(IM SCARED) losing your virginity.(HELP)(PLEASE)?
Well im am 15 almost 16 and i am going to lose my virginity soon! (SO IF YOU ARE HERE TO TELL ME I AM TO YOUNG THEN PLEASE LEAVE NOW) Anyways.im really scared.like im with the personality i want to be with and all.and i feel set.im just scared.of the pain and the bleeding..is it really as desperate as they say it is the first time?.how do i buy condoms?.Where do we do it?...
Please Help
any first time stories would be greatly appreciated
u dont even know how to buy comdons? r u sure ur ready, sit down next to ur guy and talk about how u feel. u can buy protection purely about anywhere and go to ur doctor and go on the pill or something else for double protection.
i didnt bleed much and it didnt hurt
The more you relax the less it will hurt, and usually in attendance won't be much blood at all, if there is then its time to STOP. You newly buy condoms from a pharmacy, grocery store or some family planning places give them out for free. Make sure you use lubricant aswell, as even tho the condom has some, and you will most likley be tense therefore you won't have much personal lubricant yourself so itwill hurt more. It doesn't sounds close to your ready but i don't think there ever is a moral time when you're ready-most first times are awkward and nothing TOO special as you are in some discomfort. Make sure you put the condom on before he even enter you at all as i asume he would be young aswell meaning here most chance of him coming sooner then you'd expect and we don't want another one of those."I think i might be pregnant" posts on here. Put the condom on first since you do anything.
if you're scared next you're not ready.
when you're TRULY ready then you won't be upset, it will just happen.
if you're scared and ill-equipped then you'll really regret it later.
but if you're gonna do it anyway then you entail to get on BC and condoms. BC from your doctor. Condoms can be bought at walmart, drugstores, and gas stations.
My mum always said to me if you can buys condoms for yourself you know your ready to hold sex. I realised that when even though I wanted to have sex I was too embarrased to buy protection. Now I am totally fine near it!! You can either buy condoms at a drugstore, or from one of those machines you find in public bathrooms etc...
I found it quite aching, but its not the same for everyone...Also I bled a little, but not a lot.
its probable best to do it at home when everyone is out so you own all the time you want to just play around and learn.
Sorry if its not the best info but its how I did it!
Best of luck xxxx Source(s): ME!
You can freshly by condoms at CVS. I've bought them there once. you don't need an ID, so don't worry. you can do it contained by your bed when your parents are out. or at his house. or the backseat of a car.
And your not to young to have sex at adjectives. 15 is around the normal age.
i was drunk my first time so it was a mistake cause i didnt love the creature then he went around telling everyone so i didnt cooperate to him for months. but it hurt pretty bad even though i was drunk. && i regret ever having sex near any one i wish i could have my virginity back. and you may regard as u love tht person what happens if he uses you. wouldnt u want him to want u for u my friend was beside her boy friend for 3 years took each others virginitys they both cheated on each other. she ended up getting pregnant something like 14. and you can do it anywhere.lol. tht you wont get caught. and go to any store to buy them they have them at most stores. jus embezzle them to the counter and get them, and relax and it wont hurt near as bad. and u may be aware of ready what happens if you end up reliasing your not thats something you cant purely have back.
Answers: Buy condoms anywhere and go through a self check out if your embarrassed. For your first time: Make sure you own some time and take your time. I don't know how far you've already gone but after the foreplay you should be on top at first. This lets you be in control and make sure he isn't just jamming it into you repeatedly. Remember it won't be perfect but it will be special. Have fun.
Don't be scared. My first time didn't hurt at all. It can depend on how big his penis is.It doesn't bleed too much any. If i were you i would do it in a bedroom. It's so comfy. Don't be afraid to say "ow" when it hurts. Although in attendance is pain, there is still lots of pleasure. And you're not too young, i be only 15 when i lost mine. You can buy condoms at any local drug store. Be safe, and have fun! :)
You're clearly not ready to lose your virginity if you ask omg will I bleed. Yes of course you would bleed, but it might not be as bad.
Yes, it hurts. It hurts for the first time because his going into skin which is call the "hymen".
But if you feel more than 100% ready to lose it, go a chief do it! But you need to think of plans, I did. Like, if you got an pregnant or something. You'll inevitability to take responsibility for it.
You can buy condoms from any Pharmacy. :)
I would say do it where your parents are out, or his parents are out. And if he or you hold young or older siblings wait till they are gone as capably. And do it in bed.
