Shouting over a toddler?
From the time i got pregnant my partner (who has a violent temper) recurrently shouted and made me very depressed.. after my son was born he regularly shouted over him while i was feed although i'd cover his ears and beg him to stop.
My son now is 6 1/2 months and on alot of occasions my partner have held him while shouting.. my son does not cry as i think he is use to it from the time he was in my womb, although once when i raised my voice he burst out in tears as he's not used to me shouting at adjectives..
MY MAIN QUESTION IS.. i know its no good for him but what is the worst case scenario of what could happen to him because of it?
He is such a lively child from the time he was born he's always smiling and laughing with mum.. it requests to end but what is it doing to my baby?? Although he can be a monster i know he loves the baby thoroughly much but not enough to stop, i need proof if possible to show him so he believes it can do reduce to rubble as im finding difficulty finding anything online..
pls help
your partner is an A**hole, why are you still with him?! I would have left him a long time ago...babe-in-arms or no baby, nobody deserves to be yelled at like that!
While physical damage is unlikely - pretty near impossible, stormy damage is very likely as he will verbs to do this as your so grows up.
Leave him - for the sake of your child.
emotional destruction. he could take after this temper and do the things his father is doing to you except to another girl... (do you want that for another woman?)
physical: is NOT impossible it depends upon how loud the shouting is (decibel wise) because if its over a certain point and he is audible range it daily for 5 min or more he could suffer from hearing loss... maybe not totally but it could ruin the ears...
imagine your tiny babys ears getting yelled into.
thats like you standing subsequent to the speakers at a rock concert..
P.S. just a thought: DITCH THAT LOSER!
It could trigger psychological problems next on in life.
Answers: You need to leave him. You are a mother and that is to say a gift. How can you let this happen to your tot?
Are you really asking if ABUSE damages babies?
You know it does. Its hard to admit, but you know the answer. You know this is abuse. You don't want the internet to tell you what you already know.
The sick thing is your partner knows he is abuse that child too. He doesn't care, or he would stop. Do you think that sitting down with him and presenting a suitable argument against abuse will make him stop doing it? He knows that sort of article is wrong.
Your baby is already emotionally damaged by this: you said so yourself that he doesn't respond when this man is screaming. Thats not normal. You know its not mundane. And he is so young. It only gets worse from here.
What do you muse is going to happen when this baby is old ample not just to HEAR screaming but to understand the words coming out of that man's mouth. What do you think is going to surface when he sees his mother demeaned again and again? Is he going to hate his father? Or worse... Is he going to act close to his father towards his own wife? Will he copy his father when talking to you when he is older? How will this sort of hatred verbs his soul? How will your depression make him feel?
The best thing you can do is gain distance from that man. What kind of monster screams at a woman when she is pregnant, or in front of a really young baby?
Honestly, Im sorry to say it, but you are abuse this baby too. Its called neglect. You are neglect your sons mental well being. You are neglecting his soul too - because your son is growing up surrounded by a house of hatred and that is toxic to him. Its also a toxic relationship to you.
I had a father in recent times like this. He would scream and scream and cry. He was enraged over everything and anything. When I was a bit child I would pray every night that my parents would get divorced. By the time I was 12 I have began to cut myself. By 16 I had tried to kill myself.
How much longer to do you chew over your baby will be his happy self with a monster approaching that around? His spirits will be crush and he will forever and ever have to live with the fact that he be abused by his parent. Source(s): Real life story.
Hi Jinx hope your well,
I was unfortunetly brought up surrounded by the very same household enviroment where my dad had a ferocious temper and used to shout all the time.
I felt unsafe and insecure the intact of my childhood and when i first left home I was quite down and depressed.
The stress this cause me at home was so immense I had two heart attacks and my hair fell out.
The solitary difference being you care where my mum didnt!
Please try and speak to him and i know its concrete but he obviously has some issues that he needs to sort out as capably as he seems unhappy about something.
You can draw from him to email me if you like i'll tell him what my parents behavior has done to me and my energy! It will shock the hell out of him some of the things they put me through.
Good luck hun
Jo xx
below are some links to studies on children who grew up in violent households and how they got on within later life
Hope this helps!
psychcentral.com/.../arguing-parents-l…
www2.journalnow.com/content/2009/mar/.…
nearest and dearest.jrank.org/.../Interparental-Con… Source(s): Having really bad parents who i now haven't seen surrounded by 6 years!
