Aparents/foster families/anyone who own experienced adoption from any angle beside the CAS?
I understand that the CAS's foster to adopt programs might be quite different than PAparents who aren't going through that program. That said, I could use a bit of help from anyone who have insight. I can't get a straight answer from the CAS on some questions I had involving my adoption and things that happen otherwise. My adoption was shady to start with, I was placed long past my first mom actually relinquished me, and my parents certainly weren't foster parents. Other things happened with/after my abro's adoption that have caused me to wonder for years. My abro and I were both adopted within closed adoption.
Is it normal in closed adoption circumstances when the AP aren't foster parents to meet the child at the foster parents' home? My AP met me at the CAS building within the visitation room. They met my abro at the foster family's home.
Later on down the road, when I was around 7 and my abro 4, the social worker who handled our cases came to "check up". This be many years after I was adopted, and a solid 2 and a bit years since my brother's adoption. Does this begin routinely with adoptions through the CAS?
Also, the social worker pushed the foster family's involvement with my brother on my aparents, also a accurate solid few years after his adoption had been completed. The worker made it clear to my AP that the foster family have wanted to adopt my abro themselves, but were turned down due to already having too copious children in their care. I remember them visiting, and sending him cards and gifts, and my amom other being very uncomfortable and upset give or take a few it, and she's mentioned more than once that she didn't feel she had much of a choice in allowing the foster kinfolk access to my bro. Is foster family involvement normal in a closed adoption?
Thank you to anyone who can submission me insight!
Answers: Your adoption was in Canada, right? I can answer those question for Oregon, but not Canada.
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Is it normal in closed adoption circumstances when the AP aren't foster parents to meet the child at the foster parents' home? My AP met me at the CAS building within the visitation room. They met my abro at the foster family's home.
Later on down the road, when I was around 7 and my abro 4, the social worker who handled our cases came to "check up". This be many years after I was adopted, and a solid 2 and a bit years since my brother's adoption. Does this begin routinely with adoptions through the CAS?
Also, the social worker pushed the foster family's involvement with my brother on my aparents, also a accurate solid few years after his adoption had been completed. The worker made it clear to my AP that the foster family have wanted to adopt my abro themselves, but were turned down due to already having too copious children in their care. I remember them visiting, and sending him cards and gifts, and my amom other being very uncomfortable and upset give or take a few it, and she's mentioned more than once that she didn't feel she had much of a choice in allowing the foster kinfolk access to my bro. Is foster family involvement normal in a closed adoption?
Thank you to anyone who can submission me insight!
Answers: Your adoption was in Canada, right? I can answer those question for Oregon, but not Canada.
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