Baby Or No Baby At 16?
Recently a few of my mates have been getting pregnant,and ive be thinkin about how stupid they've been. But none of them are keeping their baby except from one. But i've be thinkin about wanting one, and i know im only 16, but its just the thought of have something that will always be a part of you and the person you love. I know it can mess up your life span and future but that doesnt really bother me. My boyfriends 17 and he said if i were to be pregnant then he would other be there for me and support me with whatever i desire to do. He works as a chef, and earns quite good money for his age. But im starting to chew over i really want to have a baby. What do i do?
Wait. If you are 16 the individual you love will change, trust me. You say that you know having a child can mess up your life & future but you don't care...that itself say you are not ready to take care of & love a child at the dimensions they deserve to be loved & cared for at. Wait.
If you are not married, you should not be have sex or babies. Wait until you have someone mature and able to provide for a kith and kin, commit yourselves in marriage, and then be intimate and yak about a baby.
Being young isn't necessarily a object not to have a baby. My first was born when I be 18 almost 19, but I had been married for a year. Wait until you have that commitment.
Right now you are envious and since so many of your friends are getting pregnant it looks resembling the cool thing to do. Just wait til your one friend that's keeping the baby have to miss her prom because she can't get a babysitter, can't go to the mall beside the girls because her last dime was spent on diapers, either have to drop out of school or come into school with stacks under her eyes because the daddy that said, "Oh yes, of course I'll stick around" is no longer in the picture and instead is out beside his buddies so she has to be up all night near a colicy baby. Trust me, it's not all that it's cracked up to be. If your boyfriend is so great then he should be what's loving you right very soon, you shouldn't need a baby for that! I'm not trying to be mean, I've only been there. I got pregnant near my first baby when I was 16. He's 5 now and I love him near all of my heart but I know that I could have provided for him better had I be older and had a steady job. Luckily for me and him, his dad (my husband now) stayed around and because of him and a deeply supportive family I was able to finish large school, but not every girl gets this lucky. Now, I'm 22 and am just immediately getting a chance to go back to university for nursing. Most of my friends are done with college, making really good money and are just very soon starting their families. I hate to sound resembling I regret my son because I don't, he's the best thing that ever happened to me but I don't want any young girl or stand-up boy to hold to struggle like we did to get where we are today.
Please keep on, you'll appreciate it in the end!
Talk about it more with your parents and boyfriend together. Whats going to be impossible about this? What are the pros and cons about doing this? Then if you really feel resembling it should happen then do it.
Answers: "I know it can mess up your life and adjectives but that doesnt really bother me"
Wow, awesome attitude.
I had a baby at 16 and my boyfriend was 17 who said matching b/s.
I remember thinking I had things all figured out at that age... Im 21 presently and I had no idea how much more maturing I had to do.
WAIT! what is your rush? These are not dolls we are discussion about.
what happens when the baby won't stop crying, you don't enjoy money for dinner and your baby's dad is out and has his cell phone turned off so he can ignore you? But hang around... that won't happen to you right? You're different. And if it does. "I know it can mess up your life and future but that doesnt really bother me" right?
you should wait, finish school and get a dutiful job then think almost having a baby. you need to reckon of the child, how would you support it where would you and your child live, and what if you and your boyfriend dont work out? i got pregnant at 17 by accident markedly, and i love my son more than anything but if i could have waited i would have. once you enjoy a child your life now becomes your childs.you will not often get to see your friends anymore and if you do you will have to find a babysitter and just to be in motion to the store is more difficult, there is so much you have to do when you have a child. a child is a blessing but nearby really is no reason to rush it.
Do NOT try to get pregnant that infantile. It's one thing to get pregnant...at that point whats done is done. But to TRY to get pregnant is simply stupid.
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Wait. If you are 16 the individual you love will change, trust me. You say that you know having a child can mess up your life & future but you don't care...that itself say you are not ready to take care of & love a child at the dimensions they deserve to be loved & cared for at. Wait.
If you are not married, you should not be have sex or babies. Wait until you have someone mature and able to provide for a kith and kin, commit yourselves in marriage, and then be intimate and yak about a baby.
Being young isn't necessarily a object not to have a baby. My first was born when I be 18 almost 19, but I had been married for a year. Wait until you have that commitment.
Right now you are envious and since so many of your friends are getting pregnant it looks resembling the cool thing to do. Just wait til your one friend that's keeping the baby have to miss her prom because she can't get a babysitter, can't go to the mall beside the girls because her last dime was spent on diapers, either have to drop out of school or come into school with stacks under her eyes because the daddy that said, "Oh yes, of course I'll stick around" is no longer in the picture and instead is out beside his buddies so she has to be up all night near a colicy baby. Trust me, it's not all that it's cracked up to be. If your boyfriend is so great then he should be what's loving you right very soon, you shouldn't need a baby for that! I'm not trying to be mean, I've only been there. I got pregnant near my first baby when I was 16. He's 5 now and I love him near all of my heart but I know that I could have provided for him better had I be older and had a steady job. Luckily for me and him, his dad (my husband now) stayed around and because of him and a deeply supportive family I was able to finish large school, but not every girl gets this lucky. Now, I'm 22 and am just immediately getting a chance to go back to university for nursing. Most of my friends are done with college, making really good money and are just very soon starting their families. I hate to sound resembling I regret my son because I don't, he's the best thing that ever happened to me but I don't want any young girl or stand-up boy to hold to struggle like we did to get where we are today.
Please keep on, you'll appreciate it in the end!
Talk about it more with your parents and boyfriend together. Whats going to be impossible about this? What are the pros and cons about doing this? Then if you really feel resembling it should happen then do it.
Answers: "I know it can mess up your life and adjectives but that doesnt really bother me"
Wow, awesome attitude.
I had a baby at 16 and my boyfriend was 17 who said matching b/s.
I remember thinking I had things all figured out at that age... Im 21 presently and I had no idea how much more maturing I had to do.
WAIT! what is your rush? These are not dolls we are discussion about.
what happens when the baby won't stop crying, you don't enjoy money for dinner and your baby's dad is out and has his cell phone turned off so he can ignore you? But hang around... that won't happen to you right? You're different. And if it does. "I know it can mess up your life and future but that doesnt really bother me" right?
you should wait, finish school and get a dutiful job then think almost having a baby. you need to reckon of the child, how would you support it where would you and your child live, and what if you and your boyfriend dont work out? i got pregnant at 17 by accident markedly, and i love my son more than anything but if i could have waited i would have. once you enjoy a child your life now becomes your childs.you will not often get to see your friends anymore and if you do you will have to find a babysitter and just to be in motion to the store is more difficult, there is so much you have to do when you have a child. a child is a blessing but nearby really is no reason to rush it.
Do NOT try to get pregnant that infantile. It's one thing to get pregnant...at that point whats done is done. But to TRY to get pregnant is simply stupid.
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