I'm pregnant and would approaching warning.?
I am about 10 weeks pregnant. Have my first ultrasound on Monday, had my first appt. with the toddler doc today.
I have never wanted kids. I am not good beside kids at all. I am awkward around them and they make me mad. My fiance feel the same way.
I feel that my pregnancy hormones and protective instinct are interfering with my logic. I feel all attached and..light of day dreamy etc.
I know I still have time to terminate. I was thinking adoption but I am afraid of getting too attached and not self able to let go.
I'm newly not at all sure what to do. Anyone been in this situation up to that time, or have any advice?
I am 22, by the way. My fiance is 25 and we own been together for almost 6 years now. We are not rich but we are financially stable I guess.
Its ok. When u give birth you'll want to keep it.
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A baby might be just what your looking for, God give us things for reasons. You should put a lot of thought into this, the baby inside of you is already a part of the pack of you and your fiance. Babies are wonderful and don't worry in time you will learn everything you necessitate to know.
Answers: I feel similar to in the first part you are saying, "I'm afraid I wont love my tot... Im afraid I wont get attached".
But Then you say, "I feel adjectives attached"...
Then you say, "Im afraid of getting to attached and not being able to consent to go".
I think you already are attached.
And you said you are afraid that hormones and instincts are interfering with your logic..
sounds like LOVE is interfering near your logic.
Love is good. Why are you fighting it? I feel approaching you decided yours and your fiancé's hearts are too small for growth. Sure you are a crap mom now - you enjoy NO experience and probably haven't even read anything about it!. But you will grow in knowledge and love if you just allow yourself to do so.
Take a chance. And if you just cant. give that newborn away to someone that wants to love i! You obviously are a caring human being, (even though you are fighting admitting it). I don't think that you would really forgive yourself if you really terminated a life.
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I have never wanted kids. I am not good beside kids at all. I am awkward around them and they make me mad. My fiance feel the same way.
I feel that my pregnancy hormones and protective instinct are interfering with my logic. I feel all attached and..light of day dreamy etc.
I know I still have time to terminate. I was thinking adoption but I am afraid of getting too attached and not self able to let go.
I'm newly not at all sure what to do. Anyone been in this situation up to that time, or have any advice?
I am 22, by the way. My fiance is 25 and we own been together for almost 6 years now. We are not rich but we are financially stable I guess.
Its ok. When u give birth you'll want to keep it.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…
A baby might be just what your looking for, God give us things for reasons. You should put a lot of thought into this, the baby inside of you is already a part of the pack of you and your fiance. Babies are wonderful and don't worry in time you will learn everything you necessitate to know.
Answers: I feel similar to in the first part you are saying, "I'm afraid I wont love my tot... Im afraid I wont get attached".
But Then you say, "I feel adjectives attached"...
Then you say, "Im afraid of getting to attached and not being able to consent to go".
I think you already are attached.
And you said you are afraid that hormones and instincts are interfering with your logic..
sounds like LOVE is interfering near your logic.
Love is good. Why are you fighting it? I feel approaching you decided yours and your fiancé's hearts are too small for growth. Sure you are a crap mom now - you enjoy NO experience and probably haven't even read anything about it!. But you will grow in knowledge and love if you just allow yourself to do so.
Take a chance. And if you just cant. give that newborn away to someone that wants to love i! You obviously are a caring human being, (even though you are fighting admitting it). I don't think that you would really forgive yourself if you really terminated a life.
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