I cant stop going near my bestfriends boyfriend, should i speak about her to put a stop to it ? Advice please ?!?
Hi, Ive got myself into a right mess. Please read i know its long but its how it all started.
It all started when my friend kristie finished near her boyfriend. They been together about a year and were great together.
He record me askin how she was and had i heard bad her as she was going away to Turkey for 2 weeks. We all hang around together within a big group and ive known Kristie since we were both 9 we're both now 17.
So when Kristie be away me and here ex boyfriend at the time Luke were talking and he offered to walk me home. Things be awkward but nothing happened, he text me after that that night saying he liked me and hoped something could crop up etc.
The next few days out together we ignored eachother and then i realised i like him so i tried my hardest to avoid him but it isnt easy as we were close before.
Kristie next came back and they got wager on together so i didnt hear off him. But whenever they wernt together he would txt me saying that he hopes things could go backbone to the way they were as it was awkward.
Then when Kristie be working we bumped into eachother in town and just hang around the shops and caught the bus home together. He offered to stride me up to my street but just as he went he kissed me i was so shocked as i never expected him to cheat on Kristie consent to alone with her best friend. But i just carried on as usual and i then realised i have to speak to him cos i was beginning to like him.
We met up and of late talked about things and i kissed him i really dont know why but it felt right. We jus sit together and talked and cuddled it was lovely but i couldnt help construe of Kristie so just walked off.
Then after 100 of text's and phone call and awkwardness betwen us when he was with Kristie i gave within and told him how i felt.
Then before i knew it when Kristie be working we met up and we had sex. So since June we have been appointment up ad texting but i just cant stop it and even tho he saying he requests to put a end to it but a few days later he text's and it happens again.
Should i detail her just to make sure its over for good ? I really quality terrible and dont know what to do next. Its gone to far now.
Help please !
Yes bring up to date her and pray she stays your friend ...you betrayed her big time!
EDIT
I just read your additional info and to be honest I am shocked!
Why do you even want advice if you already granted??
And to choose a guy over your friend especially this easily , man that sucks!!
You are a lousy friend!
Oh and PS the guy will cheat on you too and you will be left with no friend and no bf. You deserve it!
x
you need to tell her what you are doing. Also if you choose to tell her, you will own to respect her decision whether she wants to stay friends with you or not.
Have you ever been the best friend that be cheated on?
I have. It SUCKS.
You feel like crap. You discern worthless. You feel inferior, like you weren't good satisfactory, like it was your fault / something you did. Tears your self esteem to shreds.
Every time you see them together you have a feeling like you've been punched in the stomach.
(I'm elder now, and I still can't understand girls who could do that to their friends. Maybe they just involve to be cheated on, because I know now I never could. No matter how good looking the guy is, or how much I 'like' them.)
I'm sorry, but if she ever finds out, that's what you'll enjoy done to your friend. I think you should break it off with the guy (do you really want to be beside a cheater anyway?) and put it all behind you. Forget the feelings for the guy, work harder on your friendship. It'll accumulate her the pain, and that's the least you can do.
How can you want something similar to this, with a guy who is not only going to hurt you in the adjectives, but is hurting your best friend?
He's only going to call you when she's not around. He doesn't want anything else from you. You should be able to see that! Do you reckon he's waiting until she's gone to spare her feelings? Ohhh what a sweet guy. Pshh.
Tell her. She deserves to know the person she thought was her best friend is lying to her. And hopefully she'll be smart satisfactory to leave both of you behind.
You, are one horrible friend.
Answers: Put yourself surrounded by your friends shoes.
How would you fell if she had sex with your boyfriend??
You should tell her what have happened but don't even expect her to try and forgive you...
Who's to say luke wont cheat on her with someone else?? Hes a player??
I revulsion girls that do what you do. Im sorry.
You have to relay her. By not telling her and letting her continue this raeltionship with him, she's mortal hurt more and more each time that she doesn't know whats happening! Cut your losses and get him to break up beside her, or you walk. It'll be hard, but do it for her.
