11 y/o and mortal fingered AT SCHOOL- are you kid me?
So my daughter is eleven years old. She has a wonderful home life and is a massively happy child. I'm not strict on her, but she knows her limits and she know to be respectful, honest, and to 'act her age', at least.
While reading her text messages on her cell phone bill, I own discovered that she has a little boyfriend that apparently fingered her at school- what the hell? Thats ALL i have to speak. How could a school let this go un notice? Where could an eleven year old boy and girl go to be alone in a SUPERVISED elementary institution?
My daughter has been punished and dealt near, but the school thing just pisses me off-- anyone near me on this? Do you guys agree that a school has that responsibility over a child to ensure that they aren't in risk? Yes, i'm considering this 'danger'.
I'm livid. As a parent, who agrees with me?
yeah, i agree with youu!
eleven years old is like... sixth/fifth title right?
w.e. im going into eigthh in sept., and i don't think anyone in my title has done that yet. probably will in the subsequent year or 2 but w.e.
anyways, she's too young for like a boyfriend and definitely too babyish for kissing.
you need to have a talk beside her like NOW. and with the boy and his parents. i don't think i even know what fingering was until sixth gradee, haha.
I'm not a parent, almost no one contained by this section is.
But no I don't agree with you, the school and the teacher can't be expected to watch all the students at all times, they do their best but as far as these sensitive of things go, it is not their responsibility. It is your daughter and her boyfriend's responsibility, and you as a parent should know more about what's happening next to her...
It's not the schools job to make sure your 11 year aged daughter isn't letting her boyfriend finger her. Make sense?
wow thats crazy. nearby is like no where two 11 yr olds can go within a school alone and do that! the school needs to know where on earth they are and the boy that did that should be punished.
It's becoming the norm. Teachers are underpaid and don't give a damn. Kids are over sexed and losing their virginity at younger and younger ages. It sucks, I know. The most we can do is talk to our kids. Knowledge is power. I hope you can instruct your daughter to respect herself because unfortunately that isn't taught in institution anymore.
I'm not a parent, but I totally agree. When I was 11, my stepsisters who were 9 and 6 used to speak about me they were kissing and having sex with boys contained by the bathroom. I didn't even know what half the stuff meant. I'm sure they didn't either, but it's still disgusting. Schools should really monitor what the children are doing. Especially elementary school. It's really scary to hear because my brother is the same age as your daughter. I'm sorry that this happen to you, I would be so angry if I were in your position. Good for you for punishing your daughter.
As for the school, I'm sure you are going to offer them an earful. It is indeed danger. Who knows what kind of diseases she can pick up? She is lone 11, she doesn't really know better.
Well just approaching you, the school has hundreds of kids to watch, they can't constantly see every single child every single minute. I know at my elementary school, we had a HUGE soccer field that be way far away from the people that were supposed to be watching us.
Well that sounds personal to me.
Its your DAUGHTERS fault not the schools.
But I extraordinarily much agree with you I mean this is terrible.
I thought you be a troll at first but obvi your not.
Wow.
well seeing as the kids stir out on the play ground and easily slip into a bathroom stall i dont really think it can get pinned on the institution. that is more for you to take up with your daughter, the boy and his parents. thats of late sick
That is foolish. I don't understand how that could go unnoticed either. I'd discuss to her principal about it and have a direct talk near her.
hey this happene at my school when i was in elementury they stir in the bathrooms durring class or reces
you should give her the birds and the bee's talk
and i agree 100%with you
I agree, though I'm only 13. >.>
Um...has she had 'the talk' or Sex Ed on the other hand? 'cause here we did when we were 11/12, and in title six.
"little boy" - it's your not you're. it's not a contraction for her child, it's hers as a possession.
and yess contact the school. thats uncalled for.
Answers: Im not a parent but if that happened to my child i would be livid to, i would be up at that school describing them what happened and be talking to the boy's parents about what happen as well and be wanting to know what they will be doing with the situation
I'm not a parent, but I somewhat agree.
Talk to the principal.
Aren't there consequences when those kinds of things happen?
You know, close to the boy getting suspended or something?
I totally agree but it is the norm. I be appauled by what I found out about a (only just) 12 year old buy. Its disgusting. Being 15 and not doing any of that stuff I was appauled by what the younger ones own been up to Im telling you!
The arts school doesn't watch only you're child, there are much more, so you can't blame them.
I agree with you up to a point. The school isn't a babysitting service. It's not really their responsibility to make sure your child doesn't win fingered. Although, they should have noticed or called you. I construe that's disgusting though. I'm glad you talked to her about it.
I'm not a parent, but I think this is just wrong too.
I mean SERIOUSLY? These kids probably still keep watch on cartoons and buy Disney Channel stars' CDs. They're little kids!
And I thought my school was incompetent...
Oh wow, 11 years old?
If I were you I would hire a lawyer, and discuss the situation near them. I'm pretty sure you have a lawsuit against the school, they should have be watching over the kids.
