Question going on for adoption sort of? I inevitability someones guidance?
I have a question about pregnancy?
I'm not worried of being pregnant right now, but I had sex it be unprotected a few times, and then the condom broke and it was when I was ovulating, so I might be..
Now no rude comments, or I'll report you;
I fell within love with someone this summer, but we never dated, because he lives a few hours away from me, but we never really admitted to being surrounded by love with each other, and I had sex beside someone else (stated above), and if I am pregnant the real father keeps saying he requirements nothign to do with the baby, he wouldn't be able to support it, and what not, but he insists that he would be capable of come back into the babys life later. He say that he would let the guy I fell in love with adopt (the guy insists that he adopt this baby cause he will love him just as much as me even though its not his). I'm not sure if I should do this, or if that would be the best bet, I would communicate the baby when he/she is old enough though that his/her adopt father is not his/her real father, but I wouldn't know if I should let the real one join her? Please some advice and remember no rude comments. This is serious
Hon, I wouldn't worry about anything until you know for sure if you are pregnant. Source(s): Surprisingly self actualized fully developed adoptee
Why don't you relax, whip a few breaths and wait until you know whether your pregnant or not before you start talking more or less another guy adopting your baby. There is a chance that your pregnant, but in attendance is also a chance that your aren't pregnant. Go take a test, or keep on until you miss your period, and just relax. If you do turn out to be pregnant than think in the region of it then.
Coming from someone who is adopted, it may not even be in the child's wish to collect his/her biological father. I always wanted to find my biological parents, but my sister who is also adopted (different biological family) have never wanted to.
Anything you decide to do however, make sure you hold legal documentation if only to c.y.o.a. This is a kind of situation that can unambiguously come back and bite you (if that made sense)
its a tough choice though. i hope this helps
this is all gonna be up to you. in texas i know the guy can just sign the papers at the hospital in need having to go through adoption and he'll be the legal father. my mom told me my sisters dad be my dad when i was about 5 or 6 my grandmother told me that no he wasn't my dad that this other guy was and he be coming to visit. it broke my heart. i loved the guy i thought was my dad but after that began to abhor him for lying. i dunno i started acting out saying things like you're not my dad and things. my real father is a complete loser and i craving i would have never met him. i hate his guts. and now the guy i thought be my dad is divorced from my mom and i don't speak to him anymore. so its like loosing 2 dads. my grandpa treated me like his own and when he died it felt resembling i had lost another father. after that my uncle basicly took over for my grandpa and eventually got married and i hardly confer to him at all. so theres another dad lost. i also had a step father who was similar to a dad to me and he left as well. i don't know but if you go through beside this make sure you wanna be together forever its really hard loosing father after father your whole natural life.
Answers: You are getting ahead of yourself, but I'm glad you are considering these things. It is always difficult to make the right edict in a situation like this, so you must be wise and consider the consequences resulting from every leeway. If the man you're in love with is fully committed to you and your maybe child, after it would be gracious of you both to consider him adopting. Also, you don't have to have him adopt... he can sign the birth tag, if you didn't know that. Any father that doesn't want to take part in their child's existence doesn't deserve to interact with them. This will only cause confusion. What does this report to your child, when they find out their biological father did nothing for them? I know this sounds harsh but think something like it. He doesn't want anything to do with them as a baby now, so nought gives him any moral right to show up in the child's life afterwords. I would know this adjectives too well, sadly. The point is... If you have a man predisposed and dedicated, then let him be here for your baby and protect your child from anyone that may have a huge impact in their vivacity. If it is that important to you that he/she knows about relations and such, consequently by all means bring it out in the sympathetic. If your child wanted to meet their father then trademark sure no one gets hurt in the process. I aspiration you the best of luck, be careful out there. Whatever you decide to do is entirely up to you and it will be your duty to protect your child. Good luck :)
We have adopt 3 children and awaiting a court date for 2 more ( siblings ) they are 2 and 3 now when they get older YES they will no they be adopted BUT as in seeing there parents im not unadulterated sure about this case,,now they others 3 we adopt with is older now 18teen 21 and 23 they be older when we adopted them from 10 years to 12 years ,they knew they be adopted,,,i think it depends on the age of the baby,,,who the parents are ,,thats a finding you need to make think vastly hard about it,,,do you want the birth family contained by your life,,,,We love our children ,,,i would never keep anything away from them ,,,BECAUSE when they get elder they will find out
Good Luck God Bless
First of all I don't think that it is fair for the father to right to be heard "I don't want to do anything with the baby." He chose to have sex near you therefor hind sightedly knew that if something was to happen he would be fully responsible for his arrangements.
Second I think that it is fair to tell your son/daughte roughly speaking it. I also think that she is entitled to meeting her real father. It's her choice, business deal with it with what you think is best for her/him or what she/he requests.
Goodluck with this, I wish you the best!
Try not to stress as you may not be pregnant.
If you are then you should other be honest with your child right from the start. Secrets like this aren't good and in that is the risk that your child might be told the truth from someone else so it's better not to run that risk. When a child is a minor then it's your choice but if you are pregnant and your future child becomes an developed then it's his/her choice not yours whther he/she meets the natural father.
