Help please? adoption?
my 14 year old cousin found out yesterday she is pregnant. she dont want to raise the baby due to denial of money. So my parents want to adopt the baby boy. im all up for it cause resembling i said yesterday i really wanted a baby and this is perfect? any proposal on how to comfort my cousin? and advice on raising a baby boy? and i own picked out a name already.
ayden christopher..
Just be there for her and support her. Im sure your parents will take care of everything. This isn't something for you to verbs about.
So tolerate me get this straight. She just found out she was pregnant yesterday, nonetheless she knows it's a boy? Impossible, unless she is over 14 weeks or so and had an ultrasound the same year she found out she was pregnant.
YOU want a a baby, yet your parents will adopt this kid? Not really up to you now, is it.
I suggest you ask your parents to help your cousin take attention of her baby.
And Ayden Christopher is a dumb name. This is an area for serious discussions on adoption. Your previous posts endow with you away. Source(s): how many days til the kiddie trolls go back to university??
You seem a little... confused.
1.) If your parents adopt, it will be THEIR child, not yours. Being a sibling is not duplicate as being a mother. You will not be the one raising this child. Your parents raised YOU, so presumably they already know a entry or two about it. I don't see why you feel the need to bring advice from internet strangers, when your parents will be the ones doing it if the adoption happens.
2.) Your cousin just found out she's pregnant? And she already know the sex of the fetus? That is... unlikely. A positive blood test for pregnancy does not tell you what gender the child is, and if she's far plenty along for them to tell on the ultrasound, then it's doubtful she would have have no previous clue she was expecting. This sounds fishy.
3.) Any thoughts about how to "comfort" your cousin, names for the babe-in-arms, adoptive parenting plans, etc. are premature at this point. Your cousin cannot relinquish her parental rights until after the birth, and she very well may change her mind-- which she have every right to do.
You and your family need to be supportive of your cousin, and encourage her to find out almost ALL her options... including parenting her own baby. If the problem is money, why not let her stay near you and help her take care of the kid, rather than just taking the baby and vitally discarding your cousin?
Bottom line is: This is never going to be your baby. He may or may not ever be your parents' baby. The child is your cousin's little one, and she needs to be loved and supported through this difficult time, and encouraged to consider caring for her own child fairly than giving him away. Children should be adopted when THEY need homes, not just because another couple (or that couple's current child) desires a baby.
She just found yesterday that she was pregnant and how the hell do you know that it's a BOY.
if your parents want to adopt the newborn, it's their BABY not your. You've no right to said that it's YOURS.
And your parents should go talk to her about it! not you because you're not the one who abort the little one!
rename him as captain awsome and you will get several hits to adopt!
Her parents need to step up and help her bring to the fore her baby.
You should get your cousin to read many of the links to be found at http://7rin-on-adoption.dreamwidth.org/ before she decide whether or not she wants to keep it (if she's only simply found out, unless she's pretty far along, she - nor you - will know the sex of the child).
If you care about this child IN THE SLIGHTEST, then I sugget you minister to the biological mother raise her child, as being adopted is NOT adjectives roses and light. Source(s): Adoptee
i dont think its right to adopt him
Answers: Wow, sounds a lot like "Juno". Well I imagine that if she doesnt have money, the baby will not be raised properly. He will entail a proper education, food, etc. I wouldnt say abortion would be an option. Sometimes if u do abortion, u can never own babies again. Well, tell her that making a baby is a natural process. Now, relations consider that u can start having sex at like 17 or 18. Thats because we live longer then ppl used to live. Bt originally, temperament made girls able to have babies at lyk 13 or 14. Nowadays its hard. Bt thats what the humour originally made. Nature considers that girls can have babies at an early age. Its just that at an hasty age they are not responsible enough to raise kids. Thats probably the second reason why ppl dont enjoy sex too early. Tell her that when she will be giving birth it will be fine because there are lots of new technology and it is very rare that something serious happens to a mother. Good luck to u and ur cousin.
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ayden christopher..
Just be there for her and support her. Im sure your parents will take care of everything. This isn't something for you to verbs about.
So tolerate me get this straight. She just found out she was pregnant yesterday, nonetheless she knows it's a boy? Impossible, unless she is over 14 weeks or so and had an ultrasound the same year she found out she was pregnant.
YOU want a a baby, yet your parents will adopt this kid? Not really up to you now, is it.
I suggest you ask your parents to help your cousin take attention of her baby.
And Ayden Christopher is a dumb name. This is an area for serious discussions on adoption. Your previous posts endow with you away. Source(s): how many days til the kiddie trolls go back to university??
You seem a little... confused.
1.) If your parents adopt, it will be THEIR child, not yours. Being a sibling is not duplicate as being a mother. You will not be the one raising this child. Your parents raised YOU, so presumably they already know a entry or two about it. I don't see why you feel the need to bring advice from internet strangers, when your parents will be the ones doing it if the adoption happens.
2.) Your cousin just found out she's pregnant? And she already know the sex of the fetus? That is... unlikely. A positive blood test for pregnancy does not tell you what gender the child is, and if she's far plenty along for them to tell on the ultrasound, then it's doubtful she would have have no previous clue she was expecting. This sounds fishy.
3.) Any thoughts about how to "comfort" your cousin, names for the babe-in-arms, adoptive parenting plans, etc. are premature at this point. Your cousin cannot relinquish her parental rights until after the birth, and she very well may change her mind-- which she have every right to do.
You and your family need to be supportive of your cousin, and encourage her to find out almost ALL her options... including parenting her own baby. If the problem is money, why not let her stay near you and help her take care of the kid, rather than just taking the baby and vitally discarding your cousin?
Bottom line is: This is never going to be your baby. He may or may not ever be your parents' baby. The child is your cousin's little one, and she needs to be loved and supported through this difficult time, and encouraged to consider caring for her own child fairly than giving him away. Children should be adopted when THEY need homes, not just because another couple (or that couple's current child) desires a baby.
She just found yesterday that she was pregnant and how the hell do you know that it's a BOY.
if your parents want to adopt the newborn, it's their BABY not your. You've no right to said that it's YOURS.
And your parents should go talk to her about it! not you because you're not the one who abort the little one!
rename him as captain awsome and you will get several hits to adopt!
Her parents need to step up and help her bring to the fore her baby.
You should get your cousin to read many of the links to be found at http://7rin-on-adoption.dreamwidth.org/ before she decide whether or not she wants to keep it (if she's only simply found out, unless she's pretty far along, she - nor you - will know the sex of the child).
If you care about this child IN THE SLIGHTEST, then I sugget you minister to the biological mother raise her child, as being adopted is NOT adjectives roses and light. Source(s): Adoptee
i dont think its right to adopt him
Answers: Wow, sounds a lot like "Juno". Well I imagine that if she doesnt have money, the baby will not be raised properly. He will entail a proper education, food, etc. I wouldnt say abortion would be an option. Sometimes if u do abortion, u can never own babies again. Well, tell her that making a baby is a natural process. Now, relations consider that u can start having sex at like 17 or 18. Thats because we live longer then ppl used to live. Bt originally, temperament made girls able to have babies at lyk 13 or 14. Nowadays its hard. Bt thats what the humour originally made. Nature considers that girls can have babies at an early age. Its just that at an hasty age they are not responsible enough to raise kids. Thats probably the second reason why ppl dont enjoy sex too early. Tell her that when she will be giving birth it will be fine because there are lots of new technology and it is very rare that something serious happens to a mother. Good luck to u and ur cousin.
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