Is this usual for right in a minute?

So ever since my mom died (March '09), i have lived with my dad, who was seperated from my mom. So when my mom be alive, i saw my dad everyday, from 4-6 pm (but he slept most of the time), and fri. night-sun. morning). But now, my dad is having a hard time person a full time father. He really doesn't know who i really am. He expects me to be the girl i am in school: the straight A student who is a sweetheart. But i'm not. I do have a resentment, so i have the tendency to get contained by arguments. I am depressed right now, and he is taking me to a counseler who recommended a phychiatrist. But he isn't even researching any. Is it normal for my dad to not know me, but says he does? And why isn't he getting me help out?

Note: My dad and mom seperated when i was 7. He had a gf for 5 years after that., but didn't tell me or my mom or sister because he didn't want to hurt us. He have a different gf now. Should i forgive him for not telling me? I'm just really confused right presently. It's like my dad doesn't care. Can i just enjoy some advice? And don't say i'm sorry for your loss, because i hated and other will hate my mom. (Abuse)

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Answers:    blah blah no one cares

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