?ALL THE TEENAGE MOTHERS?
i DONT GET iT., i GOT PREGNANT iN MY TEENS (HELL, iM STiLL iN MY TEENS), BUT i MOST DEFiNATELY WASNT ON HERE ALL EXCiTED &&BOASTiNG ABOUT HOW YOUNG OF A PARENT i WAS GONNA BE. i MEAN FOR REAL.. THESE LiTTLE GiRLS 13,14,15 SWEARiNG THAT THEM &&THEiR BOYFRiENDS LOVE iS GONNA LAST FOREVER MUST THiNK THAT HAViN A BABY iS GONNA PROVE THAT.
GiRLS; iTS NOT.
BEiNG A MOTHER iS A WONDERFUL THiNG,
BUT ONLY FOR THOSE WHO ARE PREPARED
FOR iT. i WOULD SAY READY, BUT i DONT THiNK
ANYONE iS EVER READY FOR THOSE NiGHTS
THAT THE BABY WONT SLEEP. oR FOR THE ONES
WHEN THE BABY iS CRYiNG &&YOU CANT THiNK
OF ONE THiNG THAT COULD BE WRONG WiTH
THEM BECAUSE THEY ARE FED, BURPED, CHANGED,
WARM, COMFORTABLE &&EVERYTHiNG iN BETWEEN.
iT BOTHERS ME THAT THESE GiRLS THiNK BEiNG
A TEEN PARENT iS FUN &&GAMES. iTS NOT. iT
DOES HAVE iTS UPSiDES, BUT AS DOES EVERYTHiNG
ELSE iN THE FREE WORLD.
ANYWAYS., GUESS MY iNiTiAL QUESTiON
iS JUST WHY DO THESE GiRLS PARADE
AROUND HERE WiTH QUESTiONS ABOUT
OVULATiON &&WHEN iS BEST TO CONCiEVE
A CHilLD? (WHEN THEY ARE ONLY
CHiLDREN THEMSELVES)?
BELiEVE YOU ME., i KNO WHAT iT iS
LiKE TO END UP PREGNANT (UNiNTENTiONALLY)
AT 17. iTS SCARY. NOT THE FUNNEST THiNG
THAT CAN HAPPEN iN HiGHSCHOOL GiRLS!
Well I'm 17 an im pregnant..
I really never wanted to be pregnant I have never walk around an said anything like I think I would look cute like this..
Its not as smooth as people think it is. I personaly think I will be a great parent though. I hold worked in Child care for 3 years an I am very moral with kids. I agree with what your trying to say though. Like little girls shouldnt be walkin around thinking that this is the answer to adjectives your problems. Cause in reality its not the answer.
But my pregnacy was unplanned. After the certainty me an my boyfriend talked about it an we are will to put a feet down an grow up. We made a grown up choice, So in a minute we have to face the fact.
An I don't ever ponder or have ever thought that this was fun an games. The girls who think that are crazy an wont know how to make it in life. Taking comfort of a baby is a lot of work..
But i totally agree. Even though I am prego.
Sarah.
Nice. I didn't even read all that.
All I can read out is that I got with my boyfriend at the age of fourteen, got pregnant first at fifteen and am very soon 19, engaged to the SAME boyfriend, have a beautiful daughter and am pregnant next to twins.
Life worked out pretty sweet for a pregnant teen like me :)
this is true for most girls. not for me though. i love talking about my baby. my bf is VERY supportive. though i am almost sixteen me and my bf hold been together since we were thirteen. accidentally i got pregnant, and spoilt to get abortion. (couldn't bear the though of killing a babe!)
my boyfriend moved in and my parents and his parents get on great (they introduced us in the first place, when we be twelve. we started dating at thirteen.)
anyway, we will be married when i'm 20. we hope to have more kids and we are VERY happy together. he is sixteen on the 11th of AUG a day back mine. we are very close and love each other a lot! he get a better paying job when he found out i was preg and we have adequate money to decorate the baby's room. we are even saving up for collage for him. (the baby). we are being awfully mature about this, acting as if we are not teenagers. just usual adults! and i don't drink/smoke anyway, i also am very hardworking and I'm taking lessons on math and English etc on the net so i can maintain on learning.
so it may be true some girls are like that, but not me! Source(s): mee ^-^
I don't understand it any. Although I am 18 (almost 19) and want one but I know right now is not the best time and that I need to wait and thats what im doing. I dream up most of them just wants attention and they think individual preggo or having a baby will get them more attention from other associates. And like you said, they are still children themselves so they don't know what they really want or what is best, they are young teens and are stubborn and think they know it adjectives (the majority anyway).
