Is fertility self inflicted?
This is outrageous. SO my dears, is cancer self inflicted or heart disease or a million other things. Oh mabe some is but do we not treat them or have compassion.
no, but stupidity is. Source(s): Im a smart egg
"SO my dear, is cancer self inflicted or heart disease or a million other things. Oh mabe some is.."
So you AGREE that SOME but NOT ALL of infertilities, cancers, heart diseases or a centillion other things are self-inflicted. Woohooo. O-Ollie is finally seeing the light. See is finally stepping into the real world. Okay it I don`t know temporary but its an improvement.
Nothing outrageous about that, my dear.
"Oh mabe some is but do we not treat them or enjoy compassion."
Adoption is not a treatment, my dear. It is a band-aid solution to someone else's problem, regardless of whether that problem was self-inflicted or not.
What about the child/children? Do we just administer away children to all infertile couples, just to make them "happy" and "fulfill" within their lives. Remember, adoption is not about "fulfilling" someone else's wants, its about the wishes and interests of a child.
Where is your compassion for the children?
So Misses Compassionate, what is your stance on Universal Health Care? Are you one of those individuals who are trying to ban it worldwide? Are you one of those who believes in the "rugged individual" and that some profit driven pencil pusher has the final say-so (complete control) in your access to health care?
My husband chose infertility next to a vasectomy.
So when "Some" people talk about infertiles, this includes, those who chose sterilization, those who are approaching 50 (or what ever age) and have gone through menopause,
So when I see someone who was sterilized talking just about how infertiles just want everyone else's baby, I can't help but chuckle. Like individual infertile triggers the Baby Steeler Gene, except for in them.
some infertility IS self-inflicted (by age, lifestyle choices, etc.) just like some cancer is self-inflicted (such as lung cancer caused by cigarettes).
This does not niggardly the person deserved to be infertile or that the desire to parent will just disappear into thin nouns because they cannot have a child naturally. All this means is that if general public want children and cannot have them naturally, they should find the most ethical way to become parents and be sure they are not basically trying to replace the bio-child that never was. Hopefully they would be going into adoption to give a child all of the love and stability of a kith and kin while simultaneously satisfying the urge to parent.
Have you ever considered wording your questions different 'dear'? If you sounded less deterrent and condescending, you may get more respect around here. Just my $0.02 Source(s): 19 year old adoptee with an feelings
Fertility? Did you tight-fisted infertility?
If you actually mean fertility as asked, I would say the leaning to be fertile can't be avoided even if the person wanted to, but in cases of consensual sex, we adjectives do still have the choice whether to use protection (condoms, the pill, etc., which are not failure-proof but highly effective, especially when you use a backup method as capably as a primary) and whether to have sex at all or to abstain.
So while a person can't dictate 100% that they won't seize pregnant except by avoiding sex, pregnancy also isn't inevitable, and steps can be taken to prevent it, or at least to lower the risk, if you want to be sexually active but do not want a child. Accidental pregnancies happen, but it's not a total crapshoot any.
Thats about the merely thing i agree with you about Ollie. Some ethnic group on here seem to think that ALL infertile women did it to themselves. Tell that to my aunt, who had to own her entire reproductive organs removed due to cervical cancer.
However, they are the minority. Most understand that in most cases, we as humans have nearly as much control over our fertility as the man in the moon. My friends mother was pregnant a total of three times, however, all but one be ectopic, and the one they didnt catch in time, and she lost her left tube. After that she freshly couldnt get pregnant. luckily she had my friend by then.
CP: Fertility peak at 25? i did not know that..i thought it was later, like my age(28)
Answers: You know, I don't care if someone contributed to their own infertility or not. I don't guardianship if someone had an STD as a teenager that may have contributed to infertility contained by their 30's. I don't care if someone's infertility is due to obesity.
For many (if not most people) who experience infertility, not have the ability to conceive or carry a child to term is a source of agony. I'm not going to pick apart whose pain is more "worthy" than someone else's.
I don't say to the person next to lung cancer that their grief and pain is somehow less valid because their cigarette smoking probably contributed to their cancer. Cancer is just as frightening and tight to the smoker/lung cancer person as the one who has breast cancer or pancreatic cancer.
I also don't think that someone inquiring more or less adoption automatically means they feel "entitled" to someone else's child, even if they happen to be infertile and EVEN if their lifestyle may hold contributed to their own infertility. I think the word "entitled' gets thrown around here WAY too much.
I also think it's adjectives about blaming and de-humanizing PAPs. Hey, if they are infertile, it's probably their own fault. And besides, they're all ENTITLED because they have the gall to ask about adoption information. Source(s): Been here awhile now.
We should have compassion for all of Gods creatures even relinquishing Mothers.
Contrary to what others have posted on YA, STDs are not the #1 reason for female infertility, ovulation disorders are and they represent 25% of adjectives female infertility.
Also, female fertility declines contained by the early 30s (between 32 and 34) not at 25, that's when it peaks.
Nothing like perpetuate a negative stereotype!
