Am i irrelevant to own a fifth child?
hubby and me have just announced to our familys that we are planning a 5th child we have 4 boys 8-3moths we love them dearly and are very well able to afford another one he is 41 iam 31 we just want to have our children close within age so that hopefully in years to come theyll be close. however my clan are fab and suuportive but the hubbys fam are dead against this why i ask? its not their business rite?
Congrats in wanting a 5th child. Its up to you and your husband on how masses children you want. As long as you are able to afford and love them all. I have a significant family too. We have 6 children. They are all 2-3 years apart. I wouldn't enjoy it any other way. I love my children they are a blessing. Hey sometimes it can be chaotic but fun. People always starr at my hubby and I because we enjoy 6, but who cares because I know they are loved and we can afford them. They are all good children. So be in motion for it. Congrats. I would love another in the future. Source(s): Proud Mom to 6 wonderful children
(5 boys & 1 toddler girl)
You made it your in-law's business by telling them your plans. btw, children that are close in age don't always turn out to be close surrounded by other ways. My granddaughters are a year apart and fought from the time they could bite, pull hair and hit. They are now adults, married next to children and the fighting continues to this day except the fights are speaking; they will NEVER be close. The eldest is so jealous of her sister that she pees and moans about everything her sister buys or gifts that she receives. If she get a chance, she will steal from other family members.
You enunciate your clan is "fab and supportive" and that's wonderful if it's genuine; which begs the question, "would you modify your mind if they said they opposed it because your hands are already full trying to raise the four children that you now own?" In other words, they chose the safe road. This question could have economically been about them instead of your in-laws.
yeah its not their business its ur choice
good luck, congrats and dont let them attain u down! its not as though what they say is gonna make u have an abortion anyway, i dont carry why families especially think their opinion is historic!
sounds just like my nan..
No, it is none of their business. The only origin I could think of that it possibly could be is if they have been helping you guys out financially, or if you other wanting them to babysit or something, but you said that you are well able to afford another child. So, they may not like it for anything reason but it is your family, not theres and they will just hold to deal with it. Good luck!
Answers: you should have as several kids as you think you should have, but only surrounded by the conditions that you can support yourselves AND your children.since thats not a problem go ahead! its your life with your husband and if yo uwant more kids not a soul should stop you from being happy. i think its a wonderful belief..i mean they have the right to voice their opinion but within the end its your life with your husband and not a soul can change that. i love big families, i grew up around huge families so i say aloud go for it. i have 3 brothers and 1 sister and we all turned out newly fine. :)
Do not verbs about his family...as time passes they should win over it. It is you and your Husband's decision and I think it's wonderful you want to bring another miracle into this world. I am so happy to hear from Mother's close to you who have large families who are stable and loving and want more children. Best wishes! Source(s): Mommy to triplet angels!
Why? because you already enjoy four.Be grateful you could even have one.
Would it be fair to add however another kid into the mix only to take away more attention from your current kids?
You can have as many kids as you want. I don't know why they'd be so against it. But i suggest you talk it over beside your hubby's family (or atleast one of the members) over a cup of coffee or luncj. :)
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Of course it's not their business. I'm sorry you don't enjoy their love and support on this. All you can do is make the best choices you can for you and your husband and hope they at least have the honourableness to bite their tongues once you are pregnant and/or the 5th arrives.
Good luck.
If you make an announcement, you are bound to capture flack.
Why would anyone make such an announcement ? What were you hoping to gain ?
From now on, hang on to personal things personal.
You kind of made it their business when you announced it. You required them to all fawn over you and be happy. Unfortunately people own their own opinions of what the perfect family size is. As long as you and your husband are elated with your decision, I say forget the rest.
Congratulations, by the process! I think large families are awesome!! :)
no its your and your husbands if you want a 5 and can aford it do it maybe youll get that girl lol
Yea ya'll should have as many kids as ya'll want they don't pay for the food on the table or the clothes they wear so ya'll can enjoy as many kids as ya'll want
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Congrats in wanting a 5th child. Its up to you and your husband on how masses children you want. As long as you are able to afford and love them all. I have a significant family too. We have 6 children. They are all 2-3 years apart. I wouldn't enjoy it any other way. I love my children they are a blessing. Hey sometimes it can be chaotic but fun. People always starr at my hubby and I because we enjoy 6, but who cares because I know they are loved and we can afford them. They are all good children. So be in motion for it. Congrats. I would love another in the future. Source(s): Proud Mom to 6 wonderful children
(5 boys & 1 toddler girl)
You made it your in-law's business by telling them your plans. btw, children that are close in age don't always turn out to be close surrounded by other ways. My granddaughters are a year apart and fought from the time they could bite, pull hair and hit. They are now adults, married next to children and the fighting continues to this day except the fights are speaking; they will NEVER be close. The eldest is so jealous of her sister that she pees and moans about everything her sister buys or gifts that she receives. If she get a chance, she will steal from other family members.
You enunciate your clan is "fab and supportive" and that's wonderful if it's genuine; which begs the question, "would you modify your mind if they said they opposed it because your hands are already full trying to raise the four children that you now own?" In other words, they chose the safe road. This question could have economically been about them instead of your in-laws.
yeah its not their business its ur choice
good luck, congrats and dont let them attain u down! its not as though what they say is gonna make u have an abortion anyway, i dont carry why families especially think their opinion is historic!
sounds just like my nan..
No, it is none of their business. The only origin I could think of that it possibly could be is if they have been helping you guys out financially, or if you other wanting them to babysit or something, but you said that you are well able to afford another child. So, they may not like it for anything reason but it is your family, not theres and they will just hold to deal with it. Good luck!
Answers: you should have as several kids as you think you should have, but only surrounded by the conditions that you can support yourselves AND your children.since thats not a problem go ahead! its your life with your husband and if yo uwant more kids not a soul should stop you from being happy. i think its a wonderful belief..i mean they have the right to voice their opinion but within the end its your life with your husband and not a soul can change that. i love big families, i grew up around huge families so i say aloud go for it. i have 3 brothers and 1 sister and we all turned out newly fine. :)
Do not verbs about his family...as time passes they should win over it. It is you and your Husband's decision and I think it's wonderful you want to bring another miracle into this world. I am so happy to hear from Mother's close to you who have large families who are stable and loving and want more children. Best wishes! Source(s): Mommy to triplet angels!
Why? because you already enjoy four.Be grateful you could even have one.
Would it be fair to add however another kid into the mix only to take away more attention from your current kids?
You can have as many kids as you want. I don't know why they'd be so against it. But i suggest you talk it over beside your hubby's family (or atleast one of the members) over a cup of coffee or luncj. :)
:]
answer mine pweez?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…
Of course it's not their business. I'm sorry you don't enjoy their love and support on this. All you can do is make the best choices you can for you and your husband and hope they at least have the honourableness to bite their tongues once you are pregnant and/or the 5th arrives.
Good luck.
If you make an announcement, you are bound to capture flack.
Why would anyone make such an announcement ? What were you hoping to gain ?
From now on, hang on to personal things personal.
You kind of made it their business when you announced it. You required them to all fawn over you and be happy. Unfortunately people own their own opinions of what the perfect family size is. As long as you and your husband are elated with your decision, I say forget the rest.
Congratulations, by the process! I think large families are awesome!! :)
no its your and your husbands if you want a 5 and can aford it do it maybe youll get that girl lol
Yea ya'll should have as many kids as ya'll want they don't pay for the food on the table or the clothes they wear so ya'll can enjoy as many kids as ya'll want
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