But to any young teens who reads this, it's not all fun and games, have a baby is a HUGE responsibility and once you get pregnant and have that babe-in-arms your partying days or your teenage fun is over. How many people is gonna invite you for sleepovers or to stir out for the night when you have a baby? or if they do who is going to monitor it all the time? Think twice, if not a 100 times before making that decree.
And to the person who wrote this, I try my best not to judge and you should do the same. All you can do is try to speak of your experience and suggestion others not to get pregnant. But I wish you the very best of luck.
Answers: Thanks for keeping it real very insightful post.
I totally agree with you. Unfortunately, in the UK, so masses girls get pregnant, and all for the wrong reasons. A lot of them grow up short any significant parenting of their own. They live with parents who are on low income, or live on benefits. They see it as a way to become independant. Too many of them drop out of instruction, and have no intention of returning to it. They have no intention of getting career training, or bettering themselves. This is a passageway for them to get a flat, get an income (from the state) and be on their own. They don't see it as a dead wind up, they see it as a way of life, and this is really very unhappy. The reality is that they will go from relationship to relationship. Many will have children from different father. They will be stuck in this unending cycle that will trap them. It is a matter of 'keep under surveillance out for what you want, you just might get it'.
The real victims surrounded by all of this are the children, and that is really quite heart-rending.
Take ME for example .. I hold my OWN house ( not commision or Dept of housing) i am doing my HSC through distance ed .. My son is 1 yr old and has everything he needs contained by SURPLUS .. My FIANCEE works .. I LOVE MY LIFE .. My son is HAPPY ... and you know what they best part is ? IM ONLY 17 YEARS OLD! i think that your question is upright and doesnt generalize .. i didnt try to get pegnant i didnt want to get pregnant but i did and i chose to have my immediately 1 year old son and i wouldnt change it for anything .. im working on my schooling now towards a carreer contained by midwifery!! i think its stupid that young girls are actually trying to return with pregnant .. i saw a great show on austar about teens who really wanted a baby and they be supervissed and got to take care of other children .. they took aid of babies, toddlers, school age and adolescent children .. it was call baby borrowers .. it sure changed their minds afterwards!!
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GiRLS; iTS NOT.
BEiNG A MOTHER iS A WONDERFUL THiNG,
BUT ONLY FOR THOSE WHO ARE PREPARED
FOR iT. i WOULD SAY READY, BUT i DONT THiNK
ANYONE iS EVER READY FOR THOSE NiGHTS
THAT THE BABY WONT SLEEP. oR FOR THE ONES
WHEN THE BABY iS CRYiNG &&YOU CANT THiNK
OF ONE THiNG THAT COULD BE WRONG WiTH
THEM BECAUSE THEY ARE FED, BURPED, CHANGED,
WARM, COMFORTABLE &&EVERYTHiNG iN BETWEEN.
iT BOTHERS ME THAT THESE GiRLS THiNK BEiNG
A TEEN PARENT iS FUN &&GAMES. iTS NOT. iT
DOES HAVE iTS UPSiDES, BUT AS DOES EVERYTHiNG
ELSE iN THE FREE WORLD.
ANYWAYS., GUESS MY iNiTiAL QUESTiON
iS JUST WHY DO THESE GiRLS PARADE
AROUND HERE WiTH QUESTiONS ABOUT
OVULATiON &&WHEN iS BEST TO CONCiEVE
A CHilLD? (WHEN THEY ARE ONLY
CHiLDREN THEMSELVES)?
BELiEVE YOU ME., i KNO WHAT iT iS
LiKE TO END UP PREGNANT (UNiNTENTiONALLY)
AT 17. iTS SCARY. NOT THE FUNNEST THiNG
THAT CAN HAPPEN iN HiGHSCHOOL GiRLS!
Well I'm 17 an im pregnant..
I really never wanted to be pregnant I have never walk around an said anything like I think I would look cute like this..
