15 years dated, 5 months pregnant?
my friend at school is 15 and 5 months gone, she's engaged to an 18-year old, and i don't ponder he's going to stick around after the baby's born because they've already split up twice since she got pregnant.
im the only person surrounded by the year who still talks to her, but i think shes throwing her life away, shes already bought a cot, clothes and choosing name.
im starting to realise what everyone means when they talk about her, and i dont meditate our friendship can last. help?
Well from the story you share I don't think he's going to stick around.I think your being a dutiful friend sticking by her side while she's going though this.All those other people are fake to stop talking to her only because of what she's going though.I don't think she's throwing her life away.Although being a teen parent is rock-hard it's not the end of the world.She's supposed to to be be buying clothes and choosing names and all of that she's something like to be a mom.Keep doing what your doing you aren't wrong to be her friend don't listen to those people.As long as she not hurting or disrespecting you.
if it was up to Me i would back her all i can, she has got a kid coming on the approach and when the child is born and she is in trouble who will she have to stick by her side. eh ? look other people might utter things about her cause she is 15 and pregnant, it doesn't mean you should listen to what they influence you have known her nearly all your life span she has told you her secrets and thoughts who else would she have told ? adjectives i am saying is when the baby is born she will ned somebody to look out for her and who will that be, sure her mum but that wouldn't be the same will it ? soon you could be that style she'll be there for you right? remember future if u fall out near her because she is pregnant the to me she will think how much a good friend you were ...x
Good luck : )
stay her friend:)
because im sure she's lost and confused and needs someone to relief her, she needs a friend to help her get through this! :)
so even tho you disagree beside what she done, try to stay her friend. And she is very young, so yess encourage possible adoption?
but do NOT agree to her get an abortion!
:)
hoped this helped:) Source(s): kaylee:)
Once your friend has that baby she will no longer enjoy a life like she had since that baby. You are right she was dumb about getting pregnant but you cant make over it now. Appreciate what you have because once it is gone it is gone. Having a baby examination A lot of relationships and yours is being tested now. If you feel you don't want to concord with it you have that right but she does need someone to lean on especially if you won't reckon the father is going to stick around. Kids talk **** but don't listen to them.
Encourage adoption!
so ur going to ditch your friend who right very soon probably is in the most need for one. if my friend was that childish and pregnant i would be there for her the whole time. ur right her bf prob wont stick around most guys dont but think are u worried roughly what ppl will think if your hanging with her is that what humane of friend u are i feel sorry for her, honestly i do ppl talk crap like within something. watch bet one of them ppl talking crap becomes pregnant as a teen im sure nearby having sex to. im just telling you she will seize mood swings its not you she takin it out on if she was my friend id be by her side i have a friend who is 16 in a minute got pregnant at 14 had her at 15 best friend i could ever have wouldnt trade her for anything and ppl did have a chat **** but i love her i would never leave her even if she got pregnant again she is there for me
She's done a tremendously silly thing, getting into this situation and she probably doesn't know just how silly but she is going to be going though a really difficult time soon.
Pregnancy is a tough thing for someone of any age and raise a child even more so. Being a teen, one of the worst things possible is having all of your peers look down on you so she probably really needs some support and a friend.
Try to be nearby for her but spend as much time as you can doing normal teen things. If you don't want to talk baby things, next tell her that. She has to understand that not adjectives 15 year olds are interested and if she has a problem with it, thats tough since you're the only friend she have left.
If you are willing to talk babe-in-arms stuff though then perhaps try bringing up the not so fun sides of parent hood like the vomit, dirty nappies, toilet training and sleepless night to make sure she fully understands what she's got coming.
Some teens are totally sensible and are as prepared as they can be but some treat it like a trophy or a doll and just think of the cute clothes and name but not the real side of it.
I hope you can find a way through.
Good luck. x
oh dear what a dilemma, i wouldnt push her away just cos you chew over she is throwing her life away she needs a friend right now and not bein mean but what her fella decides to do isnt really your place to say anything this is theyre life. of late be a friend to her if you really value her friendship that is, boyfriends will come and go but friends and i expect good friends those will last
If she really is intent on keeping this babe-in-arms and has the support of her family, she really is going to need adjectives the support she can get. Try and stick by her and keep being her friend x
your right... you need to be a 15 yr infirm.. dont burden your life with her issues... back off- she may entail people- but this is when family comes in.. you can keep contained by touch - but dont over do it. You need to concentrate on your life! Source(s): had lots of friends who made discouraging choices & led them down the path to no- where.
