How do i relate my mom am pregnant even though she believes am a virgin?
am 6-7 weeks pregnant and i have not lived with my mom for 2 years until early july...immediately am pregnant...the father of my child is not here, it just happened...you know when thee girl is going away the guy always requirements to have that one last special moment not knowing that you'll get pregnant.powerfully that's me.please anyone who went through this i need help basis sooner or later she's gonna find out.and am scared she like put me out or something
just report her. she might be disappointed in you but explain to her the circumstances. better tell her now than she finds out herself when your belly begin to show. if living with your mother is better then stay with her.
i've have to go through this as i am sure a lot of other girls have have to. I just said mum i need to tell you something, and she only just looked at me and said "your not pregant are you?" even though she didnt know i wasnt a virgin, and i just said yes and then it went crazzy but it calm down after a few hours or days goood luck and congratulations!
I was 15 and had to wake my mom up at 1 AM and not merely tell her I wasn't a virgin, but I was having a miscarriage. It's complicated, but you have to just come out and tell her. She loves you and she might be foolish, but she will come around.
SHe probably realize your not gonna be a virgin all you life
you never no she might be exicted and pleased for you and its not like its undemocratic for you
The father dosent seem like the right person for you too be around but he the babe-in-arms of your father so you need to keep him in voled within the baby's life
Tell her you've been arrested.
The pregnancy piece will seem like a relief after that.
Just sit your mom down tell her you necessitate to talk and explain to her the situation.
You are sexually active and you got pregnant.
As you said she will find out eventually better to be mature, upfront and honest with her, rather than trying to lie, or salt away the facts.
Good Luck.
i be going to seriously answer this question, but why can't you EVER say i am, instead of just am? it truly really annoys me because it makes absolutely no sense.
you just need too tell her if she finds out latter on it will return with really bad. plus at one point in time she was a teen so she should lower than stand. look at it this way you have 3 options. explain to her. lie and wait for her too find out. get an abortion whitch if she finds out roughly speaking that youre dead so take the lesser of the path and tell her
You are 18. Now you get to be an adult. Tell her _as an adult_ "I get pregnant and I have a lo to do to deal with this. I would appreciate a place to stay until I can take my responsibilities together. " Let her respond to that . Expect her to be mad.
You need to apply for state aid, you need to be looking for work as does the Dad. You two are a kinfolk and need to pull together, even if it is from separate places.
you should just start talking to her about your personal go and just be like yea I had a bf for a while but next i moved back here with you and before i come back i spent the night with him and in a minute im pregnant.
pray abt it. everything will be ok.
Have a talk. Bring the topic of sex in. Explain you're pregnant. You can't cover up a growing stomach, I would think eventually your mom would notice your stomach growing.
Well, how awful it is to tell your mom depends on how old you are. If your elder 19-whatever just come out and tell her that your pregnat. If your younger just communicate her. "Mom, I'm not a virgin anymore, and I'm pregnat!"
write your mom a data or a letter.then depending on how your mom reacts to doomed to failure news,either step back or run away from the room.some moms do step crazy.and not in a good way
just come straight out and tell her. communicate her it was an accident. If she turns you out you could always stay next to the father's family.
Just be completely straight with her, dont craft up some excuse and you and her should be able to get through it, im sure she will be mad other things, but you should know how to tell her
not to be rude but how old are u? if your - like - of age she should understand... will you ever see the guy again? explain to your mom... its hard but its better than waiting until she notices your stomach getting bigger... she'll be upset she had to find out since you told her
good luck
You just need to come straight out and report to her. She loves you, and will help you no matter what.
Well honestly, I think if you're old enough to hold sex then you should be old enough to relay your mom. I hope you have a plan on how you're going to support a baby. But I think your mom should still put you out , I plan after all she shouldn't be burdened with taking care of you and your babe. Remember it was your one last special moment with your boyfriend. Good luck:)
Sorry If I nouns mean I just wish race would actually think about things up to that time they act on it and change their life forever.
