Pregnant and considering my 3 choices. but i cant come across to find any obedient adoptive parents?
im looking at all the directories i can find but all of the prospective adoptive parents are overweight and annoyingly christian, not the people i want raise my child. i dont think i want to do adoption unless i can find really good healthy parents. i reckon im leaning towards abortion but i might wanna keep it :/
are there any wearing clothes adoptive parent directories you can point me to?
Abortion is not an resort unless your okay with being a murderer.
Its your fault you get pregnant so deal with it!
I can't believe that women go around person complete s|uts and than murder their children!
I come up with abortion is the best choice. If you can't afford the baby and decide on adoption, you'll have to live next to not being your baby's mom and it would be way too hard. On the other appendage, you could raise the baby but keep within mind it's really emotionally challenging and takes so much work, however; I wouldn't change have my baby for the world. I was 19 when I got pregnant, ever since he be born I've learned a love that I can't even explain; I've also learned a new rank of exhaustion and challenges. You have to consider breastfeeding v. Formula, circumsicion, shots every two months (5 at a time, the saddest entity!), daycare, clothing, ER visits; etc. If I was single, I would consider abortion, its a huge workload to raise a babe when you're single. Best of luck!
Yeah, abortion is the way to go. It really brings out the kid in ya.
if i was in your situation i'd probably save the baby, but since you are not interested in that then i muse it would be better and easier to get an abortion asap. even if adoptive parents seem perfect your child will probably own some kind of trauma or issues due to the adoption and you will be giving up your body for the sole purpose of feeling guilty for years to come about giving up a child you didn't want to hang on to. call your gynocologist and make an appointment
No dont do abortion please dont ill give you a well brought-up website were you could see:
http://www.adoption.ca/
seek adoption agencies
http://www.canadaadopts.com/canada/resources_priagencies.shtml
Say NO to ABORTION!!
btw what's wrong with christians??
im one Source(s): .
Not adjectives adopting parents are overweight and uptight christians. Me and my husband are looking to adopt in the near adjectives. Im in the military and my husband has a steady job. Just preserve looking and keep your hopes up. Im sure you will find an awesome couple that will take care of your child better than anyone else can! When i capture back from Iraq we will be starting the process and start looking for a child that needs a good home! Good luck and dont contribute up!
Just do the abortion. Then live with the guilt for the rest of your life. See how that works out for you.
About 90% of the human population fall into the category of evolutionary dead-ends. Meaning their progeny will never evolve. For the sake of civilization please consider the sensible choice. Please do not pawn off your inferior litter on some couple willing to pay.
My first choice would be keep it. That little kids could be a bundle of joys. If you give up for adoption it would be resembling a sister or any relative where you can see it. Otherwise, you will always remember every birthday, how the baby doing and if you want it the infant back, they would not give it to you. God will help you. He/she could be the most precious grant from God. For heaven sake girl don't get pregnant.
Gee, I guess you'll have to transport responsibility and raise your own kid. Cause with adoption you NEVER know what you're gonna get--they'll tell you anything you want to hear.
Just do it.
well dont abort and keep on probing for adoption agencies - i'm sure you will find at least one couple that isnt christian and that suits what you want for your child
i agree with you on letting your child choose its own spiritual path - i'm an atheist but i wouldn't be affronted if my son became a christian, i just wanna wait until he is ripened enough to make his own choices and not force him into a religion that he doesnt want..
i think you should hold looking for non religious adoptive parents.
we are looking to adopt. you can email me, and we'll talk. I don't want to go through social services, and would pay for attorney and milieu checks, and to meet you. uncw11@hotmail.com
we used adoptionconnection.org in california. We are not overweight and not christian (we are not trying to adopt at present). I would think in california you can draw together many non-religious parents (some religious ones too). We adopted a baby born surrounded by another state, so living away from CA is not a problem. However, if you want an open adoption it would limit visits.
if you want an abortion i.e. definitely you're right too. I just wanted to let somebody know you that not all PAPs are ultra-christian fatties.
You should maintain it. you never know what can become of it.
