I HAVE A QUESTION FOR ALL YOU YOUNG MOTHERS WHO GOT PREGNANT IN YOUR TEENS [15-19yrs old]?
hi, my name is jennifer and im 17 and a senior in high arts school.
i love kids and cant wait to have my own.my boyfriend [who is 18 and graduated already] of 2 years also desires children too but we're not planning to get pregnant anytime soon because honestly,we're a little scared of whether or not we can do it. this is something that we've looked-for for about a year now.
we do understand that it would be difficult & we would enjoy to sacrifice alot & we're okay with it.
i know im going to get alot of answers like "DONT GET PREGNANT,YOU'LL RUIN YOUR LIFE" and stuff similar to that but thats not what im looking for so please dont.
i was just wondering.
how hard be it getting pregnant at that age?
was everyone supportive?
did you finish school?
did you stay with the father?
and a short time ago in general,how difficult was it and do you regret getting pregnant so immature?
thanks for all your answers =)
Ok i'm 12 ( no kids no boyfriend) but I hold a little sis who I practically take care of full time (mom's other working) and I used to like kids and want kids till my mom had her so I guess it all depends if you hold the money, the Patience and the mind (I literally broke down crying once because I couldn't handle her) You gotta ask yourself can you really handle it
Having a child even with financial security and support is strong, but can be extremely rewarding.
Your queries to other young mums will give you some notion of what is ahead so that you will have some understanding of the pros and cons.
If you still think have a baby is worth the sacrifice, it is your decision, and good luck.
I am obviously not in your required group of responders, but I'd say that you need to be at least more than financially stable and own your own place before trying to have a child. Best answer here.
Have never been pregnant myself but have impregnated numerous women I feel that I am very qualified to answer this press.
Getting pregnant is not hard at all. All it takes is rather sweet talking, the right opportunity and a few wine coolers.
I'm 19 yrs frail and 16 weeks pregnant. I had to drop out of school (tech school,not highschool,i be studying to be a web designer). But the pregnancy has put a bit of stress on my relationship with the father as you would be amazed how different it is when it actualy happen as opposed to when your just imagining it.We agreed we needed it long before it happened too (wev been together 2 years).My mother have been very supportive thank god,lol.This was an unplanned pregnancy (as i own endomitriosis and was told it was very unlikly i'd ever obtain pregnant i was a bit lax on the protection with the father because we are commited to eachother and had confirmed a long time ago we be both "healthy"). The father and i have a few more fights then we used to but be making it,we still love eachother more then ever and love our unborn baby more then go.I dont regret getting pregnant and i'm not ashamed because i can honestly say this baby was made from love. i havent have the full experiance yet because i havnt givin birth yet but i can say in attendance are downsides. I've never been in so much pain contained by my life first of all,i get muscle contractions almost every daytime (its worse for me then normal women because im 5'4" and only presently 100lbs,was 92lbs when i got pregnant). I did have morning sickness but thats mostly gone immediately. I'm very very tired most the day and enjoy to be careful getting up as pregnancy can cause low blood pressure which in turn cause dizzy spells and sometimes fainting. I used to get horrible heart burn too but thats mostly gone now. Im markedly hormonal and get bad mood swings which makes it intricate sometimes on the father. And,of course,theres a LOT of pressure on the father get everything ready for the little one to arrive (financialy i mean) and i'm pretty scared sometimes of being a mother,its so easy to crinkle,you know? So basicly,its happy and wonderful but its hard and very sensitive and scary.I've seen Juno and Knocked Up about a thousand times and i can transmit you right now its nothing at all approaching that,not even close,they were stunningly innacurate almost to the point of lieing.But today the father and i were laying contained by bed and he put his hand on my lower tummy and for the first time he got to feel his babe-in-arms kick his finger and we held eachother and grinned and laughed.There are ups and downs,just give somebody a lift all of this into consideration.
If you were matured enough to have kids you would realize how even thinking about it at your age or even dreaming that you would still be next to the father in decades is absurd.
Answers: i'm still in college, but i'm going to finish. im still with the father. honestly, 17 is not a good age to have a toddler. you're way too young to start a family. it's not as trouble-free as it seems...
Yes, Pavel, yes.