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My son now is 6 1/2 months and on alot of occasions my partner have held him while shouting.. my son does not cry as i think he is use to it from the time he was in my womb, although once when i raised my voice he burst out in tears as he's not used to me shouting at adjectives..
MY MAIN QUESTION IS.. i know its no good for him but what is the worst case scenario of what could happen to him because of it?
He is such a lively child from the time he was born he's always smiling and laughing with mum.. it requests to end but what is it doing to my baby?? Although he can be a monster i know he loves the baby thoroughly much but not enough to stop, i need proof if possible to show him so he believes it can do reduce to rubble as im finding difficulty finding anything online..
pls help
your partner is an A**hole, why are you still with him?! I would have left him a long time ago...babe-in-arms or no baby, nobody deserves to be yelled at like that!
While physical damage is unlikely - pretty near impossible, stormy damage is very likely as he will verbs to do this as your so grows up.
Leave him - for the sake of your child.
emotional destruction. he could take after this temper and do the things his father is doing to you except to another girl... (do you want that for another woman?)
physical: is NOT impossible it depends upon how loud the shouting is (decibel wise) because if its over a certain point and he is audible range it daily for 5 min or more he could suffer from hearing loss... maybe not totally but it could ruin the ears...
imagine your tiny babys ears getting yelled into.
thats like you standing subsequent to the speakers at a rock concert..
P.S. just a thought: DITCH THAT LOSER!
It could trigger psychological problems next on in life.
Answers: You need to leave him. You are a mother and that is to say a gift. How can you let this happen to your tot?
Are you really asking if ABUSE damages babies?
You know it does. Its hard to admit, but you know the answer. You know this is abuse. You don't want the internet to tell you what you already know.
The sick thing is your partner knows he is abuse that child too. He doesn't care, or he would stop. Do you think that sitting down with him and presenting a suitable argument against abuse will make him stop doing it? He knows that sort of article is wrong.
Your baby is already emotionally damaged by this: you said so yourself that he doesn't respond when this man is screaming. Thats not normal. You know its not mundane. And he is so young. It only gets worse from here.
What do you muse is going to happen when this baby is old ample not just to HEAR screaming but to understand the words coming out of that man's mouth. What do you think is going to surface when he sees his mother demeaned again and again? Is he going to hate his father? Or worse... Is he going to act close to his father towards his own wife? Will he copy his father when talking to you when he is older? How will this sort of hatred verbs his soul? How will your depression make him feel?
The best thing you can do is gain distance from that man. What kind of monster screams at a woman when she is pregnant, or in front of a really young baby?
Honestly, Im sorry to say it, but you are abuse this baby too. Its called neglect. You are neglect your sons mental well being. You are neglecting his soul too - because your son is growing up surrounded by a house of hatred and that is toxic to him. Its also a toxic relationship to you.
I had a father in recent times like this. He would scream and scream and cry. He was enraged over everything and anything. When I was a bit child I would pray every night that my parents would get divorced. By the time I was 12 I have began to cut myself. By 16 I had tried to kill myself.
How much longer to do you chew over your baby will be his happy self with a monster approaching that around? His spirits will be crush and he will forever and ever have to live with the fact that he be abused by his parent. Source(s): Real life story.
Hi Jinx hope your well,
I was unfortunetly brought up surrounded by the very same household enviroment where my dad had a ferocious temper and used to shout all the time.
I felt unsafe and insecure the intact of my childhood and when i first left home I was quite down and depressed.
The stress this cause me at home was so immense I had two heart attacks and my hair fell out.
The solitary difference being you care where my mum didnt!
Please try and speak to him and i know its concrete but he obviously has some issues that he needs to sort out as capably as he seems unhappy about something.
You can draw from him to email me if you like i'll tell him what my parents behavior has done to me and my energy! It will shock the hell out of him some of the things they put me through.
Good luck hun
Jo xx
below are some links to studies on children who grew up in violent households and how they got on within later life
Hope this helps!
psychcentral.com/.../arguing-parents-l…
www2.journalnow.com/content/2009/mar/.…
nearest and dearest.jrank.org/.../Interparental-Con… Source(s): Having really bad parents who i now haven't seen surrounded by 6 years!
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