25 & with satisfaction married...& being smart.! starting family- next yr./
your her friend. she needs your support now more than ever! your not a appropriate friend if you drop her because of the vicious rumours around your school. if you were to drop he because of something like that after i can say from my opinion your not a very fitting friend and she deserves a friend who will give her the comfort and support that she needs!
if she wishes to keep her little one then that is her decision, and if her fiance doesn't stick around after the baby's born next her and her baby are better without him in their lives because he is a coward!
u have to stick wit her u may b her only friend so u have to support her dont convey her what to do coz she might blame u later put her in touch wit other people contained by similar situations so she can get a idea of what its goin to b like
thats dumb.. getting married. bad satisfactory to get pregnant.what a mess..i am not sure where to even begin.so i will say-so, get the parents involved. get in university. or welcome to welfare.,and live at mommies house,and being all alone. because that so call boyfried will be long gone.
umm give an account her to adopt, give her all the negative reason why she needs to adopt, like costing her money, its going to be full time and frustrating etc
Try to stick by her, she may not realise it but will stipulation a friend like you when the baby’s born. Her boyfriend should have taken better care of her and not get her pregnant, but at the end of the day its happened in a minute, if you are her friend don’t neglect her she will realise in her own time…
Um schools out?
Answers: You know this situation is actually difficult and its graceful to judge when you're not in either of the situation. One of my closet friends get pregnant and once she had the baby her boyfriend stayed for a while then purely left and by then we had lost contact because she be just infatuated with him. It was her who pushed relations away and her who thought her friends weren't good enough anymore and if she's doing that to you it's her who has to realise it. I don't deem you should stop talking to her, try and be a friend and be there for her as hard as she's making it because when you inevitability someone, hopefully someone up there will remember what you did. If the relationship is destroyed don't let it come from you. Just try your best. But remember just because she's pregnant doesn't tight you cannot be friends. If this guy does run off once the baby is born she will realise what a great friend you were sticking by her side even though she be a real unappreciative cow.
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im the only person surrounded by the year who still talks to her, but i think shes throwing her life away, shes already bought a cot, clothes and choosing name.
im starting to realise what everyone means when they talk about her, and i dont meditate our friendship can last. help?
Well from the story you share I don't think he's going to stick around.I think your being a dutiful friend sticking by her side while she's going though this.All those other people are fake to stop talking to her only because of what she's going though.I don't think she's throwing her life away.Although being a teen parent is rock-hard it's not the end of the world.She's supposed to to be be buying clothes and choosing names and all of that she's something like to be a mom.Keep doing what your doing you aren't wrong to be her friend don't listen to those people.As long as she not hurting or disrespecting you.
if it was up to Me i would back her all i can, she has got a kid coming on the approach and when the child is born and she is in trouble who will she have to stick by her side. eh ? look other people might utter things about her cause she is 15 and pregnant, it doesn't mean you should listen to what they influence you have known her nearly all your life span she has told you her secrets and thoughts who else would she have told ? adjectives i am saying is when the baby is born she will ned somebody to look out for her and who will that be, sure her mum but that wouldn't be the same will it ? soon you could be that style she'll be there for you right? remember future if u fall out near her because she is pregnant the to me she will think how much a good friend you were ...x
Good luck : )
stay her friend:)
because im sure she's lost and confused and needs someone to relief her, she needs a friend to help her get through this! :)
so even tho you disagree beside what she done, try to stay her friend. And she is very young, so yess encourage possible adoption?
but do NOT agree to her get an abortion!
:)
hoped this helped:) Source(s): kaylee:)
Once your friend has that baby she will no longer enjoy a life like she had since that baby. You are right she was dumb about getting pregnant but you cant make over it now. Appreciate what you have because once it is gone it is gone. Having a baby examination A lot of relationships and yours is being tested now. If you feel you don't want to concord with it you have that right but she does need someone to lean on especially if you won't reckon the father is going to stick around. Kids talk **** but don't listen to them.
