Adoption, adoption, adoption?
has anyone ever gave a baby up for adoption? i am thinking nearly giving my unborn son up.. i have two kids already and the youngest lives with his father i cant take vigilance of the one i do have i am at my dads house wit no a.c this babys father wanted him and put me in a nice house i slightly my job and was going to school full time later 3wks ago he deceided he didnt want to be with me anymore and was dating another girl so i left the house he still needed the baby and he wants the baby to come live next to him he dont care i could go to a shleter and he has the girl at our house i am markedly depressed and sad, then last darkness he told me i could give the baby up he is going to get her pregnant anyway so he will be okay i of late better not get anything out of it w.e i hate him and i thing the best point would adoption how long does it take to get over do you ever get over it i dont no im alarmed i dont want to make the wrong decision
If your still married to the man then yes you have to own his approval to place the baby for adoption. If you aren't married then NO you don't have to hold his approval and you don't even need to tell him when the baby is born.
Your ex's lives near another girl and wants to get her pregnant even though he has the responsibility of 2 children already and one on the road. Doesn't sound to me like he has grown up even so. Placing you baby for adoption is an unselfish act of love on your part. You know you can't cart care of the baby and you want to be sure he has a devout home where he will be loved, cared for and safe. There are so plentiful couples (my husband and I included) who can't have children and who are just waiting for a call adage that they have been chosen to be the parents of a child.
Don't look in the broadsheet but do contact an agency that allows the Mom to pick the family she wants to raise her child. They are out near and they will have information on the couples who are waiting to become parents. I'm sure if you contact the local Department of Child and Family Services in your area they can afford you some numbers and point you in the right direction.
In the meantime, take care of yourself, the child that lives beside you and the one your carrying. I hope God grants you peace of mind and the wisdom to make the right finding for you and the baby your carrying. Take care and God Bless.
do have an idea that about you and your two children already.
Open adoption may very well be the best alternative lower than these circumstances for everyone.
It is not only the happiness of the child which is paramount, but also your happiness. As your cheer and ability to cope will extend through to your children (and vs.vs your unhappiness and inability to cope comes through in a glum way).
I am happy if you wish to contact me
Answers: Dear Paige,
Legally, you can't give your infant up without the father's consent. (It is illegal to falsify paternity documents.) Please don't hand over up your child simply because the father doesn't wish to maintain a relationship with you. Losing a child to adoption is something that will effect you and your children for the rest of your lives. Don't punish yourselves because the father chooses not to be next to you. If you can't/don't wish to raise your baby, you should allow the father to do it since he is wanting to parent his child. (Both of you made this child and both of you still hold rights and can choose to love this child TOGETHER despite your differences. Co-parenting is really best for your child unless there is a danger of abuse or failure. If adoption truly becomes a necessity, please educate yourself well on your rights, the rights of your child(ren) and the issues of modern adoption so you may protect yourselves appropriately.
Have you thought about how this would effect the child you are raising?
As far as supporting yourself and your children, you need to know that nearby are many organizations out there which will facilitate you get on your feet. Please visit your local social services department, you probably qualify for adjectives sorts of benefits:WIC (women, infants and children), SNAP (food assistance), SafeLink (Phone service), Health Insurance (Medicaid), TANF (temporary assistance for needy families), etc. as well as grants for arts school, housing and even starting your own business. Your taxes pay for these programs - so use them!! :) You need someone on YOUR side!
http://www.usa.gov/
Oh, and you can collect child support!
There are also thousands of other private organizations who will assistance you. Just search the web or the phone book. Here are a just a few:
Housing: http://www.coabode.com/
Food: http://www.angelfoodministries.com/
Respite Care: http://www.safe-families.org/
Support: http://www.mops.org/
Find someone who will serve advocate for you and your children. Make some new and supportive friends. Join support groups or chat rooms for single moms. You can do this without tear your family to shreds - do it for your kids! Don't let this beat you! A man isn't worth losing your children over - prove him wrong and show your children how strong you really are! Set the example and achieve out your hand - there are literally hundreds of people who will relieve you make a better life for yourself and your kids.
Best wishes and good luck!
Adoption is never the best answer.
Please read the following:
http://shakespearessister.blogspot.com/2…
http://lifemothers.com/thewall.html
@MamaKate is going to be an Aunt!: Best answer EVER.
i have never given my babe up as we lost are baby due to miss carriage but i was adopt when i was 3 days old , i just found my birth mum and she sed it be so hard to give me up but it as for the best as i had a really accurate life . but she sed she thought about me every day and it be hard on birthdays and christmas thinking about me .but im so glad she did. if u want to chat pls e mail me
Human beings have existed for about 200,000 years. Air conditioning was invented 100 years ago and didn't become popular until the later few decades. I'm adopted, and my ap's didn't get A/C until I was 13.
I enjoy three children, and I know the nesting instinct is really strong, nothing ever seems to be good adequate, and it's especially frustrating when nothing seems to be going right. But really, what babies need the most is their mommy. It's the bearing nature wired us.
Best wishes.