My first time wasn't bad at all. I have trouble having sex for the past 9 to 10 months because I knew I wasn't set. So, until I was it didn't hurt as bad as I thought it was. I didn't bleed on my first time, my second and third I did. Only in a minute it's got better.
It won't be as bad as you think, and if you plan ahead and prepare it doesn't hold to be bad at all.
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexual… is a good article that covers 99% of what you inevitability to know. Read it, then give it a day to sink contained by then read it AGAIN. Then any Qs you still have ask us, and THEN you'll be close to ready.
If you are completely comfortable beside your partner, and he spends a lot of time touching and kissing beforehand (it takes at least twenty minutes for a womanly to become fully aroused), then you will find that it is less painful. It hurts, yes, but it is not insupportable. If you use tampons, you may not bleed as your hymen will already be broken. I did not bleed at all.
If you go to a family planning clinic/planned fatherliness, you can ask all the questions you like and seize some free condoms as well.
If you don't have a proper place where you can own sex then I suggest that you don't do it. You will not be able to relax if you are outside, or inside and worried about population walking in on you. And the main thing is to soak up it- so what's the point if you're sitting there distracted by your surroundings the entire way?
EDIT: Do not do it in the fund seat of a car. Far too awkward. Hell, I didn't even enjoy it after have sex for years.
If you're really scared, then you're generous of not ready for it, you should only do it if you're relaxed, and want to.
I'm not saying you're too young at heart, but you don't really sound like you want to
you should lately try anal sex. it doesn't hurt nearly as bad. and it helps you poop better!
lol im 18 and im startled to loose my virginity too
but thats not gonna happen soon anyway
sorry but idk what it feels like
permit him buy the condoms.
and you already have someone to go it with so what do you hold to worry about? and it shouldn't hurt that much (unless he decides to verbs you) and personally i think you should always do it surrounded by his house in his bed.
Okay first off you shouldnt be alarmed... but since you are tell him. If it hurts you to bad just tolerate him know and maybe you can try again another time. I lost my virginity to my now husband at 14 and i was unbelievably scared. However we tried and it just didnt go contained by! lol We tried a few times and then just decided to hang around until another day. Then the next time we just took our time and he be very gentle. I never bled and it wasnt very itchy. We went to a conveinant store and used the little machine they have contained by there to buy condoms we were both to scared to budge out and buy them. And as far as where? Just wait until the time is right dont go out and try to find a place that take away from it. Just wait until you are alone. And if you change your mind even in the middle of it only dont be afraid to tell him. ... I am going to add that you are a little too childish but its your life and i was 14 so what can i say. very well be responsible.
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any first time stories would be greatly appreciated
u dont even know how to buy comdons? r u sure ur ready, sit down next to ur guy and talk about how u feel. u can buy protection purely about anywhere and go to ur doctor and go on the pill or something else for double protection.
i didnt bleed much and it didnt hurt
The more you relax the less it will hurt, and usually in attendance won't be much blood at all, if there is then its time to STOP. You newly buy condoms from a pharmacy, grocery store or some family planning places give them out for free. Make sure you use lubricant aswell, as even tho the condom has some, and you will most likley be tense therefore you won't have much personal lubricant yourself so itwill hurt more. It doesn't sounds close to your ready but i don't think there ever is a moral time when you're ready-most first times are awkward and nothing TOO special as you are in some discomfort. Make sure you put the condom on before he even enter you at all as i asume he would be young aswell meaning here most chance of him coming sooner then you'd expect and we don't want another one of those."I think i might be pregnant" posts on here. Put the condom on first since you do anything.
if you're scared next you're not ready.
when you're TRULY ready then you won't be upset, it will just happen.
if you're scared and ill-equipped then you'll really regret it later.
but if you're gonna do it anyway then you entail to get on BC and condoms. BC from your doctor. Condoms can be bought at walmart, drugstores, and gas stations.
My mum always said to me if you can buys condoms for yourself you know your ready to hold sex. I realised that when even though I wanted to have sex I was too embarrased to buy protection. Now I am totally fine near it!! You can either buy condoms at a drugstore, or from one of those machines you find in public bathrooms etc...
I found it quite aching, but its not the same for everyone...Also I bled a little, but not a lot.
its probable best to do it at home when everyone is out so you own all the time you want to just play around and learn.
Sorry if its not the best info but its how I did it!
Best of luck xxxx Source(s): ME!
You can freshly by condoms at CVS. I've bought them there once. you don't need an ID, so don't worry. you can do it contained by your bed when your parents are out. or at his house. or the backseat of a car.
