like mine. My daughter is elder and we can go for walks and have conversations and spend time together. My son and I cuddle and read stories together. There are special things that get them individual and special and I spend time trying to encourage each of them in those areas where on earth they differ and where they are the same.
As your family grows, your love grows. My daughter is getting more territorial beside certain toys so we keep them for special times when my son is napping or for her playtime only. I'm not really getting into detail on this because it grows next to you and you'll make sense of it as it happens personally to you.
I wouldn't loaf for a few years between them because the more used they are to having their parents alone, the more difficult it is to adjust for them. I had mine really close together by accident and own never regreted it ever. She helps to change him, feed him and immediately they play together. She is the ONLY one to make him laugh so hard he have tears in his eyes. Watching my babies have such a close special bond unlike my sister and I breaks my heart because I wish I have it. I nurture it and encourage that closeness.
As for making sure he's not damaged by an arrival of a sibling, let him cuddle the belly. My daughter LOVED to cuddle my 'toddler belly'. She called him Carkle (Carl) because she couldn't say his name and immediately that's his nick name that everyone calls him. Include him surrounded by everything, from laundry to making art for his new siblings bedroom and tell him he's gotta help bear care of 'his baby'. My daughter says that about my son.
As for not self smart or intellegent or spending time with them, my daughter knows her ABC's, animals, counts to 20 and can draw people, rainbows, trees, sunshines and is severely advanced for her age. My son is walking around furniture and standing on his own, dancing, can say dada, mama, baba for bottle, ena (Phoenix for my daughter) nuh-na for food, nini for night darkness and points to your eyes, nose, mouth and ears when asked. He even goes to the door for nini and when he'd like to be outside go the the door and cries for it.
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