I be a young mom. And single. I never asked for child support I just lived and moved on with my duration. It was hard. I had to grow up hurried. But I was able to graduate and get through college. If I know then what I know now and wasn't so clueless I would have never chose to lay down beside anyone. Let alone not use protection. In your case. Don't make it hard. Wait until you guys are financially competent to support your child. If you have plans on going to college do that now. When the time is right have the kid. Because it really is hard. Be smart.
I got pregnant at 19 and delivered my daughter eight days after my 20th birthday. She is honestly the best thing that have EVER happened to me. Just a warning, my daughter’s father and I started dating the beginning of our senior and lived together for almost a year in the past I got pregnant. I thought he was my soul mate and he would always influence that we would be together forever no matter what. Well, once my belly started getting big, and I had a condition that caused my cervix to shorten prematurely. My doctor put me on partial bed rest and I wasn't allowed to enjoy sex. Well, needless to say, he followed his pecker. He cheated on me from the time I was 8 months pregnant and after she be born. She had a lot of complications during delivery and concluded up being in the NICU for 2 weeks. During that time, I packed up adjectives of my stuff as well as hers and moved in with my dad. Long story short, I enjoy basically been the only parent to her. He is starting to come around for a while more and spends time with her. But, I love being a single parent. I work full time and I am going back to nursing academy in the fall. The only direction I have is to make sure you always own a back up plan. You are the only one you should rely on. When asked the question, if I could do anything differently? The answer would be surely nothing. I am so much of a stronger person now and I hope in the future my daughter will appreciate all that I have done for her.
Good luck with everything!!
i got my girlfriend pregnant at that age and be married now...but since she couldnt go to school make happen she had to take care of the child, she is necessarily a permanent stay home mom
im 15 and pregnant. the father has no clue and wont know because it was an acident and we arnt friends any more but my best friend and i are unfolding everyone he is the father hes 18 and a senior so hes alot of help to me. my friends are great suport too. i plan on finishing school and going to try to go to clooege
and in actual fact it wasnt hard at all not to sound similar to a slut but ive been pregnant twice before both miscarried.
and no i dont regret it it actaully helped me beside my alcohol problem
good luck with whatever you do :) Source(s): 15 and pregnant :)
how hard was it getting pregnant at that age?
i be raped and got pregnant when i was 17
was everyone supportive?
my inherited was but everyone in my school be spreading bad rumors about what had happen (execpt my friends) that includes teachers.
did you finish school?
yes i graduated.
did you stay next to the father?
i was raped so no.
and just in nonspecific,how difficult was it and do you regret getting pregnant so young?
yes i wish i wouldn't of gotten pregnant at such a immature age but i was raped so it's not like it was my verdict.
i got pregnant at 16 and have my daughter at 17. it was pretty hard, the looks and snide comments you get are pretty hurtful. i used to can`t stand the fact that people in a civilized profession didn't think that younger mums can look after a baby properly.
how hard be it getting pregnant at that age? hard because of ignorant people, my kid was the easy part
be everyone supportive? to be honest, no not really. and that includes family
did you finish school? yes, i technically was finished university before i even conceived. but i went onto college to study accountancy after my LO was born.
did you stay near the father? we got married and had another child. in total we be together 6 years. we are now divorced and i'm getting married to my true soulmate
and just in common,how difficult was it and do you regret getting pregnant so young? all i ever considered necessary to be was a mum, so no i don't regret it for a second- in fact i'd do it adjectives again. having a baby is hard no issue what age the mother is. you don't know what curve balls life can throw at you (i know, both my kids were born near a disability). it depends on the maturity level of the individual, age is only a number
To be completely honest, it will be fundamentally hard at that age as you are still a kid yourself. No one in your school will support you because everyone within high school has their own agenda and their own problems... so no distinctly no supporters not ever your best friends. You will probably not finish school depending on the time you get/got pregnant. And the fact of the matter is you don't know what love is. You ruminate that because you've been with this kid, yes kid because he may be considered an adult by decree but he will not have the mentality of an adult until he's at least 25, for two years that he's your soul mate and you are in position to combine your lives FOREVER by blood but what is your financial support? What is HIS financial support? Where will you live? How will your family take it? Are you ready to distribute up your future? How will you get around? Chances are that he will not stay with you because he is still uncharitable and immature and will want to go to college/have a life and will not stand by you, be surrounded by the baby's life, or want to provide for child support. Please think about the consequences since you go through the action.