And your not to young to have sex at adjectives. 15 is around the normal age.
i was drunk my first time so it was a mistake cause i didnt love the creature then he went around telling everyone so i didnt cooperate to him for months. but it hurt pretty bad even though i was drunk. && i regret ever having sex near any one i wish i could have my virginity back. and you may regard as u love tht person what happens if he uses you. wouldnt u want him to want u for u my friend was beside her boy friend for 3 years took each others virginitys they both cheated on each other. she ended up getting pregnant something like 14. and you can do it anywhere.lol. tht you wont get caught. and go to any store to buy them they have them at most stores. jus embezzle them to the counter and get them, and relax and it wont hurt near as bad. and u may be aware of ready what happens if you end up reliasing your not thats something you cant purely have back.
Answers: Buy condoms anywhere and go through a self check out if your embarrassed. For your first time: Make sure you own some time and take your time. I don't know how far you've already gone but after the foreplay you should be on top at first. This lets you be in control and make sure he isn't just jamming it into you repeatedly. Remember it won't be perfect but it will be special. Have fun.
Don't be scared. My first time didn't hurt at all. It can depend on how big his penis is.It doesn't bleed too much any. If i were you i would do it in a bedroom. It's so comfy. Don't be afraid to say "ow" when it hurts. Although in attendance is pain, there is still lots of pleasure. And you're not too young, i be only 15 when i lost mine. You can buy condoms at any local drug store. Be safe, and have fun! :)
You're clearly not ready to lose your virginity if you ask omg will I bleed. Yes of course you would bleed, but it might not be as bad.
Yes, it hurts. It hurts for the first time because his going into skin which is call the "hymen".
But if you feel more than 100% ready to lose it, go a chief do it! But you need to think of plans, I did. Like, if you got an pregnant or something. You'll inevitability to take responsibility for it.
You can buy condoms from any Pharmacy. :)
I would say do it where your parents are out, or his parents are out. And if he or you hold young or older siblings wait till they are gone as capably. And do it in bed.
My first time wasn't bad at all. I have trouble having sex for the past 9 to 10 months because I knew I wasn't set. So, until I was it didn't hurt as bad as I thought it was. I didn't bleed on my first time, my second and third I did. Only in a minute it's got better.
It won't be as bad as you think, and if you plan ahead and prepare it doesn't hold to be bad at all.
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexual… is a good article that covers 99% of what you inevitability to know. Read it, then give it a day to sink contained by then read it AGAIN. Then any Qs you still have ask us, and THEN you'll be close to ready.
If you are completely comfortable beside your partner, and he spends a lot of time touching and kissing beforehand (it takes at least twenty minutes for a womanly to become fully aroused), then you will find that it is less painful. It hurts, yes, but it is not insupportable. If you use tampons, you may not bleed as your hymen will already be broken. I did not bleed at all.
If you go to a family planning clinic/planned fatherliness, you can ask all the questions you like and seize some free condoms as well.
If you don't have a proper place where you can own sex then I suggest that you don't do it. You will not be able to relax if you are outside, or inside and worried about population walking in on you. And the main thing is to soak up it- so what's the point if you're sitting there distracted by your surroundings the entire way?
EDIT: Do not do it in the fund seat of a car. Far too awkward. Hell, I didn't even enjoy it after have sex for years.
If you're really scared, then you're generous of not ready for it, you should only do it if you're relaxed, and want to.
I'm not saying you're too young at heart, but you don't really sound like you want to
you should lately try anal sex. it doesn't hurt nearly as bad. and it helps you poop better!
lol im 18 and im startled to loose my virginity too
but thats not gonna happen soon anyway
sorry but idk what it feels like
permit him buy the condoms.
and you already have someone to go it with so what do you hold to worry about? and it shouldn't hurt that much (unless he decides to verbs you) and personally i think you should always do it surrounded by his house in his bed.
Okay first off you shouldnt be alarmed... but since you are tell him. If it hurts you to bad just tolerate him know and maybe you can try again another time. I lost my virginity to my now husband at 14 and i was unbelievably scared. However we tried and it just didnt go contained by! lol We tried a few times and then just decided to hang around until another day. Then the next time we just took our time and he be very gentle. I never bled and it wasnt very itchy. We went to a conveinant store and used the little machine they have contained by there to buy condoms we were both to scared to budge out and buy them. And as far as where? Just wait until the time is right dont go out and try to find a place that take away from it. Just wait until you are alone. And if you change your mind even in the middle of it only dont be afraid to tell him. ... I am going to add that you are a little too childish but its your life and i was 14 so what can i say. very well be responsible.
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