I stipulation serve beside my daughter?
i deduce you need to find a good babysitter as you said that you don't want to give her up but adoption is only that.
maggie
Dont give up your daughter!! BE a father. Think what would your wife would want. She would want you to elevate your daughter the way you can and do the best you can. Dont put her up for adoption. RAISE HER. what about your son are u gonna put him up for adoption to. Keep your family together. And remember your wife is watching over you and will serve you
I'm sorry to hear about your wife, but you'll do more damage than you realize to your daughter if you tear her away from everything she's particular. You and her brother are all she has left. It would get through at her that she was given up because her mother died and you couldn't find it in yourself to keep her. Daddies are major too. Think about what your wife would have wanted. Most women I know would assume that their husband would personally look after the children if they were to die. You giving up her little girl for adoption would break her heart.
what happened to the 6 month old twins you have with your wife, who as of a week ago was still alive?
Step up and be a father. Everyone goes through tough times. Your wife(provided this is a TRUE question) would want you to keep her family, your family, together.
find a baby sitter and work that passageway and im sorry i hope it all works out
if this is a genuine question you need to step up and be a father, they lost their mother and now you are going to forget them? thats horrible... and if its a fake question, find a better way to surpass the time lol
Well wait, what in the region of your son? All you talk about is that your daughter isn't being taken effort of well enough. Do you feel approaching your son is? Maybe better nannies would help?
We are trying to adopt so you can feel free to email me privately if you are serious about this and call for more info. I'd be happy to help no matter what you desire to do. AdoptionHopes@aol.com
I'm sorry about your wife, by the way. That is truly horrible. Source(s): An adoptive mom hoping to adopt again
can i ask you something you said that you did not want to bequeath her up but want is adoption. if you need any help please email me am i will try to help you.
I am so sorry for your loss but your children have had a loss too. You mention her, so is it just your daughter you want to tender up? Please do not give her yet another loss. how sad for her.
Are you kidding me! Be a man! Raise your kids! People do it all the time, All by themselves.
Your question from a week ago says you are arguing with your wife and want serve with 5 month old twins. Next question from later week, you want help with a 6 month old daughter, Now the wife is unmoving six months and the children are 3 and 9 mos.
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just think though. would your wife want you to grant up her baby?
First of adjectives, I am so very sorry for your loss.
Its only been 6 months since your wife died so try not to variety any major decisions for a while because you are still in a state of depression and grief. Give it at least possible a year or more to cope.
I can only imagine this feels close to an impossible situation. I doubt there is any easy answer.
If I lost my husband I would cling to my children as a part of him. Your kids already lost a Mom, I would can`t bear to think they might lose a their Dad too. If they were adopted out they would in the future come back and want to know why you made that decison.
Small children take a large amount of attention and money and its particularly stressful even in the best situation with two parents. Try to give yourself a break because you are doing your best. I cant describe by your concern that you love them dearly.
Do you know anyone who has grown up with a great childhood? I dont know that many. You dont hold to be perfect for you to be doing a great job. Getting through this you will bond stronger with your children. You can do this, I believe surrounded by the strength of the human spirit.
If your children get adopted there is no guarantee the adoptive parents wont acquire a divorce. There is no guarantee- only promises they will stay together in the same home any.
If you tough this out and do your best one day you will look back and be so proud of yourself. No, things wont be perfect but your children will enjoy a strong father who is courageous and will teach his kids that family is everything.
You have the fray or flight instinct because you have had such a tremendous loss. choose to fight the correct fight. Your children will love you for it.
Besides, I know many single Dads that end up beside a great woman and things worked out.
I will pray for you that the right answer will come to you and the right situation will present itself to you and your family. God Bless.
I can tell you what you DON'T do. Don't offer that kid up for adoption. Step up and be a father! Your kids already know you as 'dad!' They lost their mom, and now you wanna take away their dad. The only other entity in this world that they love as much as they loved their mom?! And you aren't clear if you are wanting to get rid of both of them, or just your daughter, but if your in recent times getting rid of your daughter than you are also taking her away form her brother. Hell, her whole environment! Grow up! Quit your job and get one that doesn't consume as much time! But your kids COME FIRST!
Shame on you.
How crazy that you want to tender up your daughter. I am sorry about your wife but that is no reason to make a contribution up. Do you think your wife would want you to give up on your daughter!! NO!
Try getting a live in babysitter or something.
if you know in your heart for sure that you cannot raise them next to the love that you want them to have, consider an open adoption in which it will be possible for you to other be there with them before and after the adoption. Please do not avoid them because you do not feel strong enough. God is using you and you have to be strong and agree to him have his way. This is not your battle to collide. I will pray for you.
Being that I was adopted, I would not want anyone to go through duplicate thing. I have seen so tons of my adopted friends cry and I have cried on their shoulders because I missed my biological family so much. On the bright side, weh I turned 18 they come to my graduation and I love them just as much as I knew I would 12 years later. I love my mother because although she give me away...she did it out of love. So if this is what you truly feel...let God be your guide. Source(s): The love my mother had for me did not fade...and it never will no thing who I live with, where, or for how long.
okay you have nannies, which is a good piece. Lots of people are single parents out there in the world. I'm so sorry to hear of your circumstances and teh loss of your wife. Its early days for you yet. Have had any time sour from work to spend with your children? If not do so and soon. You can do this.(You're wife would have I bet of if it was you who died. ) Find a single parent support group! You'll find others hold been faced with like peas in a pod things and survived, raised kids with all of those obtacles surrounded by the way.
If not find another career, even if it means re locating, starting again surrounded by a smaller house. We all have to make sacrifice, these things will be your's.
6 months is about the time the grief can often hit because the first shock wave wear off, the support you had before deminishes as the ethnic group go back into their lives, leaving you alone... Your daughter will hold female figures come into her life, freshly don't give up!
There must be other ways. Women are expected to do it all the time.So can you. I just have a sneaking suspicion that you're caving in to easily.
I know I wouldn't imagine much of my own husband if he gave the kids up because he found it hard if I was gone. I would expect him to face-off for them, down size his job sell the house and keep the kids. Then start over.
Just resembling I would do in the same situation.
All the best! I hope you find a way. Source(s): Adoptive mum.
Also know a single dad who raise 7 kids. And did everything he could to keep the family together after the sudden loss of his wife. And did.
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