Can I see my kids even though I give them up almost 4 years ago for adoption?
I don't think it's possible for you to get them back.
Is in attendance any way for you to contact them? You could do that. Who knows, maybe they'll try to find you someday (:
I'm so sorry for your loss :(
~Elaina
Honestly to much time have passed and there is no way of forcing the adoptive parents to share infor with you. They may not even own your info. We have a son from foster care and we have his mother's describe that is i t
try forwarding a ketter through the case worker sorry but the chancesof you congress them are slim but when they get older they may try to find you
No! not if they have been officially adopted. Legal adoption means they are NOT your children anymore! They belong fairly and squarely to their adopt 'family' and that's exactly how things should be after adoption.
You need to start through the social worker that handled your suitcase. Since the child was taken by the state, one child or both children may still be in foster care. If not, the social worker may be capable of contact the adoptive parents for you and then let you know what they say. There is no allowed way to make anyone do anything for you though as you terminated your rights and are a legal stranger to your children, so be prepared for the worst. But in attendance is no harm in giving it a try.
You will own to talk to social services and it will also depend on the adoptive parents whether they want you to visit or not.
I am so sorry in the order of what had happen to you,I am a Adopted Foster Parent,,We had adopt 3 children and awaiting a court date for our two baby's witch is 2 and 3 years old,,im not sure what state you are from but in KY i know it is up to the adopted parents if they want to donate visiting Rights,,If you know who adopted your children maybe contact them ask them if you may see them,or lately a picture of them,,,You may contact the office social service ask them first..the 3 we had adopted they still see near family's ,,as of the 2 we are going to adopt we will have to wait and see BUT each one of these kids we hold will know they were Adopted.im saying this to say when they turn 18teen they WILL find within Birth Family's i know this from experance,,
God Bless you and hope you luck
No don't do it... just be paid it easy for them to find you... if they ever want to.
NO. you lost your kids due to neglect and then you signed termination papers. you cannot see them, and it sounds like a angelic thing. My sister in law get my niece and nephew taken away and they gave them back after 2 years even though she was still doing drugs. you might enjoy gotten them back if you had kept trying, but neglect+giving up rights=no children for you.
and why would you want to disrupt their lives? Sounds selfish to me.
It IS wrong they won't let you see your own KIDS. Go up to them, and ask how they would discern if your children got taken away from them. If you can find any papers and/or contracts, try and find where it says you are allowed to enjoy updates on the kids. Try and get them on your side by telling them what you just told us. If you can, move about to their office instead of calling them on the phone. Be sure to dress nicely with your spike neat, since they sound like the 'conservative' type. Uggh this is SO wrong for them to do that to you!!
Good luck xoxo.
God bless xoxo.
sorry, but you made your choice many years ago. Think of the children and not just your feelings within this. If your then husband abused the children and you were not charged but you left your husband...they could hold likely let you have your children.
I wouldnt interrupt their lives especially if your youngest was only 6 weeks no offense but he probably doesnt know you at all. Im sorry adjectives this happened to you thats very sad. If I be the adoptive mother I would appreciate your feelings if you write a letter to her and forward it through social services (I am assuming you are not allowed to know where on earth they live) Maybe she will forward a letter back to you about how they are doing. I wouldnt expect pictures though the mother does not know you and what she does know of you is probably not incredibly good and she may worry you would try to find them but a few details of how there grades are and how they are doing may confer you and her closure.
It depends on the family that adopted them, it's completely up to them they enjoy the right to allow you to visit or simply turn you down.
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