I consider I'm adopt...?
If within are "mental problems" on your moms side like you said, why on earth would they have you tested for them if you're adopt?
Why don't you just plainly ask your parents who you look like.
Years ago there be a talk show Sally Jesse Raphael, there was a couple on the show who be married had a baby and divorced. The mother was blond skinned with red hair the father was tolerant skinned with brown hair. Their baby looked as though he be born to an African American couple. The wife insisted she had never cheated on her husband, he would not believe her, so they did a DNA test and found that this child was his biological child. It turned out that frequent, many generations back surrounded by the husband's family tree his great, great, great...etc grandma was an African American woman. BTW the couple did not reconcile.
So, maybe you are perchance you're not, just ask. Then you will know.
a short time ago ask straight out u might find that u look like ur great great grandmother or grandfather.. yer so i would just ask dtraight out. and if u r u could look 4 ur real family unit if ur not then just be kool with it :) lol i hope ur not Source(s): my thoughts
Honestyly move on with your life. It is not impressive who they are obviously they werent ready for you move on ... finding out if your adopt will hurt you. I am adopted myself wanted and thought about wanting to know who they are... NAH WASTE OF TIME JUST MAKE THE BEST IN YOUR LIFE THank God you are alive!
If your father is adopted, you could look like his natural clan. I am adopted, and none of my 3 children look like me, or their father. They look exactly like my n brother's children.
I hold never heard of a mental problem which only affects the second child. That is more than likely only a coincidence. What kind of tests did you have perform?
As far as the hospital pictures go, there could be several reasons why. My firstborn have some issues and was in the NICU, and they did not allow the photographer in that part of a set of the nursery.
You really just need to ask your parents, and grandparents, aunts and uncles. If you were adopt, someone knows the truth. Source(s): being adopted
ask them? Ask your grandparents? Ask your aunts and uncles? Ask your elder siblings?
To be honest, not being anything like your relatives is not necessarily an indicator that you are adopted.
My mother looks nothing like her line (natural)...She is quite tall, and always feel "out of place" in a family of short people. She other talks about how her sister always made her have a feeling like a "big amazon" for being so tall, and she be teased when she was quite young-looking for being awkward.
She also has a very different complexion, and if you saw her near her family, you'd never know they were related.
I also don't look anything close to my first mother or biological brother, except that my bio brother and I have the same hands. The item about genes is that they are tricky. You might not look like your whole kinfolk, but you might look just like your great, great, great grandmother for all you know. There are plenty of family where no one looks alike or have similar self-worth traits. They still love each other.
My daughter doesn't look like me (since she's adopted), but it wouldn't stop me from taking a bullet for her.
That said, if you are wondering if you are adopted, you could a moment ago ask. It's important to be honest with your child if they are adopted, and hopefully they would enjoy told you before now, but if not, maybe confronting them (calmly, since you could be wrong) will cause them to spill it.
Another option is doing a little detective work. I can't speak to law there, or adoption practices, since I live in a different country, but there is other the possibility that something was filed somewhere, or that a hospital may have files of how (and to whom) you were discharged.
Oh, and don't take the hospital picture thing intuitively. Lots of moms don't have pics taken in the hospital, especially if the birth was difficult. A friend of mine have 4 children, and she always jokes that the last one probably wonders if she only just appeared when she was 6 months old. New parents tend to be much more "picture happy". ;-) Source(s): Adult Adoptee/Adoptive Mom/Black sheep of my biological family
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