Why can't you wait to have a newborn?
I mean come on.
have fun with that.
Whore.
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i love kids and cant wait to have my own.my boyfriend [who is 18 and graduated already] of 2 years also desires children too but we're not planning to get pregnant anytime soon because honestly,we're a little scared of whether or not we can do it. this is something that we've looked-for for about a year now.
we do understand that it would be difficult & we would enjoy to sacrifice alot & we're okay with it.
i know im going to get alot of answers like "DONT GET PREGNANT,YOU'LL RUIN YOUR LIFE" and stuff similar to that but thats not what im looking for so please dont.
i was just wondering.
how hard be it getting pregnant at that age?
was everyone supportive?
did you finish school?
did you stay with the father?
and a short time ago in general,how difficult was it and do you regret getting pregnant so immature?
thanks for all your answers =)
Ok i'm 12 ( no kids no boyfriend) but I hold a little sis who I practically take care of full time (mom's other working) and I used to like kids and want kids till my mom had her so I guess it all depends if you hold the money, the Patience and the mind (I literally broke down crying once because I couldn't handle her) You gotta ask yourself can you really handle it
Having a child even with financial security and support is strong, but can be extremely rewarding.
Your queries to other young mums will give you some notion of what is ahead so that you will have some understanding of the pros and cons.
If you still think have a baby is worth the sacrifice, it is your decision, and good luck.
I am obviously not in your required group of responders, but I'd say that you need to be at least more than financially stable and own your own place before trying to have a child. Best answer here.
Have never been pregnant myself but have impregnated numerous women I feel that I am very qualified to answer this press.
Getting pregnant is not hard at all. All it takes is rather sweet talking, the right opportunity and a few wine coolers.
I'm 19 yrs frail and 16 weeks pregnant. I had to drop out of school (tech school,not highschool,i be studying to be a web designer). But the pregnancy has put a bit of stress on my relationship with the father as you would be amazed how different it is when it actualy happen as opposed to when your just imagining it.We agreed we needed it long before it happened too (wev been together 2 years).My mother have been very supportive thank god,lol.This was an unplanned pregnancy (as i own endomitriosis and was told it was very unlikly i'd ever obtain pregnant i was a bit lax on the protection with the father because we are commited to eachother and had confirmed a long time ago we be both "healthy"). The father and i have a few more fights then we used to but be making it,we still love eachother more then ever and love our unborn baby more then go.I dont regret getting pregnant and i'm not ashamed because i can honestly say this baby was made from love. i havent have the full experiance yet because i havnt givin birth yet but i can say in attendance are downsides. I've never been in so much pain contained by my life first of all,i get muscle contractions almost every daytime (its worse for me then normal women because im 5'4" and only presently 100lbs,was 92lbs when i got pregnant). I did have morning sickness but thats mostly gone immediately. I'm very very tired most the day and enjoy to be careful getting up as pregnancy can cause low blood pressure which in turn cause dizzy spells and sometimes fainting. I used to get horrible heart burn too but thats mostly gone now. Im markedly hormonal and get bad mood swings which makes it intricate sometimes on the father. And,of course,theres a LOT of pressure on the father get everything ready for the little one to arrive (financialy i mean) and i'm pretty scared sometimes of being a mother,its so easy to crinkle,you know? So basicly,its happy and wonderful but its hard and very sensitive and scary.I've seen Juno and Knocked Up about a thousand times and i can transmit you right now its nothing at all approaching that,not even close,they were stunningly innacurate almost to the point of lieing.But today the father and i were laying contained by bed and he put his hand on my lower tummy and for the first time he got to feel his babe-in-arms kick his finger and we held eachother and grinned and laughed.There are ups and downs,just give somebody a lift all of this into consideration.
If you were matured enough to have kids you would realize how even thinking about it at your age or even dreaming that you would still be next to the father in decades is absurd.
Answers: i'm still in college, but i'm going to finish. im still with the father. honestly, 17 is not a good age to have a toddler. you're way too young to start a family. it's not as trouble-free as it seems...
Yes, Pavel, yes.
I be a young mom. And single. I never asked for child support I just lived and moved on with my duration. It was hard. I had to grow up hurried. But I was able to graduate and get through college. If I know then what I know now and wasn't so clueless I would have never chose to lay down beside anyone. Let alone not use protection. In your case. Don't make it hard. Wait until you guys are financially competent to support your child. If you have plans on going to college do that now. When the time is right have the kid. Because it really is hard. Be smart.