ETA: LadyRowan; Yes it peaks at 25 and starts to decline around 32.
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no, but stupidity is. Source(s): Im a smart egg
"SO my dear, is cancer self inflicted or heart disease or a million other things. Oh mabe some is.."
So you AGREE that SOME but NOT ALL of infertilities, cancers, heart diseases or a centillion other things are self-inflicted. Woohooo. O-Ollie is finally seeing the light. See is finally stepping into the real world. Okay it I don`t know temporary but its an improvement.
Nothing outrageous about that, my dear.
"Oh mabe some is but do we not treat them or enjoy compassion."
Adoption is not a treatment, my dear. It is a band-aid solution to someone else's problem, regardless of whether that problem was self-inflicted or not.
What about the child/children? Do we just administer away children to all infertile couples, just to make them "happy" and "fulfill" within their lives. Remember, adoption is not about "fulfilling" someone else's wants, its about the wishes and interests of a child.
Where is your compassion for the children?
So Misses Compassionate, what is your stance on Universal Health Care? Are you one of those individuals who are trying to ban it worldwide? Are you one of those who believes in the "rugged individual" and that some profit driven pencil pusher has the final say-so (complete control) in your access to health care?
My husband chose infertility next to a vasectomy.
So when "Some" people talk about infertiles, this includes, those who chose sterilization, those who are approaching 50 (or what ever age) and have gone through menopause,
So when I see someone who was sterilized talking just about how infertiles just want everyone else's baby, I can't help but chuckle. Like individual infertile triggers the Baby Steeler Gene, except for in them.
some infertility IS self-inflicted (by age, lifestyle choices, etc.) just like some cancer is self-inflicted (such as lung cancer caused by cigarettes).
This does not niggardly the person deserved to be infertile or that the desire to parent will just disappear into thin nouns because they cannot have a child naturally. All this means is that if general public want children and cannot have them naturally, they should find the most ethical way to become parents and be sure they are not basically trying to replace the bio-child that never was. Hopefully they would be going into adoption to give a child all of the love and stability of a kith and kin while simultaneously satisfying the urge to parent.
Have you ever considered wording your questions different 'dear'? If you sounded less deterrent and condescending, you may get more respect around here. Just my $0.02 Source(s): 19 year old adoptee with an feelings
Fertility? Did you tight-fisted infertility?
If you actually mean fertility as asked, I would say the leaning to be fertile can't be avoided even if the person wanted to, but in cases of consensual sex, we adjectives do still have the choice whether to use protection (condoms, the pill, etc., which are not failure-proof but highly effective, especially when you use a backup method as capably as a primary) and whether to have sex at all or to abstain.
So while a person can't dictate 100% that they won't seize pregnant except by avoiding sex, pregnancy also isn't inevitable, and steps can be taken to prevent it, or at least to lower the risk, if you want to be sexually active but do not want a child. Accidental pregnancies happen, but it's not a total crapshoot any.
Thats about the merely thing i agree with you about Ollie. Some ethnic group on here seem to think that ALL infertile women did it to themselves. Tell that to my aunt, who had to own her entire reproductive organs removed due to cervical cancer.
However, they are the minority. Most understand that in most cases, we as humans have nearly as much control over our fertility as the man in the moon. My friends mother was pregnant a total of three times, however, all but one be ectopic, and the one they didnt catch in time, and she lost her left tube. After that she freshly couldnt get pregnant. luckily she had my friend by then.
CP: Fertility peak at 25? i did not know that..i thought it was later, like my age(28)
Answers: You know, I don't care if someone contributed to their own infertility or not. I don't guardianship if someone had an STD as a teenager that may have contributed to infertility contained by their 30's. I don't care if someone's infertility is due to obesity.
For many (if not most people) who experience infertility, not have the ability to conceive or carry a child to term is a source of agony. I'm not going to pick apart whose pain is more "worthy" than someone else's.
I don't say to the person next to lung cancer that their grief and pain is somehow less valid because their cigarette smoking probably contributed to their cancer. Cancer is just as frightening and tight to the smoker/lung cancer person as the one who has breast cancer or pancreatic cancer.
I also don't think that someone inquiring more or less adoption automatically means they feel "entitled" to someone else's child, even if they happen to be infertile and EVEN if their lifestyle may hold contributed to their own infertility. I think the word "entitled' gets thrown around here WAY too much.
I also think it's adjectives about blaming and de-humanizing PAPs. Hey, if they are infertile, it's probably their own fault. And besides, they're all ENTITLED because they have the gall to ask about adoption information. Source(s): Been here awhile now.
We should have compassion for all of Gods creatures even relinquishing Mothers.
Contrary to what others have posted on YA, STDs are not the #1 reason for female infertility, ovulation disorders are and they represent 25% of adjectives female infertility.
Also, female fertility declines contained by the early 30s (between 32 and 34) not at 25, that's when it peaks.
Nothing like perpetuate a negative stereotype!
ETA: LadyRowan; Yes it peaks at 25 and starts to decline around 32.
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