I never give up a baby, I am a adopted mother to two young children and a elder special needs adult. I'm also a firm believer in a informed adoption choice, hold you looked at all of the opinions available to you? There are a lot of programs to assist a single mother, my own mother was a single mother. It can be difficult but also very rewarding. A father is important within a child's life but just because he's acting like a retard doesn't anticipate your only option is to adopt. Legally he owes you child support and you will need his consent to adopt out the kid. Please before you decide anything, look at all of your opinion.
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If your still married to the man then yes you have to own his approval to place the baby for adoption. If you aren't married then NO you don't have to hold his approval and you don't even need to tell him when the baby is born.
Your ex's lives near another girl and wants to get her pregnant even though he has the responsibility of 2 children already and one on the road. Doesn't sound to me like he has grown up even so. Placing you baby for adoption is an unselfish act of love on your part. You know you can't cart care of the baby and you want to be sure he has a devout home where he will be loved, cared for and safe. There are so plentiful couples (my husband and I included) who can't have children and who are just waiting for a call adage that they have been chosen to be the parents of a child.
Don't look in the broadsheet but do contact an agency that allows the Mom to pick the family she wants to raise her child. They are out near and they will have information on the couples who are waiting to become parents. I'm sure if you contact the local Department of Child and Family Services in your area they can afford you some numbers and point you in the right direction.
In the meantime, take care of yourself, the child that lives beside you and the one your carrying. I hope God grants you peace of mind and the wisdom to make the right finding for you and the baby your carrying. Take care and God Bless.
do have an idea that about you and your two children already.
Open adoption may very well be the best alternative lower than these circumstances for everyone.
It is not only the happiness of the child which is paramount, but also your happiness. As your cheer and ability to cope will extend through to your children (and vs.vs your unhappiness and inability to cope comes through in a glum way).
I am happy if you wish to contact me
Answers: Dear Paige,
Legally, you can't give your infant up without the father's consent. (It is illegal to falsify paternity documents.) Please don't hand over up your child simply because the father doesn't wish to maintain a relationship with you. Losing a child to adoption is something that will effect you and your children for the rest of your lives. Don't punish yourselves because the father chooses not to be next to you. If you can't/don't wish to raise your baby, you should allow the father to do it since he is wanting to parent his child. (Both of you made this child and both of you still hold rights and can choose to love this child TOGETHER despite your differences. Co-parenting is really best for your child unless there is a danger of abuse or failure. If adoption truly becomes a necessity, please educate yourself well on your rights, the rights of your child(ren) and the issues of modern adoption so you may protect yourselves appropriately.
Have you thought about how this would effect the child you are raising?
As far as supporting yourself and your children, you need to know that nearby are many organizations out there which will facilitate you get on your feet. Please visit your local social services department, you probably qualify for adjectives sorts of benefits:WIC (women, infants and children), SNAP (food assistance), SafeLink (Phone service), Health Insurance (Medicaid), TANF (temporary assistance for needy families), etc. as well as grants for arts school, housing and even starting your own business. Your taxes pay for these programs - so use them!! :) You need someone on YOUR side!
http://www.usa.gov/
Oh, and you can collect child support!
There are also thousands of other private organizations who will assistance you. Just search the web or the phone book. Here are a just a few:
Housing: http://www.coabode.com/
Food: http://www.angelfoodministries.com/
Respite Care: http://www.safe-families.org/
Support: http://www.mops.org/
Find someone who will serve advocate for you and your children. Make some new and supportive friends. Join support groups or chat rooms for single moms. You can do this without tear your family to shreds - do it for your kids! Don't let this beat you! A man isn't worth losing your children over - prove him wrong and show your children how strong you really are! Set the example and achieve out your hand - there are literally hundreds of people who will relieve you make a better life for yourself and your kids.
Best wishes and good luck!
Adoption is never the best answer.
Please read the following:
http://shakespearessister.blogspot.com/2…
http://lifemothers.com/thewall.html
@MamaKate is going to be an Aunt!: Best answer EVER.
i have never given my babe up as we lost are baby due to miss carriage but i was adopt when i was 3 days old , i just found my birth mum and she sed it be so hard to give me up but it as for the best as i had a really accurate life . but she sed she thought about me every day and it be hard on birthdays and christmas thinking about me .but im so glad she did. if u want to chat pls e mail me
Human beings have existed for about 200,000 years. Air conditioning was invented 100 years ago and didn't become popular until the later few decades. I'm adopted, and my ap's didn't get A/C until I was 13.
I enjoy three children, and I know the nesting instinct is really strong, nothing ever seems to be good adequate, and it's especially frustrating when nothing seems to be going right. But really, what babies need the most is their mommy. It's the bearing nature wired us.
Best wishes.
I never give up a baby, I am a adopted mother to two young children and a elder special needs adult. I'm also a firm believer in a informed adoption choice, hold you looked at all of the opinions available to you? There are a lot of programs to assist a single mother, my own mother was a single mother. It can be difficult but also very rewarding. A father is important within a child's life but just because he's acting like a retard doesn't anticipate your only option is to adopt. Legally he owes you child support and you will need his consent to adopt out the kid. Please before you decide anything, look at all of your opinion.
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