I got pregnant at 19 and delivered my daughter eight days after my 20th birthday. She is honestly the best thing that have EVER happened to me. Just a warning, my daughter’s father and I started dating the beginning of our senior and lived together for almost a year in the past I got pregnant. I thought he was my soul mate and he would always influence that we would be together forever no matter what. Well, once my belly started getting big, and I had a condition that caused my cervix to shorten prematurely. My doctor put me on partial bed rest and I wasn't allowed to enjoy sex. Well, needless to say, he followed his pecker. He cheated on me from the time I was 8 months pregnant and after she be born. She had a lot of complications during delivery and concluded up being in the NICU for 2 weeks. During that time, I packed up adjectives of my stuff as well as hers and moved in with my dad. Long story short, I enjoy basically been the only parent to her. He is starting to come around for a while more and spends time with her. But, I love being a single parent. I work full time and I am going back to nursing academy in the fall. The only direction I have is to make sure you always own a back up plan. You are the only one you should rely on. When asked the question, if I could do anything differently? The answer would be surely nothing. I am so much of a stronger person now and I hope in the future my daughter will appreciate all that I have done for her.
Good luck with everything!!
i got my girlfriend pregnant at that age and be married now...but since she couldnt go to school make happen she had to take care of the child, she is necessarily a permanent stay home mom
im 15 and pregnant. the father has no clue and wont know because it was an acident and we arnt friends any more but my best friend and i are unfolding everyone he is the father hes 18 and a senior so hes alot of help to me. my friends are great suport too. i plan on finishing school and going to try to go to clooege
and in actual fact it wasnt hard at all not to sound similar to a slut but ive been pregnant twice before both miscarried.
and no i dont regret it it actaully helped me beside my alcohol problem
good luck with whatever you do :) Source(s): 15 and pregnant :)
how hard was it getting pregnant at that age?
i be raped and got pregnant when i was 17
was everyone supportive?
my inherited was but everyone in my school be spreading bad rumors about what had happen (execpt my friends) that includes teachers.
did you finish school?
yes i graduated.
did you stay next to the father?
i was raped so no.
and just in nonspecific,how difficult was it and do you regret getting pregnant so young?
yes i wish i wouldn't of gotten pregnant at such a immature age but i was raped so it's not like it was my verdict.
i got pregnant at 16 and have my daughter at 17. it was pretty hard, the looks and snide comments you get are pretty hurtful. i used to can`t stand the fact that people in a civilized profession didn't think that younger mums can look after a baby properly.
how hard be it getting pregnant at that age? hard because of ignorant people, my kid was the easy part
be everyone supportive? to be honest, no not really. and that includes family
did you finish school? yes, i technically was finished university before i even conceived. but i went onto college to study accountancy after my LO was born.
did you stay near the father? we got married and had another child. in total we be together 6 years. we are now divorced and i'm getting married to my true soulmate
and just in common,how difficult was it and do you regret getting pregnant so young? all i ever considered necessary to be was a mum, so no i don't regret it for a second- in fact i'd do it adjectives again. having a baby is hard no issue what age the mother is. you don't know what curve balls life can throw at you (i know, both my kids were born near a disability). it depends on the maturity level of the individual, age is only a number
To be completely honest, it will be fundamentally hard at that age as you are still a kid yourself. No one in your school will support you because everyone within high school has their own agenda and their own problems... so no distinctly no supporters not ever your best friends. You will probably not finish school depending on the time you get/got pregnant. And the fact of the matter is you don't know what love is. You ruminate that because you've been with this kid, yes kid because he may be considered an adult by decree but he will not have the mentality of an adult until he's at least 25, for two years that he's your soul mate and you are in position to combine your lives FOREVER by blood but what is your financial support? What is HIS financial support? Where will you live? How will your family take it? Are you ready to distribute up your future? How will you get around? Chances are that he will not stay with you because he is still uncharitable and immature and will want to go to college/have a life and will not stand by you, be surrounded by the baby's life, or want to provide for child support. Please think about the consequences since you go through the action.
Why can't you wait to have a newborn?
I mean come on.
have fun with that.
Whore.
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