It might be somehting you never expected
Answers: First, I just hope that this is a summer vacation, time hanging beefy on your hands kind of screwing around request for information, but if you are serious, for heaven sake, do not contact any of the people on here! Also, talk to women who enjoy surrendered to adoption, and NOT the ones that the agencies put before you. I mean go hindmost in the archives here and read some of the comments made to and about mothers, after they relinquish. You will be the salt of the loam, a real loving caring heroine till you sign that surrender, and then they will see you to the curb and not give a crap about you except as a bother. Two young women own been on here in the past week, bleeding their heart out after surrender, but the agencies are no where to be found. I know they were on her like gruesome on ape BEFORE she signed. After, she is of no use...she has made her contribution, for now. When it looks like nearby might be another bun in the over later, they will be ready to sermon to her again.
Adoption is a terrible thing for a mother to live with, and you do NOT owe anyone a infant, no matter what they try to tell you. You were not put on this loam to provide someone else with a baby. Either keep your child, as giving birth is not a crime, nor anything to be ashamed of, or abort. It is official, it is safe (far less dangerous to mothers than childbirth) and it is not the horror story that you hear from the Right to Lifers. It is a medical procedure, nil more.
I can tell you from experience, over forty years, that adoption sucks for mothers. There are no guarantees about giving your child a better life. You will dispense your child a DIFFERENT life, but families break up, people gain ill, divorces, death and desertions happen. You will not other be young, but if you surrender, you will always be a mother without a child. Adoption loss is forever.
There are some crazy culture answering your question---abortion is not murder and if you can't raise the child or find someone to do so then abortion is an option (that is if you are still within your first trimester). I would suggest that you put an add in your local paper of the species of parents you want for the child and then interview them and choose--I'm sure there are plenty of people wanting to adopt a tot. Good luck.
abortion is murder so don't do that, do not make your child die because of your choices
look on yellowbook.com for an adoption agency or call your state, they will know what to do, or at least point you contained by the right direction
I'm not sure why it would bother you if your baby be raised Christian. I would suggest you go through Catholic Charities to give your toddler up for adoption, otherwise. If you are considering abortion or just need to talk things out, you could telephone call 1800395HELP or go to www.pregnancycenters.org Source(s): http://www.pregnancycenters.org/
Abort if you don't want it - at least that style you'll only be screwing up your own head, and not the head of both yourself and your kid, which is what'll happen if you abandon it to adoption. Source(s): Real Life
http://lifemothers.com/thewall.html
http://www.exiledmothers.com/adoption_fa…
keep the toddler.
because i am telling you, if you give your baby away or abort it, you will regret it for the rest of your time. by having an abortion, you are taking someone else's life away just because it suits you. that toddler deserves to live just as you did.
imagine all the fun times you and your child will hold throughout your life.
every child deserves their mum. their real mum.
good luck next to the decision :)
XXXXXXXXXX
As hard a prospect as this is to grasp, if you furnish the child up for adoption, he is not your child anymore.
http://www.myadoptionagencies.com/ That seems to be a pretty thoroughly inclusive directory, but I'm sure you've found it already.
As for abortion or keeping the child, those are very personal options, and they are totally up to you and your own heart.
I think that the baby would rather live beside overweight annoying christians than not living at all :) so definitely don't go near abortion!
There are soooo many couples that can't have children of their own and they would be so happy to enjoy your baby :) So just keep looking and possibly look online at all of the adoption agencies..im sure you will soon find those right parents :D
Good luck!!
I'm not sure who my aunt and uncle are going through... but they really want to adopt. They miscarried nearly a year ago =[
um be a lil more diligent...
look at all adoption agencys there are some great ones out there
nearby are perfect familys that cannot have kids try looking for them check everywhere possiblee
before abortion
If you go to canadaadopts.com and choose Parent Registry, under Ontario, you will find our profile (Lynn and Richard). Please pocket a look and see if we could be the right family for your child. This is very brave and loving. Whatever decision you brand, we wish you the best. You should know we are a Christian home but like all aspect of a child's existence, the path chosen through kindness and responsible parenting, will be the right one for that little person. In other words, near proper guidance, a growing child will naturally choose the path for themselves.
You will see our email address there (northpoll@shaw.ca) and contact info for Joanne Conlin who is an amazing promoter for both sides of the adoption process and very knowledgeable.
Thanks for your time.
Please don't choose abortion. There are so many childless couples who would love your baby. What do you mean by annoying christian?