Its not as smooth as people think it is. I personaly think I will be a great parent though. I hold worked in Child care for 3 years an I am very moral with kids. I agree with what your trying to say though. Like little girls shouldnt be walkin around thinking that this is the answer to adjectives your problems. Cause in reality its not the answer.
But my pregnacy was unplanned. After the certainty me an my boyfriend talked about it an we are will to put a feet down an grow up. We made a grown up choice, So in a minute we have to face the fact.
An I don't ever ponder or have ever thought that this was fun an games. The girls who think that are crazy an wont know how to make it in life. Taking comfort of a baby is a lot of work..
But i totally agree. Even though I am prego.
Sarah.
Nice. I didn't even read all that.
All I can read out is that I got with my boyfriend at the age of fourteen, got pregnant first at fifteen and am very soon 19, engaged to the SAME boyfriend, have a beautiful daughter and am pregnant next to twins.
Life worked out pretty sweet for a pregnant teen like me :)
this is true for most girls. not for me though. i love talking about my baby. my bf is VERY supportive. though i am almost sixteen me and my bf hold been together since we were thirteen. accidentally i got pregnant, and spoilt to get abortion. (couldn't bear the though of killing a babe!)
my boyfriend moved in and my parents and his parents get on great (they introduced us in the first place, when we be twelve. we started dating at thirteen.)
anyway, we will be married when i'm 20. we hope to have more kids and we are VERY happy together. he is sixteen on the 11th of AUG a day back mine. we are very close and love each other a lot! he get a better paying job when he found out i was preg and we have adequate money to decorate the baby's room. we are even saving up for collage for him. (the baby). we are being awfully mature about this, acting as if we are not teenagers. just usual adults! and i don't drink/smoke anyway, i also am very hardworking and I'm taking lessons on math and English etc on the net so i can maintain on learning.
so it may be true some girls are like that, but not me! Source(s): mee ^-^
I don't understand it any. Although I am 18 (almost 19) and want one but I know right now is not the best time and that I need to wait and thats what im doing. I dream up most of them just wants attention and they think individual preggo or having a baby will get them more attention from other associates. And like you said, they are still children themselves so they don't know what they really want or what is best, they are young teens and are stubborn and think they know it adjectives (the majority anyway).
But to any young teens who reads this, it's not all fun and games, have a baby is a HUGE responsibility and once you get pregnant and have that babe-in-arms your partying days or your teenage fun is over. How many people is gonna invite you for sleepovers or to stir out for the night when you have a baby? or if they do who is going to monitor it all the time? Think twice, if not a 100 times before making that decree.
And to the person who wrote this, I try my best not to judge and you should do the same. All you can do is try to speak of your experience and suggestion others not to get pregnant. But I wish you the very best of luck.
Answers: Thanks for keeping it real very insightful post.
I totally agree with you. Unfortunately, in the UK, so masses girls get pregnant, and all for the wrong reasons. A lot of them grow up short any significant parenting of their own. They live with parents who are on low income, or live on benefits. They see it as a way to become independant. Too many of them drop out of instruction, and have no intention of returning to it. They have no intention of getting career training, or bettering themselves. This is a passageway for them to get a flat, get an income (from the state) and be on their own. They don't see it as a dead wind up, they see it as a way of life, and this is really very unhappy. The reality is that they will go from relationship to relationship. Many will have children from different father. They will be stuck in this unending cycle that will trap them. It is a matter of 'keep under surveillance out for what you want, you just might get it'.
The real victims surrounded by all of this are the children, and that is really quite heart-rending.
Take ME for example .. I hold my OWN house ( not commision or Dept of housing) i am doing my HSC through distance ed .. My son is 1 yr old and has everything he needs contained by SURPLUS .. My FIANCEE works .. I LOVE MY LIFE .. My son is HAPPY ... and you know what they best part is ? IM ONLY 17 YEARS OLD! i think that your question is upright and doesnt generalize .. i didnt try to get pegnant i didnt want to get pregnant but i did and i chose to have my immediately 1 year old son and i wouldnt change it for anything .. im working on my schooling now towards a carreer contained by midwifery!! i think its stupid that young girls are actually trying to return with pregnant .. i saw a great show on austar about teens who really wanted a baby and they be supervissed and got to take care of other children .. they took aid of babies, toddlers, school age and adolescent children .. it was call baby borrowers .. it sure changed their minds afterwards!!
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