Child support/ Child custody?

I need some answers here... I went in to receive child support on june 10,2009 and my ex went in and filled for 50/50 custody quality newspaper work on june 12,2009 and he is saying that my child support papers are not going to go threw because he went to the court and it's already contained by the courts. So how do I get things back in my hand? He tells me I wont get anything and if I don't Summit my things into court then I enjoy to go by what he says and it is going to cost me 150 and I don't know how to get that wave since I take care of my son and do everything I can for him and his father has not be here that much for him. He has only been here for 7 mo of energy and on and off for the last year. I need lend a hand and I need answers I'm new to all of this and I hold no clue how to make sure my son is where he needs to be and to sort sure my son doesn't get pulled around. I feel that this is out of my hands in a minute and I wont get help and feel that his father is doing this so he wont own to pay for anything on our son.
Do what Canadian women do. File a false deposition claiming the husband sexually abused the children. The courts don't view it as a slouch they look at it as a false positive. Which is he is quilty until he proves hes not. Once these papers are in the court calls for an automatic doctors assessment. This gets things backbone in your hands. Then you claim full custody and child support. You will get everything you want and a restraining instruct which will completely remove them from his life.
Once the dust settles and he spends 80,000 bucks for lawyers hes broke and you have the kids. He ends up probably committing suicide or itinerant. You win. Don' t worry about the cops they don't charge women with perjury. Its a spend in dribs and drabs of their time. If you want a precedent case I can give you that on request. Let me know how you make out. In Canada you win even if the guys a minister of the church. I have this happen to a minister friend of mine. 10 years later and hes still having problems from it. Go procure em girl
From what I know, if at hand is shared joint custody then there is no child support involved because this scheme you will have your son for (let's say) a week and then alternate weeks with your son's Father. The singular reason why you may be receiving child support now is because he doesn't look in with your son often. Depending on all circumstances, your son's Father may or may not hold a case with modifying custody.
Answers:    50/50 custody is better for the child, though I see you see it as detrimental to your financial future. As for child support, even sole custody fathers are ordered to income child support, so nothing is certain.

Counter with Bird Nest custody.
http://cabaraoke.newsvine.com/_news/2009…
1. whoever has custody.. physical of the children.. when the case is file usually ends up with them

2. get a lawyer.. you can any be the one who has to pay the jackpot lottery to the person who have stolen your kids from you.. or you can be the one collecting the jackpot lottery and have your kids iwth y8ou..

you cannot afford not to have a lawyer.. as much as they suck.

capture a lawyer.. and lett he lawyer screw your husband for his fee's.
Why are you all playing games near this child's life? You don't want shared custody so you can get child support from him and he wants shared custody so he doesn't own to pay child support to you. You both are playing the system and making us taxpayers pay for it cause neither of you requests to pay for the child you have.

If you share custody then expenses are shared evenly as resourcefully. Be adults and move on.

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