Im sure ud rather have ur child being loved and care for by chubby christians rather than skinny people with no conviction or morals?! how childish do you sound when you say people arent honourable enough to care for your child because they are christian?! or over weight.
subsequent time take responsibility for your actions and think around the consequences.
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Abortion is not an resort unless your okay with being a murderer.
Its your fault you get pregnant so deal with it!
I can't believe that women go around person complete s|uts and than murder their children!
I come up with abortion is the best choice. If you can't afford the baby and decide on adoption, you'll have to live next to not being your baby's mom and it would be way too hard. On the other appendage, you could raise the baby but keep within mind it's really emotionally challenging and takes so much work, however; I wouldn't change have my baby for the world. I was 19 when I got pregnant, ever since he be born I've learned a love that I can't even explain; I've also learned a new rank of exhaustion and challenges. You have to consider breastfeeding v. Formula, circumsicion, shots every two months (5 at a time, the saddest entity!), daycare, clothing, ER visits; etc. If I was single, I would consider abortion, its a huge workload to raise a babe when you're single. Best of luck!
Yeah, abortion is the way to go. It really brings out the kid in ya.
if i was in your situation i'd probably save the baby, but since you are not interested in that then i muse it would be better and easier to get an abortion asap. even if adoptive parents seem perfect your child will probably own some kind of trauma or issues due to the adoption and you will be giving up your body for the sole purpose of feeling guilty for years to come about giving up a child you didn't want to hang on to. call your gynocologist and make an appointment
No dont do abortion please dont ill give you a well brought-up website were you could see:
http://www.adoption.ca/
seek adoption agencies
http://www.canadaadopts.com/canada/resources_priagencies.shtml
Say NO to ABORTION!!
btw what's wrong with christians??
im one Source(s): .
Not adjectives adopting parents are overweight and uptight christians. Me and my husband are looking to adopt in the near adjectives. Im in the military and my husband has a steady job. Just preserve looking and keep your hopes up. Im sure you will find an awesome couple that will take care of your child better than anyone else can! When i capture back from Iraq we will be starting the process and start looking for a child that needs a good home! Good luck and dont contribute up!
Just do the abortion. Then live with the guilt for the rest of your life. See how that works out for you.
About 90% of the human population fall into the category of evolutionary dead-ends. Meaning their progeny will never evolve. For the sake of civilization please consider the sensible choice. Please do not pawn off your inferior litter on some couple willing to pay.
My first choice would be keep it. That little kids could be a bundle of joys. If you give up for adoption it would be resembling a sister or any relative where you can see it. Otherwise, you will always remember every birthday, how the baby doing and if you want it the infant back, they would not give it to you. God will help you. He/she could be the most precious grant from God. For heaven sake girl don't get pregnant.
Gee, I guess you'll have to transport responsibility and raise your own kid. Cause with adoption you NEVER know what you're gonna get--they'll tell you anything you want to hear.
Just do it.
well dont abort and keep on probing for adoption agencies - i'm sure you will find at least one couple that isnt christian and that suits what you want for your child
i agree with you on letting your child choose its own spiritual path - i'm an atheist but i wouldn't be affronted if my son became a christian, i just wanna wait until he is ripened enough to make his own choices and not force him into a religion that he doesnt want..
i think you should hold looking for non religious adoptive parents.
we are looking to adopt. you can email me, and we'll talk. I don't want to go through social services, and would pay for attorney and milieu checks, and to meet you. uncw11@hotmail.com
we used adoptionconnection.org in california. We are not overweight and not christian (we are not trying to adopt at present). I would think in california you can draw together many non-religious parents (some religious ones too). We adopted a baby born surrounded by another state, so living away from CA is not a problem. However, if you want an open adoption it would limit visits.
if you want an abortion i.e. definitely you're right too. I just wanted to let somebody know you that not all PAPs are ultra-christian fatties.
You should maintain it. you never know what can become of it.
It might be somehting you never expected
Answers: First, I just hope that this is a summer vacation, time hanging beefy on your hands kind of screwing around request for information, but if you are serious, for heaven sake, do not contact any of the people on here! Also, talk to women who enjoy surrendered to adoption, and NOT the ones that the agencies put before you. I mean go hindmost in the archives here and read some of the comments made to and about mothers, after they relinquish. You will be the salt of the loam, a real loving caring heroine till you sign that surrender, and then they will see you to the curb and not give a crap about you except as a bother. Two young women own been on here in the past week, bleeding their heart out after surrender, but the agencies are no where to be found. I know they were on her like gruesome on ape BEFORE she signed. After, she is of no use...she has made her contribution, for now. When it looks like nearby might be another bun in the over later, they will be ready to sermon to her again.