Encourage adoption!
so ur going to ditch your friend who right very soon probably is in the most need for one. if my friend was that childish and pregnant i would be there for her the whole time. ur right her bf prob wont stick around most guys dont but think are u worried roughly what ppl will think if your hanging with her is that what humane of friend u are i feel sorry for her, honestly i do ppl talk crap like within something. watch bet one of them ppl talking crap becomes pregnant as a teen im sure nearby having sex to. im just telling you she will seize mood swings its not you she takin it out on if she was my friend id be by her side i have a friend who is 16 in a minute got pregnant at 14 had her at 15 best friend i could ever have wouldnt trade her for anything and ppl did have a chat **** but i love her i would never leave her even if she got pregnant again she is there for me
She's done a tremendously silly thing, getting into this situation and she probably doesn't know just how silly but she is going to be going though a really difficult time soon.
Pregnancy is a tough thing for someone of any age and raise a child even more so. Being a teen, one of the worst things possible is having all of your peers look down on you so she probably really needs some support and a friend.
Try to be nearby for her but spend as much time as you can doing normal teen things. If you don't want to talk baby things, next tell her that. She has to understand that not adjectives 15 year olds are interested and if she has a problem with it, thats tough since you're the only friend she have left.
If you are willing to talk babe-in-arms stuff though then perhaps try bringing up the not so fun sides of parent hood like the vomit, dirty nappies, toilet training and sleepless night to make sure she fully understands what she's got coming.
Some teens are totally sensible and are as prepared as they can be but some treat it like a trophy or a doll and just think of the cute clothes and name but not the real side of it.
I hope you can find a way through.
Good luck. x
oh dear what a dilemma, i wouldnt push her away just cos you chew over she is throwing her life away she needs a friend right now and not bein mean but what her fella decides to do isnt really your place to say anything this is theyre life. of late be a friend to her if you really value her friendship that is, boyfriends will come and go but friends and i expect good friends those will last
If she really is intent on keeping this babe-in-arms and has the support of her family, she really is going to need adjectives the support she can get. Try and stick by her and keep being her friend x
your right... you need to be a 15 yr infirm.. dont burden your life with her issues... back off- she may entail people- but this is when family comes in.. you can keep contained by touch - but dont over do it. You need to concentrate on your life! Source(s): had lots of friends who made discouraging choices & led them down the path to no- where.
25 & with satisfaction married...& being smart.! starting family- next yr./
your her friend. she needs your support now more than ever! your not a appropriate friend if you drop her because of the vicious rumours around your school. if you were to drop he because of something like that after i can say from my opinion your not a very fitting friend and she deserves a friend who will give her the comfort and support that she needs!
if she wishes to keep her little one then that is her decision, and if her fiance doesn't stick around after the baby's born next her and her baby are better without him in their lives because he is a coward!
u have to stick wit her u may b her only friend so u have to support her dont convey her what to do coz she might blame u later put her in touch wit other people contained by similar situations so she can get a idea of what its goin to b like
thats dumb.. getting married. bad satisfactory to get pregnant.what a mess..i am not sure where to even begin.so i will say-so, get the parents involved. get in university. or welcome to welfare.,and live at mommies house,and being all alone. because that so call boyfried will be long gone.
umm give an account her to adopt, give her all the negative reason why she needs to adopt, like costing her money, its going to be full time and frustrating etc
Try to stick by her, she may not realise it but will stipulation a friend like you when the baby’s born. Her boyfriend should have taken better care of her and not get her pregnant, but at the end of the day its happened in a minute, if you are her friend don’t neglect her she will realise in her own time…
Um schools out?
Answers: You know this situation is actually difficult and its graceful to judge when you're not in either of the situation. One of my closet friends get pregnant and once she had the baby her boyfriend stayed for a while then purely left and by then we had lost contact because she be just infatuated with him. It was her who pushed relations away and her who thought her friends weren't good enough anymore and if she's doing that to you it's her who has to realise it. I don't deem you should stop talking to her, try and be a friend and be there for her as hard as she's making it because when you inevitability someone, hopefully someone up there will remember what you did. If the relationship is destroyed don't let it come from you. Just try your best. But remember just because she's pregnant doesn't tight you cannot be friends. If this guy does run off once the baby is born she will realise what a great friend you were sticking by her side even though she be a real unappreciative cow.
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