Well how old-fashioned are you? That could put a lot of things different ways.
Answers: Well you can newly show her the pregnancy test you took. That will speak volumes.
Do you intend to keep this pregnancy? Have you thought your options through? Pick your poison - parenting, adoption or abortion. You should probably amount out what YOU want to do about this pregnancy before you tell anyone. www.yourbackline.com is option counseling for pregnancy, completely unbiased and free; if you need help going over your option and deciding.
Just in case you need/want this info, I'm a moment ago gonna put it here . . . . .
If you go to a Planned Parenthood clinic that has a low-income program it can be as cheap as 115$. If you tells them you enjoy no job, no money and no support they will likely have you rate the minimum for the procedure and get donations to cover the rest. 1-8OO-230-PLAN (1-8OO-230-7526) to find the Planned Parenthood clinic nearest you. You have the choice between the pill (which can be taken up to 11weeks, at home or at a friends house) or the vacuum method (in clinic procedure).
If you are underage you may want to check this site out to see about parental consent law and whatnot. http://www.sexetc.org/state
I respect that it is your CHOICE and understand that you will probably doing what's best for you, whatever that may be. Do not listen to these other women telling you what to do. THIS IS YOUR CHOICE AND YOUR CHOICE ONLY! If you want/need to chat about it drop me an email.
It is entirely possible to have an abortion and not feel guilt because you know it was the right thing to do.
ImNotSorry.net
~Pro-Choice Momma; Have have an abortion <no regrets> and I have a 7 month old daughter <no regrets>. I believe in protecting my daughter's choice.
Edit - Thumbs down? It's purely info - take it or leave it. The Asker never specified if she intended to keep the pregnancy nor did she -at first- let somebody know us her age.
Don't like abortions, you have every right not to get one. See how simple that be? Like I said, it's just info - get over it!
*Oh and if it was my abortion nearly which I have no regrets that got me the thumbs down. Whoever did that can blow me! When someone tells you your pregnancy is ectopic and you've be there yourself then *maybe* you can judge me.
be grownup about it and she will respect u more...more importantly...are u going to keep it?
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just report her. she might be disappointed in you but explain to her the circumstances. better tell her now than she finds out herself when your belly begin to show. if living with your mother is better then stay with her.
i've have to go through this as i am sure a lot of other girls have have to. I just said mum i need to tell you something, and she only just looked at me and said "your not pregant are you?" even though she didnt know i wasnt a virgin, and i just said yes and then it went crazzy but it calm down after a few hours or days goood luck and congratulations!
I was 15 and had to wake my mom up at 1 AM and not merely tell her I wasn't a virgin, but I was having a miscarriage. It's complicated, but you have to just come out and tell her. She loves you and she might be foolish, but she will come around.
SHe probably realize your not gonna be a virgin all you life
you never no she might be exicted and pleased for you and its not like its undemocratic for you
The father dosent seem like the right person for you too be around but he the babe-in-arms of your father so you need to keep him in voled within the baby's life
Tell her you've been arrested.
The pregnancy piece will seem like a relief after that.
Just sit your mom down tell her you necessitate to talk and explain to her the situation.
You are sexually active and you got pregnant.
As you said she will find out eventually better to be mature, upfront and honest with her, rather than trying to lie, or salt away the facts.
Good Luck.
i be going to seriously answer this question, but why can't you EVER say i am, instead of just am? it truly really annoys me because it makes absolutely no sense.
you just need too tell her if she finds out latter on it will return with really bad. plus at one point in time she was a teen so she should lower than stand. look at it this way you have 3 options. explain to her. lie and wait for her too find out. get an abortion whitch if she finds out roughly speaking that youre dead so take the lesser of the path and tell her
You are 18. Now you get to be an adult. Tell her _as an adult_ "I get pregnant and I have a lo to do to deal with this. I would appreciate a place to stay until I can take my responsibilities together. " Let her respond to that . Expect her to be mad.