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It all started when my friend kristie finished near her boyfriend. They been together about a year and were great together.
He record me askin how she was and had i heard bad her as she was going away to Turkey for 2 weeks. We all hang around together within a big group and ive known Kristie since we were both 9 we're both now 17.
So when Kristie be away me and here ex boyfriend at the time Luke were talking and he offered to walk me home. Things be awkward but nothing happened, he text me after that that night saying he liked me and hoped something could crop up etc.
The next few days out together we ignored eachother and then i realised i like him so i tried my hardest to avoid him but it isnt easy as we were close before.
Kristie next came back and they got wager on together so i didnt hear off him. But whenever they wernt together he would txt me saying that he hopes things could go backbone to the way they were as it was awkward.
Then when Kristie be working we bumped into eachother in town and just hang around the shops and caught the bus home together. He offered to stride me up to my street but just as he went he kissed me i was so shocked as i never expected him to cheat on Kristie consent to alone with her best friend. But i just carried on as usual and i then realised i have to speak to him cos i was beginning to like him.
We met up and of late talked about things and i kissed him i really dont know why but it felt right. We jus sit together and talked and cuddled it was lovely but i couldnt help construe of Kristie so just walked off.
Then after 100 of text's and phone call and awkwardness betwen us when he was with Kristie i gave within and told him how i felt.
Then before i knew it when Kristie be working we met up and we had sex. So since June we have been appointment up ad texting but i just cant stop it and even tho he saying he requests to put a end to it but a few days later he text's and it happens again.
Should i detail her just to make sure its over for good ? I really quality terrible and dont know what to do next. Its gone to far now.
Help please !
Yes bring up to date her and pray she stays your friend ...you betrayed her big time!
EDIT
I just read your additional info and to be honest I am shocked!
Why do you even want advice if you already granted??
And to choose a guy over your friend especially this easily , man that sucks!!
You are a lousy friend!
Oh and PS the guy will cheat on you too and you will be left with no friend and no bf. You deserve it!
x
you need to tell her what you are doing. Also if you choose to tell her, you will own to respect her decision whether she wants to stay friends with you or not.
Have you ever been the best friend that be cheated on?
I have. It SUCKS.
You feel like crap. You discern worthless. You feel inferior, like you weren't good satisfactory, like it was your fault / something you did. Tears your self esteem to shreds.
Every time you see them together you have a feeling like you've been punched in the stomach.
(I'm elder now, and I still can't understand girls who could do that to their friends. Maybe they just involve to be cheated on, because I know now I never could. No matter how good looking the guy is, or how much I 'like' them.)
I'm sorry, but if she ever finds out, that's what you'll enjoy done to your friend. I think you should break it off with the guy (do you really want to be beside a cheater anyway?) and put it all behind you. Forget the feelings for the guy, work harder on your friendship. It'll accumulate her the pain, and that's the least you can do.
How can you want something similar to this, with a guy who is not only going to hurt you in the adjectives, but is hurting your best friend?
He's only going to call you when she's not around. He doesn't want anything else from you. You should be able to see that! Do you reckon he's waiting until she's gone to spare her feelings? Ohhh what a sweet guy. Pshh.
Tell her. She deserves to know the person she thought was her best friend is lying to her. And hopefully she'll be smart satisfactory to leave both of you behind.
You, are one horrible friend.
Answers: Put yourself surrounded by your friends shoes.
How would you fell if she had sex with your boyfriend??
You should tell her what have happened but don't even expect her to try and forgive you...
Who's to say luke wont cheat on her with someone else?? Hes a player??
I revulsion girls that do what you do. Im sorry.
You have to relay her. By not telling her and letting her continue this raeltionship with him, she's mortal hurt more and more each time that she doesn't know whats happening! Cut your losses and get him to break up beside her, or you walk. It'll be hard, but do it for her.
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