You're her parent so you shouldn't act like you don't enjoy any of the blame as to how your daughter turned out... =/
Im not a parent but im a sister to a 15 year old
and i would bust a panama !!
what is crazy !
Wow. Go talk to her principal. That is just wrong.
I agree with you... I heard roughly this one girl at my school (high school) who had her boyfriend finger her in the stair economically! Once I heard that it was hard for me to totter down the stairs . . . I just don't see how it happens either, i aim (at least with my school experience) ANYWHERE you move about, there are people (kids or staff) walking in and out. And to be exact kinda hard to NOT notice as "unusual", to be put nicely. I contemplate the teachers/etc. are not really looking for things, they just end up stumbling across them. I just don't know what else to say aloud... It's just so shocking to hear things like this. I wish you luck beside your daughter.
kids these days.
i'm not a parent nor am i an mature i am 14 and to me thats just not even right
You should punish her and leave the school alone. Her school enthusiasm could very well be ruined by you making contact with them. She have learned her lesson and there is no need to punish her further by making her lose her friends at institution as well. Which is what would happen if someone found out that you went, relatives would not claim her and she would be a loner for the rest of school.
Your responsibility is her, not every child there. Source(s): Edit* Some of these people nouns retarded. Lawsuit? Really? You would be causing your daughter and other students so much pain and time by doing this. Talk to his parents about it, but move out the school out.
Yea i am with you i do not understand how a mentor or even one of the other children did not see this and it is very wrong she is way to young and i know from experience that sex is something that every teen think about at one point and time but to go and do it is another thing. I suggest i was young when i lost my virginity and that's because my parents did not really care what we did and i get pregnant at 17 so i as a parent now would be a little stricter on her and pay attention to everything she does and who she consultation to. So yes i agree and i think that all parents should keep a close eye on their children when they become teens. Source(s): Experience
Okay, not a parent. but I know what you mean. I take care of my sisters essentially full time so I'm like a parent.
I'd be really afraid if something like that happened to my sister(s)
I agree that the conservatory should pay more attention to students because at my old school, kids would achieve away with so many things.
They actually started this winter sport, where they would see how many different classes they could masturbate in and not bring back caught. no one got caught, and about 6 different kids be involved. and so many people would sneak off to bathrooms at specific times to do things similar to making out and teachers have no idea.
Or if they do, they don't do anything in the region of it.
I think it's ridiculous :(
Schools are supposed to be a safe environment.
They stressed that all the time at my institution, but hey, look what happened!?
The school isn't responsible for your daughter being a hoe.
There are TONS of children in her university, I'm sure. They can't keep an eye on all of them all the time.
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While reading her text messages on her cell phone bill, I own discovered that she has a little boyfriend that apparently fingered her at school- what the hell? Thats ALL i have to speak. How could a school let this go un notice? Where could an eleven year old boy and girl go to be alone in a SUPERVISED elementary institution?
My daughter has been punished and dealt near, but the school thing just pisses me off-- anyone near me on this? Do you guys agree that a school has that responsibility over a child to ensure that they aren't in risk? Yes, i'm considering this 'danger'.
I'm livid. As a parent, who agrees with me?
yeah, i agree with youu!
eleven years old is like... sixth/fifth title right?
w.e. im going into eigthh in sept., and i don't think anyone in my title has done that yet. probably will in the subsequent year or 2 but w.e.
anyways, she's too young for like a boyfriend and definitely too babyish for kissing.
you need to have a talk beside her like NOW. and with the boy and his parents. i don't think i even know what fingering was until sixth gradee, haha.
I'm not a parent, almost no one contained by this section is.
But no I don't agree with you, the school and the teacher can't be expected to watch all the students at all times, they do their best but as far as these sensitive of things go, it is not their responsibility. It is your daughter and her boyfriend's responsibility, and you as a parent should know more about what's happening next to her...
It's not the schools job to make sure your 11 year aged daughter isn't letting her boyfriend finger her. Make sense?
wow thats crazy. nearby is like no where two 11 yr olds can go within a school alone and do that! the school needs to know where on earth they are and the boy that did that should be punished.
It's becoming the norm. Teachers are underpaid and don't give a damn. Kids are over sexed and losing their virginity at younger and younger ages. It sucks, I know. The most we can do is talk to our kids. Knowledge is power. I hope you can instruct your daughter to respect herself because unfortunately that isn't taught in institution anymore.
I'm not a parent, but I totally agree. When I was 11, my stepsisters who were 9 and 6 used to speak about me they were kissing and having sex with boys contained by the bathroom. I didn't even know what half the stuff meant. I'm sure they didn't either, but it's still disgusting. Schools should really monitor what the children are doing. Especially elementary school. It's really scary to hear because my brother is the same age as your daughter. I'm sorry that this happen to you, I would be so angry if I were in your position. Good for you for punishing your daughter.
As for the school, I'm sure you are going to offer them an earful. It is indeed danger. Who knows what kind of diseases she can pick up? She is lone 11, she doesn't really know better.