You need to apply for state aid, you need to be looking for work as does the Dad. You two are a kinfolk and need to pull together, even if it is from separate places.
you should just start talking to her about your personal go and just be like yea I had a bf for a while but next i moved back here with you and before i come back i spent the night with him and in a minute im pregnant.
pray abt it. everything will be ok.
Have a talk. Bring the topic of sex in. Explain you're pregnant. You can't cover up a growing stomach, I would think eventually your mom would notice your stomach growing.
Well, how awful it is to tell your mom depends on how old you are. If your elder 19-whatever just come out and tell her that your pregnat. If your younger just communicate her. "Mom, I'm not a virgin anymore, and I'm pregnat!"
write your mom a data or a letter.then depending on how your mom reacts to doomed to failure news,either step back or run away from the room.some moms do step crazy.and not in a good way
just come straight out and tell her. communicate her it was an accident. If she turns you out you could always stay next to the father's family.
Just be completely straight with her, dont craft up some excuse and you and her should be able to get through it, im sure she will be mad other things, but you should know how to tell her
not to be rude but how old are u? if your - like - of age she should understand... will you ever see the guy again? explain to your mom... its hard but its better than waiting until she notices your stomach getting bigger... she'll be upset she had to find out since you told her
good luck
You just need to come straight out and report to her. She loves you, and will help you no matter what.
Well honestly, I think if you're old enough to hold sex then you should be old enough to relay your mom. I hope you have a plan on how you're going to support a baby. But I think your mom should still put you out , I plan after all she shouldn't be burdened with taking care of you and your babe. Remember it was your one last special moment with your boyfriend. Good luck:)
Sorry If I nouns mean I just wish race would actually think about things up to that time they act on it and change their life forever.
Well how old-fashioned are you? That could put a lot of things different ways.
Answers: Well you can newly show her the pregnancy test you took. That will speak volumes.
Do you intend to keep this pregnancy? Have you thought your options through? Pick your poison - parenting, adoption or abortion. You should probably amount out what YOU want to do about this pregnancy before you tell anyone. www.yourbackline.com is option counseling for pregnancy, completely unbiased and free; if you need help going over your option and deciding.
Just in case you need/want this info, I'm a moment ago gonna put it here . . . . .
If you go to a Planned Parenthood clinic that has a low-income program it can be as cheap as 115$. If you tells them you enjoy no job, no money and no support they will likely have you rate the minimum for the procedure and get donations to cover the rest. 1-8OO-230-PLAN (1-8OO-230-7526) to find the Planned Parenthood clinic nearest you. You have the choice between the pill (which can be taken up to 11weeks, at home or at a friends house) or the vacuum method (in clinic procedure).
If you are underage you may want to check this site out to see about parental consent law and whatnot. http://www.sexetc.org/state
I respect that it is your CHOICE and understand that you will probably doing what's best for you, whatever that may be. Do not listen to these other women telling you what to do. THIS IS YOUR CHOICE AND YOUR CHOICE ONLY! If you want/need to chat about it drop me an email.
It is entirely possible to have an abortion and not feel guilt because you know it was the right thing to do.
ImNotSorry.net
~Pro-Choice Momma; Have have an abortion <no regrets> and I have a 7 month old daughter <no regrets>. I believe in protecting my daughter's choice.
Edit - Thumbs down? It's purely info - take it or leave it. The Asker never specified if she intended to keep the pregnancy nor did she -at first- let somebody know us her age.
Don't like abortions, you have every right not to get one. See how simple that be? Like I said, it's just info - get over it!
*Oh and if it was my abortion nearly which I have no regrets that got me the thumbs down. Whoever did that can blow me! When someone tells you your pregnancy is ectopic and you've be there yourself then *maybe* you can judge me.
be grownup about it and she will respect u more...more importantly...are u going to keep it?
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