"theres more fish contained by the sea".. yeah sure?
okay there are absolutely NO guys where i am that i would be interested contained by and its been like that forever. I just get back from los angeles today, and there was one guy but i be too nervous to even say hi to him. and yeah so i pretty much blew it. i know its pathetic but i enjoy no experience and its making me really upset.
so yeah maybe its me? either way, i know im going to be single until college, and i want tips on how to keep my mind guy free for four-five years and to keep myself from getting the urge for a BF or getting lonely. until i go to college and find some concrete guys
thanks.
btw, don't tell me i sound ridiculous. i know i sound pathetic, this is my last resort lol
take up a hobby [: or practice by making guy friends to warm up and get some "experience" on union new guys, even if you might not be interested in them in that route
go out with some girls to take your mind bad it too
Why worry roughly speaking 'until you get to college'? 99% of the time, a high school couple one and only lasts a couple months after one (or both) of them starts going off to college. Besides, at your age, guys are mostly immature, hormone-driven jerk.
So, that leaves you two options: One, remind yourself that you're only skipping drama and heartbreak by not getting into a relationship right now when neither of you are surrounded by a position to be serious about it. Two, realise you're not going to get serious about it, and don't be afraid to imperturbably date, but keep it casual and make that clear.
okay...u cud try like online dating,cam ect..
or u cud come were i live *wink*
lol jk jk
but seairously all joke aside.
if u see a guy that u like or that u think likes u.of late go over there n say hi. lol
its not that rock-hard. trust me. the first time 4 me wus HARD!
but lukily she came 2 me first. we went prity far and went out 4 similar to a year or sum. lol and it wus easy as hell 2 talk 2 gurls after that.
i mean comeon. if its knotty for a guy 2 talk 2 a gurl
it shud b a pice of cake 2 talk 2 a guy.
wuts the worst he coud say?
no
U CANT EVEN SAY NO TO A"hello"
OR A "hey wuts ur label?"
lol jus trry it sometime.
u never kno were itl take u.
and trying is WAAAAY better then dreaming on wut cudda ben
n for tha transcription im 13 ^^^
i shud be writin books maaan...
(live in chicago^^)
l8a
(ps. email me anytime if u got more questionz ^_^)
I feel the same approach! And if you sound pathetic I sound sad too. haha.
What i do is i try to stay active.. Join sports. Its the best thing you can do. Or make alot of friends that are girls or guys and simply hangout.
Eh, try flirting near guys around you. To get used to it. Just be friendly, and be yourself.
When you get comfortable with the guys around you, you can try other guys. That live farther away contained by the sea.
You're just in a pond right now.
Time is the stream that take you to the sea... You aren't there yet.
Answers: resourcefully tell us how old you are and we will tell you if you are man impatient!
what i tell my friends is i give then a dare. I dare them that for every masculine they see (no matter who, ALL of them) they have to mentally list their flawless points. A lot of people subconsciously knock people off their record because of their attractiveness etc, but little do they know they're perfect for them. Source(s): My boyfriend and i, for two years had never talk. He was funny, in the popular group but shy, and i was within the middling group and bubbly. I thought he wouldn't like me and he would be too shy to talk to me and cancelled him out. But then we finally get talking and i found out he was what i'd been looking for, and around me he is purely as bubbly as i am, he opens up to me.
- Don't judge a book by its cover, i dare you to try it. Just for one day, try it. Don't knock culture off your list. I DARE YOU.
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so yeah maybe its me? either way, i know im going to be single until college, and i want tips on how to keep my mind guy free for four-five years and to keep myself from getting the urge for a BF or getting lonely. until i go to college and find some concrete guys
thanks.
btw, don't tell me i sound ridiculous. i know i sound pathetic, this is my last resort lol
take up a hobby [: or practice by making guy friends to warm up and get some "experience" on union new guys, even if you might not be interested in them in that route
go out with some girls to take your mind bad it too
Why worry roughly speaking 'until you get to college'? 99% of the time, a high school couple one and only lasts a couple months after one (or both) of them starts going off to college. Besides, at your age, guys are mostly immature, hormone-driven jerk.
So, that leaves you two options: One, remind yourself that you're only skipping drama and heartbreak by not getting into a relationship right now when neither of you are surrounded by a position to be serious about it. Two, realise you're not going to get serious about it, and don't be afraid to imperturbably date, but keep it casual and make that clear.
okay...u cud try like online dating,cam ect..
or u cud come were i live *wink*
lol jk jk
but seairously all joke aside.
if u see a guy that u like or that u think likes u.of late go over there n say hi. lol
its not that rock-hard. trust me. the first time 4 me wus HARD!
but lukily she came 2 me first. we went prity far and went out 4 similar to a year or sum. lol and it wus easy as hell 2 talk 2 gurls after that.
i mean comeon. if its knotty for a guy 2 talk 2 a gurl
it shud b a pice of cake 2 talk 2 a guy.
wuts the worst he coud say?
no
U CANT EVEN SAY NO TO A"hello"
OR A "hey wuts ur label?"
lol jus trry it sometime.
u never kno were itl take u.
and trying is WAAAAY better then dreaming on wut cudda ben
n for tha transcription im 13 ^^^
i shud be writin books maaan...
(live in chicago^^)
l8a
(ps. email me anytime if u got more questionz ^_^)
I feel the same approach! And if you sound pathetic I sound sad too. haha.
What i do is i try to stay active.. Join sports. Its the best thing you can do. Or make alot of friends that are girls or guys and simply hangout.
Eh, try flirting near guys around you. To get used to it. Just be friendly, and be yourself.
When you get comfortable with the guys around you, you can try other guys. That live farther away contained by the sea.
You're just in a pond right now.
Time is the stream that take you to the sea... You aren't there yet.
Answers: resourcefully tell us how old you are and we will tell you if you are man impatient!
what i tell my friends is i give then a dare. I dare them that for every masculine they see (no matter who, ALL of them) they have to mentally list their flawless points. A lot of people subconsciously knock people off their record because of their attractiveness etc, but little do they know they're perfect for them. Source(s): My boyfriend and i, for two years had never talk. He was funny, in the popular group but shy, and i was within the middling group and bubbly. I thought he wouldn't like me and he would be too shy to talk to me and cancelled him out. But then we finally get talking and i found out he was what i'd been looking for, and around me he is purely as bubbly as i am, he opens up to me.
- Don't judge a book by its cover, i dare you to try it. Just for one day, try it. Don't knock culture off your list. I DARE YOU.
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