Has anyone give the child up for adoption?

has anyone gave there toddler up for adoption maybe your second or third child even though the father wants him. i am pregnant for the third time i am only 21 the babys father and i be living together until 3 wks ago i was 34 wks pregnant and he left me for another girl im back at my dads next to no a.c in south fl and the bathroom that works is upstairs my room is downstairs it is hell, he told me i have options i could live here on contained by a shelter and he will take the baby after he is born that house he is at is under my describe and his moms but he pays the bill and that girl is there his mom wants the baby too she said i could stay near her until i get on my feet but she also has a 16 yr aged son so what me n my two kids will sleep on the couch i dont no what to do he is not a good person and this girl new adjectives about me told me they were just friends i dont want my son to be approaching him whats should i do im scared i wont be able to live with any decision i keep him n stay with her n hurt emotionally knowing that other girl will be around my son that he get this baby after he made me suffer i had to go on anti deppressants and verbalize to therapist or give him up but will i be able to conduct operations do u ever get over that i need help i inevitability advice my time is running out and its in some sense a life or departure situation
wow, 21 years old and 3 children. how are you managing? if you know that you are unable to provide for the unborn consequently something needs to be done. how are you managing with the other 2? are they being taken concern of and loved? I dont understand, my husband and I have been trying to conceive for 7years presently and have started the process to adopt and there are people out here who just keep having children and not competent to take care of it. if you need someone to have a chat to please email me lilbear819@aol.com
If the house is within your name, get the law, travel over there and kick him out!

Sue his butt for child support to pay the rent.
Get welfare and adjectives the benefits you can from the government. That's what it's there for.

You have option.

Keep your baby.

Be smarter than him.

Be mean

Be rude

Take him for all he's worth.
Answers:    Please put it up for adoption and then seriously consider getting your tubes tide!

Three kids at 21?? You HAVE to realize where this is going! By the time you reach menopause you may hold single-handedly repopulated the earth - and the earth is already over populated.

Keep your legs crossed next time
I wouldn't let him touch that baby! You should see about getting rule assistance (free medical, housing, daycare, food). If you must, stay in a shelter with all of your kids. You can't lawfully give the baby up for adoption without his consent. Still, I wouldn't agree to anyone in his family (including him) be aware when you are in labor. I also wouldn't put his signature on the birth certificate. Give your son your last name! Woman scorn, my dear. Keep your family together, even if you need help! Keep that scumbag and his house out of your life!!
I would not hand over my baby to any of them! The baby needs a safe and sound loving place! Please go on birth control. If you keep your baby or not get up up! You owe this to your kids and yourself. However the guy who did this to you WILL have to pay child support, If you decide to hold on to him.

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