Adoption is a terrible thing for a mother to live with, and you do NOT owe anyone a infant, no matter what they try to tell you. You were not put on this loam to provide someone else with a baby. Either keep your child, as giving birth is not a crime, nor anything to be ashamed of, or abort. It is official, it is safe (far less dangerous to mothers than childbirth) and it is not the horror story that you hear from the Right to Lifers. It is a medical procedure, nil more.
I can tell you from experience, over forty years, that adoption sucks for mothers. There are no guarantees about giving your child a better life. You will dispense your child a DIFFERENT life, but families break up, people gain ill, divorces, death and desertions happen. You will not other be young, but if you surrender, you will always be a mother without a child. Adoption loss is forever.
There are some crazy culture answering your question---abortion is not murder and if you can't raise the child or find someone to do so then abortion is an option (that is if you are still within your first trimester). I would suggest that you put an add in your local paper of the species of parents you want for the child and then interview them and choose--I'm sure there are plenty of people wanting to adopt a tot. Good luck.
abortion is murder so don't do that, do not make your child die because of your choices
look on yellowbook.com for an adoption agency or call your state, they will know what to do, or at least point you contained by the right direction
I'm not sure why it would bother you if your baby be raised Christian. I would suggest you go through Catholic Charities to give your toddler up for adoption, otherwise. If you are considering abortion or just need to talk things out, you could telephone call 1800395HELP or go to www.pregnancycenters.org Source(s): http://www.pregnancycenters.org/
Abort if you don't want it - at least that style you'll only be screwing up your own head, and not the head of both yourself and your kid, which is what'll happen if you abandon it to adoption. Source(s): Real Life
http://lifemothers.com/thewall.html
http://www.exiledmothers.com/adoption_fa…
keep the toddler.
because i am telling you, if you give your baby away or abort it, you will regret it for the rest of your time. by having an abortion, you are taking someone else's life away just because it suits you. that toddler deserves to live just as you did.
imagine all the fun times you and your child will hold throughout your life.
every child deserves their mum. their real mum.
good luck next to the decision :)
XXXXXXXXXX
As hard a prospect as this is to grasp, if you furnish the child up for adoption, he is not your child anymore.
http://www.myadoptionagencies.com/ That seems to be a pretty thoroughly inclusive directory, but I'm sure you've found it already.
As for abortion or keeping the child, those are very personal options, and they are totally up to you and your own heart.
I think that the baby would rather live beside overweight annoying christians than not living at all :) so definitely don't go near abortion!
There are soooo many couples that can't have children of their own and they would be so happy to enjoy your baby :) So just keep looking and possibly look online at all of the adoption agencies..im sure you will soon find those right parents :D
Good luck!!
I'm not sure who my aunt and uncle are going through... but they really want to adopt. They miscarried nearly a year ago =[
um be a lil more diligent...
look at all adoption agencys there are some great ones out there
nearby are perfect familys that cannot have kids try looking for them check everywhere possiblee
before abortion
If you go to canadaadopts.com and choose Parent Registry, under Ontario, you will find our profile (Lynn and Richard). Please pocket a look and see if we could be the right family for your child. This is very brave and loving. Whatever decision you brand, we wish you the best. You should know we are a Christian home but like all aspect of a child's existence, the path chosen through kindness and responsible parenting, will be the right one for that little person. In other words, near proper guidance, a growing child will naturally choose the path for themselves.
You will see our email address there (northpoll@shaw.ca) and contact info for Joanne Conlin who is an amazing promoter for both sides of the adoption process and very knowledgeable.
Thanks for your time.
Please don't choose abortion. There are so many childless couples who would love your baby. What do you mean by annoying christian?
Im sure ud rather have ur child being loved and care for by chubby christians rather than skinny people with no conviction or morals?! how childish do you sound when you say people arent honourable enough to care for your child because they are christian?! or over weight.
subsequent time take responsibility for your actions and think around the consequences.
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