I'm a virtuous mother, right? Kinda Long, but pls read?
I just don't know what to do anymore. I feel that my child's father is mentally unstable. I cut off most communication next to him after he kept being violent and threatening me. I felt doomed to failure and still agreed to let him see our son and talk to him on the phone. We made arrangements three times for him to see him in which he never showed up. I own been in a relationship for a while and now am pregnant. Me and my partner get a place together and do plan on getting married. So my child's father found out that I am expecting, so he told me that he should have custody of my son because I'm having another baby. He doesn't know that I own my own place due to him stalking my mom's house when i stayed there. Now he's saying that he should come live with him for the summer because I'm expecting. Saying he should own his own room, in which he already does. He has recently moved and disallow to tell me his address and I think that he will never bring my son back if he lives near him for the summer. I said that he couldn't so now he's saying that I'm keeping him from him and won't let him come over, surrounded by which he was the one that didn't show to come get him those three times. I just get the impression like he's out to ruin my life as always. I own even prayed about this but nothing happens. He have been in and out of my son's life for olden times two years so why am I not a good parent to him just because I'm having another newborn. I have a full time job with correct benefits and going back to school to get my point. In which he doesn't even have a job, he has a hustle and stopped at getting his GED. So why is he making me out to be an unfit mother if I've other been here for my son? He feels just because he can present my son his own room that that's best for him and him not living with me anymore? Then he says it will give me time to bring on my feet, but how is he on his feet without a stable income. And I would enjoy never imagined going through this, this man is 32 yrs old and yes I am younger at 25 but I have tried to deal near him and don't know how much more I can take??
Answers: he's trying to get u upset! stop falling for it! you know you r a good mother and u know what munificent of father he is. ever heard that saying misery loves company? he's miserable and because u r happy in a minute, he wants u to b miserable too! he trying to push your buttons, ruffle your feathers..trying to get under your skin! stop giving him that power. if you don't estimate he would be a good role model for your son and u don't want him around, don't have him around. he may try to use ur son to get stern at u. BTW, yes you sound like u r a good mother.
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you are a good mother. Dont let him try to tell you any different he's only just trying to play the victim. My father dose the same thing and I'm so content my mother wouldn't let me go live with him( not that settle want to) you need to let him know that if he dosnt have the timeto see his son those three times that you own set it up then there's no way in hell he could hold the time to takecare of your son 24-7. And so what if he won't have his own room for a while he'll get use to it and most likely as your spanking new relationship grows you can buy a biger house
Dont let your ex stop you from moving on with yours and your sons life
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Answers: he's trying to get u upset! stop falling for it! you know you r a good mother and u know what munificent of father he is. ever heard that saying misery loves company? he's miserable and because u r happy in a minute, he wants u to b miserable too! he trying to push your buttons, ruffle your feathers..trying to get under your skin! stop giving him that power. if you don't estimate he would be a good role model for your son and u don't want him around, don't have him around. he may try to use ur son to get stern at u. BTW, yes you sound like u r a good mother.
appropriate luck,
peace and blessings Source(s): mom of eight
you are a good mother. Dont let him try to tell you any different he's only just trying to play the victim. My father dose the same thing and I'm so content my mother wouldn't let me go live with him( not that settle want to) you need to let him know that if he dosnt have the timeto see his son those three times that you own set it up then there's no way in hell he could hold the time to takecare of your son 24-7. And so what if he won't have his own room for a while he'll get use to it and most likely as your spanking new relationship grows you can buy a biger house
Dont let your ex stop you from moving on with yours and your sons life
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