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I'm not worried of being pregnant right now, but I had sex it be unprotected a few times, and then the condom broke and it was when I was ovulating, so I might be..
Now no rude comments, or I'll report you;
I fell within love with someone this summer, but we never dated, because he lives a few hours away from me, but we never really admitted to being surrounded by love with each other, and I had sex beside someone else (stated above), and if I am pregnant the real father keeps saying he requirements nothign to do with the baby, he wouldn't be able to support it, and what not, but he insists that he would be capable of come back into the babys life later. He say that he would let the guy I fell in love with adopt (the guy insists that he adopt this baby cause he will love him just as much as me even though its not his). I'm not sure if I should do this, or if that would be the best bet, I would communicate the baby when he/she is old enough though that his/her adopt father is not his/her real father, but I wouldn't know if I should let the real one join her? Please some advice and remember no rude comments. This is serious
Hon, I wouldn't worry about anything until you know for sure if you are pregnant. Source(s): Surprisingly self actualized fully developed adoptee
Why don't you relax, whip a few breaths and wait until you know whether your pregnant or not before you start talking more or less another guy adopting your baby. There is a chance that your pregnant, but in attendance is also a chance that your aren't pregnant. Go take a test, or keep on until you miss your period, and just relax. If you do turn out to be pregnant than think in the region of it then.
Coming from someone who is adopted, it may not even be in the child's wish to collect his/her biological father. I always wanted to find my biological parents, but my sister who is also adopted (different biological family) have never wanted to.
Anything you decide to do however, make sure you hold legal documentation if only to c.y.o.a. This is a kind of situation that can unambiguously come back and bite you (if that made sense)
its a tough choice though. i hope this helps
this is all gonna be up to you. in texas i know the guy can just sign the papers at the hospital in need having to go through adoption and he'll be the legal father. my mom told me my sisters dad be my dad when i was about 5 or 6 my grandmother told me that no he wasn't my dad that this other guy was and he be coming to visit. it broke my heart. i loved the guy i thought was my dad but after that began to abhor him for lying. i dunno i started acting out saying things like you're not my dad and things. my real father is a complete loser and i craving i would have never met him. i hate his guts. and now the guy i thought be my dad is divorced from my mom and i don't speak to him anymore. so its like loosing 2 dads. my grandpa treated me like his own and when he died it felt resembling i had lost another father. after that my uncle basicly took over for my grandpa and eventually got married and i hardly confer to him at all. so theres another dad lost. i also had a step father who was similar to a dad to me and he left as well. i don't know but if you go through beside this make sure you wanna be together forever its really hard loosing father after father your whole natural life.
Answers: You are getting ahead of yourself, but I'm glad you are considering these things. It is always difficult to make the right edict in a situation like this, so you must be wise and consider the consequences resulting from every leeway. If the man you're in love with is fully committed to you and your maybe child, after it would be gracious of you both to consider him adopting. Also, you don't have to have him adopt... he can sign the birth tag, if you didn't know that. Any father that doesn't want to take part in their child's existence doesn't deserve to interact with them. This will only cause confusion. What does this report to your child, when they find out their biological father did nothing for them? I know this sounds harsh but think something like it. He doesn't want anything to do with them as a baby now, so nought gives him any moral right to show up in the child's life afterwords. I would know this adjectives too well, sadly. The point is... If you have a man predisposed and dedicated, then let him be here for your baby and protect your child from anyone that may have a huge impact in their vivacity. If it is that important to you that he/she knows about relations and such, consequently by all means bring it out in the sympathetic. If your child wanted to meet their father then trademark sure no one gets hurt in the process. I aspiration you the best of luck, be careful out there. Whatever you decide to do is entirely up to you and it will be your duty to protect your child. Good luck :)
We have adopt 3 children and awaiting a court date for 2 more ( siblings ) they are 2 and 3 now when they get older YES they will no they be adopted BUT as in seeing there parents im not unadulterated sure about this case,,now they others 3 we adopt with is older now 18teen 21 and 23 they be older when we adopted them from 10 years to 12 years ,they knew they be adopted,,,i think it depends on the age of the baby,,,who the parents are ,,thats a finding you need to make think vastly hard about it,,,do you want the birth family contained by your life,,,,We love our children ,,,i would never keep anything away from them ,,,BECAUSE when they get elder they will find out
Good Luck God Bless
First of all I don't think that it is fair for the father to right to be heard "I don't want to do anything with the baby." He chose to have sex near you therefor hind sightedly knew that if something was to happen he would be fully responsible for his arrangements.
Second I think that it is fair to tell your son/daughte roughly speaking it. I also think that she is entitled to meeting her real father. It's her choice, business deal with it with what you think is best for her/him or what she/he requests.
Goodluck with this, I wish you the best!
Try not to stress as you may not be pregnant.
If you are then you should other be honest with your child right from the start. Secrets like this aren't good and in that is the risk that your child might be told the truth from someone else so it's better not to run that risk. When a child is a minor then it's your choice but if you are pregnant and your future child becomes an developed then it's his/her choice not yours whther he/she meets the natural father.
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