Well just approaching you, the school has hundreds of kids to watch, they can't constantly see every single child every single minute. I know at my elementary school, we had a HUGE soccer field that be way far away from the people that were supposed to be watching us.
Well that sounds personal to me.
Its your DAUGHTERS fault not the schools.
But I extraordinarily much agree with you I mean this is terrible.
I thought you be a troll at first but obvi your not.
Wow.
well seeing as the kids stir out on the play ground and easily slip into a bathroom stall i dont really think it can get pinned on the institution. that is more for you to take up with your daughter, the boy and his parents. thats of late sick
That is foolish. I don't understand how that could go unnoticed either. I'd discuss to her principal about it and have a direct talk near her.
hey this happene at my school when i was in elementury they stir in the bathrooms durring class or reces
you should give her the birds and the bee's talk
and i agree 100%with you
I agree, though I'm only 13. >.>
Um...has she had 'the talk' or Sex Ed on the other hand? 'cause here we did when we were 11/12, and in title six.
"little boy" - it's your not you're. it's not a contraction for her child, it's hers as a possession.
and yess contact the school. thats uncalled for.
Answers: Im not a parent but if that happened to my child i would be livid to, i would be up at that school describing them what happened and be talking to the boy's parents about what happen as well and be wanting to know what they will be doing with the situation
I'm not a parent, but I somewhat agree.
Talk to the principal.
Aren't there consequences when those kinds of things happen?
You know, close to the boy getting suspended or something?
I totally agree but it is the norm. I be appauled by what I found out about a (only just) 12 year old buy. Its disgusting. Being 15 and not doing any of that stuff I was appauled by what the younger ones own been up to Im telling you!
The arts school doesn't watch only you're child, there are much more, so you can't blame them.
I agree with you up to a point. The school isn't a babysitting service. It's not really their responsibility to make sure your child doesn't win fingered. Although, they should have noticed or called you. I construe that's disgusting though. I'm glad you talked to her about it.
I'm not a parent, but I think this is just wrong too.
I mean SERIOUSLY? These kids probably still keep watch on cartoons and buy Disney Channel stars' CDs. They're little kids!
And I thought my school was incompetent...
Oh wow, 11 years old?
If I were you I would hire a lawyer, and discuss the situation near them. I'm pretty sure you have a lawsuit against the school, they should have be watching over the kids.
You're her parent so you shouldn't act like you don't enjoy any of the blame as to how your daughter turned out... =/
Im not a parent but im a sister to a 15 year old
and i would bust a panama !!
what is crazy !
Wow. Go talk to her principal. That is just wrong.
I agree with you... I heard roughly this one girl at my school (high school) who had her boyfriend finger her in the stair economically! Once I heard that it was hard for me to totter down the stairs . . . I just don't see how it happens either, i aim (at least with my school experience) ANYWHERE you move about, there are people (kids or staff) walking in and out. And to be exact kinda hard to NOT notice as "unusual", to be put nicely. I contemplate the teachers/etc. are not really looking for things, they just end up stumbling across them. I just don't know what else to say aloud... It's just so shocking to hear things like this. I wish you luck beside your daughter.
kids these days.
i'm not a parent nor am i an mature i am 14 and to me thats just not even right
You should punish her and leave the school alone. Her school enthusiasm could very well be ruined by you making contact with them. She have learned her lesson and there is no need to punish her further by making her lose her friends at institution as well. Which is what would happen if someone found out that you went, relatives would not claim her and she would be a loner for the rest of school.
Your responsibility is her, not every child there. Source(s): Edit* Some of these people nouns retarded. Lawsuit? Really? You would be causing your daughter and other students so much pain and time by doing this. Talk to his parents about it, but move out the school out.
Yea i am with you i do not understand how a mentor or even one of the other children did not see this and it is very wrong she is way to young and i know from experience that sex is something that every teen think about at one point and time but to go and do it is another thing. I suggest i was young when i lost my virginity and that's because my parents did not really care what we did and i get pregnant at 17 so i as a parent now would be a little stricter on her and pay attention to everything she does and who she consultation to. So yes i agree and i think that all parents should keep a close eye on their children when they become teens. Source(s): Experience
Okay, not a parent. but I know what you mean. I take care of my sisters essentially full time so I'm like a parent.
I'd be really afraid if something like that happened to my sister(s)
I agree that the conservatory should pay more attention to students because at my old school, kids would achieve away with so many things.
They actually started this winter sport, where they would see how many different classes they could masturbate in and not bring back caught. no one got caught, and about 6 different kids be involved. and so many people would sneak off to bathrooms at specific times to do things similar to making out and teachers have no idea.
Or if they do, they don't do anything in the region of it.
I think it's ridiculous :(
Schools are supposed to be a safe environment.
They stressed that all the time at my institution, but hey, look what happened!?
The school isn't responsible for your daughter being a hoe.
There are TONS of children in her university, I'm sure. They can't keep an eye on all of them all the time.
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