Hubby isn't in place for another child, comfort?
The first one was an oops, we both love him more than anything. i want them to be close in age, he understands this factor, but still wants to wait for whatever reason he won't give me. I don't care if i have to trick him, only just so long as it looks like an oops, i'm starting to think he only desires one child and i definitely don't want an only child. talking doesn't comfort, all that results is that he gets grumpy, and i get upset. i'm not on bc because it make me sick and stopped working the last month i was on it, i got my term right in the middle of that "month" with still 8 pills to go. we are using condoms right very soon except for when i'm on my period. can anybody please help? as you can see i'm a little desperate.
Dont trick your husband trust me it will only just end in a divorce and with a child already that would really mess up... a moment ago wait like another year then ask him again and really explain to him that you want another. =)
simple tell him you don't enjoy your period that month, so if you have sex it will create a baby near out him knowing when done tell that your srry start crying say that you do have your extent that month you just wanted too look its a cute little babys eyes you couldnt resit it!
I knew a girl contained by high school who wanted to take pregnant so badly that she poked holes in the condoms. She ended up getting pregnant and her mother made her win an abortion. I also worked with someone a few years ago who I couldn't believe admitted or would even tell someone she did this... but she considered necessary a baby and her hubby didn't so every time they'd do it her husband would "finish" on her stomach. And she would run into the bathroom wipe it off her stomach and shove it inside. I just looked at her similar to are you really telling me this. Now her and her hubby are happily divorced. So I would think twice roughly doing anything like that. Do you really want the memory of your childs conception to be that way. You tricking your husband?
Having a baby beside someone who doesn't want to or tricking them will only make the situation worse. Just wait until he comes around, or come up next to a compromise somewhere in the middle. Remember its not just your baby its his too.
Poke some holes in the condom... after adjectives condoms arent exactly 100% effective...
Or, "extended" your period EG, period is 5 days and stops- convince hubby it is a 6 or 7 daylight period... or dont tell him you've started until day 3 or so and next have sex on "day 5"
wow, that's relatively devious. It would prolly work, but think carfully before going THAT route. what if he does find out, or you feel so discouraging you tell him yourself? would he ever trust you again?
Answers: You could simulated a period. Like pretend to not have it when you do have it. comfortable enough, just don't let him see the string or you varying it. then later pretend to have it. If he's get a job, which i'm assuming he does since you have a child now, dally until a little while before he comes home and put one in, you could even put some food coloring on it, that way when you embezzle it out there's "blood" on it.
Well then don't have sex this month then, be "sick" or purely not in the mood or something.
so, no sex for this month, pretend to not have a period when you do, later pretend to have it when you aren't.(you did say you don't use one on a period)and woolah, you're preggo and he thinks it's an oops. polite luck.
yeah actually, my wife did that, i prolly would have waited until the extension of time though, i forgave her when i saw that beautiful babys face.
try getting him to drink lol later he might not care if hes wearing a condom or not. not sure how to trick him but good luck!!
What is the hurry? Take time to spend with the child you already have, dont rush it. Dont trick your husband! Who does that?!
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Dont trick your husband trust me it will only just end in a divorce and with a child already that would really mess up... a moment ago wait like another year then ask him again and really explain to him that you want another. =)
simple tell him you don't enjoy your period that month, so if you have sex it will create a baby near out him knowing when done tell that your srry start crying say that you do have your extent that month you just wanted too look its a cute little babys eyes you couldnt resit it!
I knew a girl contained by high school who wanted to take pregnant so badly that she poked holes in the condoms. She ended up getting pregnant and her mother made her win an abortion. I also worked with someone a few years ago who I couldn't believe admitted or would even tell someone she did this... but she considered necessary a baby and her hubby didn't so every time they'd do it her husband would "finish" on her stomach. And she would run into the bathroom wipe it off her stomach and shove it inside. I just looked at her similar to are you really telling me this. Now her and her hubby are happily divorced. So I would think twice roughly doing anything like that. Do you really want the memory of your childs conception to be that way. You tricking your husband?
Having a baby beside someone who doesn't want to or tricking them will only make the situation worse. Just wait until he comes around, or come up next to a compromise somewhere in the middle. Remember its not just your baby its his too.
Poke some holes in the condom... after adjectives condoms arent exactly 100% effective...
Or, "extended" your period EG, period is 5 days and stops- convince hubby it is a 6 or 7 daylight period... or dont tell him you've started until day 3 or so and next have sex on "day 5"
wow, that's relatively devious. It would prolly work, but think carfully before going THAT route. what if he does find out, or you feel so discouraging you tell him yourself? would he ever trust you again?
Answers: You could simulated a period. Like pretend to not have it when you do have it. comfortable enough, just don't let him see the string or you varying it. then later pretend to have it. If he's get a job, which i'm assuming he does since you have a child now, dally until a little while before he comes home and put one in, you could even put some food coloring on it, that way when you embezzle it out there's "blood" on it.
Well then don't have sex this month then, be "sick" or purely not in the mood or something.
so, no sex for this month, pretend to not have a period when you do, later pretend to have it when you aren't.(you did say you don't use one on a period)and woolah, you're preggo and he thinks it's an oops. polite luck.
yeah actually, my wife did that, i prolly would have waited until the extension of time though, i forgave her when i saw that beautiful babys face.
try getting him to drink lol later he might not care if hes wearing a condom or not. not sure how to trick him but good luck!!
What is the hurry? Take time to spend with the child you already have, dont rush it. Dont trick your husband! Who does that?!
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