What would you do if your 16 year hoary son or daughter did this?
so my parents found out that while they were away for 2 weeks that my boyfriend had spent the night a few night. he did sleep in my bed. and i mean we were approaching making out and cuddled while we slept but we didnt have sex.
we didnt have sex so i dont see why they are freaking out.
what is the big deal?
what would you do if your 16 year prehistoric son or daughter did this?
how can they be sure you didn't have sex?
they evidently cannot trust you because you had him over while they were gone.
its not really their fault.
Hey hi Hailey,
I am happy to know that U didn't had sex with him.
it could hold increased not only your parent's worries but yours as well
(Fear of getting Pregnant, getting infected by unsafe sex, etc)
At this age teens wants to do hot experiments with body, desire of sex is also high
And your parents are aware of that
Hence it's obvious for them to bring worried.
Explain it to them politely that nothing as such happened
Relax-everything will be fine
(any ways your additional details of your brother's made me confused)--are they also as worried as your parent's are?
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You just asked this.
They're parents. They're worried. It imply sex has happened or is going to soon enough.
It would be a big treaty to most parents I know.
You could like explain to them, that you didn't do anything, and when and if they screech, wait for them to stop, then continue and update them all you did was cuddle, and make out, if they still don't believe you, I don`t know cry and like tell them you feel so hurt they don't believe you...and are douting you.
I'm 16, If I have a 16 year old kid, I wouldn't freak out on them.
When my boyfriend stays at my house, my mom doesn't normally let us sleep surrounded by the same bed, but in the morning he'll wake up, and come cuddle near me, and we'l sleep in together. She lets us during the day lol
Well, my parents really wouldn't trust me. Are u sure that you didn't have sex next to him.
Well, your dad and mom be also once 16 and maybe they are thinking what they did at that age. Also, you dad knows what is going on through your 16 year old bf mind so I don`t know that's why they freaked. ALL males at that age. lol They are mad probably bc they didn't want him over there with you...alone. Therefore, there's probably going to be some trust issues between you and them. As a parent(I own a toddler), I'd be pretty mad too. Sorry. Someday when you have kids you'll understand the things your parents did for you. :)
How did they find out?
Im going to carry MAJOR thumbs down but
I'm 16 too and I got caught sleepingg over at a guys house.
Just take whatever punishment they contribute you,
Hopefully its not too harsh
(mine was 3 days grounding)
and then within the future figure out how they found out and make sure that you acquire rid of that varriable.
(If someone told them, make sure that person doesnt know. If he left something near, make sur ehe gets all his stuff, etc.)
Our parents be just as bad as us, or worse when they were our age.
You really just have a few more years to have fun, before your choices affect your adjectives and your career, so have fun while it lasts.
I would ground them for a few weeks to months and tell them I was dissapointed for hiding something from me and that it would be concrete for me to trust them for a while. I probably wouldn't freak out. But I'd think twice the next time I left my kid alone.
Answers: Your sixteen, a guy is spending the night, he sleeps in your bed, no matter what you say aloud your parents are going to think you had sex.
You can't change that.
Next time, it would be hugely wise to not have him over...
Another thing, I applaud you for if truth be told not having sex, most people that were surrounded by that situation would have done it in a second...
just aphorism. Source(s): also sixteen..parents will be parents.
if they didn't want anything resembling that happening they shouldn't have left you on your own for 2 weeks. instinctively I wouldn't have a problem with it.
They enjoy no proof whatsoever that you did not have sex. That is why they are freaking out, understandably.
Well, I would forbid the guy from coming over to my house. That way, he shouldn't take near your room.
Next time, do not do anything like that. Sex often lead to pregnancy, and getting pregnant at 16 is beyond stupid (I did not say that YOU are).
Well unless you have proof you didn't then they probably think you did. I estimate i would be upset as well Source(s): 26 year old mama to annysa(8) and giovanni (4 1/2)
Well, they probably trusted that you wouldn't have anyone over at the house. I aim if you guys fell asleep on purpose and he meant to stay, they would probably be worried about what you be doing. I know you say you weren't having sex, but parents don't always believe that. [Gr. I hatred when they do that!] If my mom found out a guy even came over when she was gone without asking her, she would be nutty at me, no matter what. I know to us it doesn't even seem bad! But parents construe it is. :P Just tell them that your sorry and it won't happen. And he fell asleep by mistake! :D
There would be hell to repay! My daughter is 4 years old and I can tell you there will never be behavior approaching that going on.
I would never leave a minor alone for 2 days let alone 2 weeks though!
I'd be pretty nutty. You guys didn't have sex THIS time..But what about next time or the time after that. Why are your parents departure you home alone for weeks at a time? I'm pretty sure they have laws about that.
ha! im 16, but if my parents found that out i would be signing my death warrant. literlaly id b dead! they would shishkabob me! and my boyfriend. lol. but really, hmm.. let think why their mad... maybe its cuz A BOY SLEPT IN UR BED SEVERAL NIGHTS WHILE THEY WERE GONE. ya, that tend to get parents a little upset lol. try seeing it from their point of view, after be VERY matrue about it, admit what you did was wrong.. etc.. dont argue or try to cause it seem fine! and also, how do they know u didnt have sex? your telling us that... but thats tough to believe uno? good luck xD id be in so much trouble omg..
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we didnt have sex so i dont see why they are freaking out.
what is the big deal?
what would you do if your 16 year prehistoric son or daughter did this?
how can they be sure you didn't have sex?
they evidently cannot trust you because you had him over while they were gone.
its not really their fault.
Hey hi Hailey,
I am happy to know that U didn't had sex with him.
it could hold increased not only your parent's worries but yours as well
(Fear of getting Pregnant, getting infected by unsafe sex, etc)
At this age teens wants to do hot experiments with body, desire of sex is also high
And your parents are aware of that
Hence it's obvious for them to bring worried.
Explain it to them politely that nothing as such happened
Relax-everything will be fine
(any ways your additional details of your brother's made me confused)--are they also as worried as your parent's are?
(U answered me contained by my question u have piggyback story to share with, Kindly provide me your email i.d. or answer me surrounded by my question)
waiting for your reply bye take care
You just asked this.
They're parents. They're worried. It imply sex has happened or is going to soon enough.
It would be a big treaty to most parents I know.
You could like explain to them, that you didn't do anything, and when and if they screech, wait for them to stop, then continue and update them all you did was cuddle, and make out, if they still don't believe you, I don`t know cry and like tell them you feel so hurt they don't believe you...and are douting you.
I'm 16, If I have a 16 year old kid, I wouldn't freak out on them.
When my boyfriend stays at my house, my mom doesn't normally let us sleep surrounded by the same bed, but in the morning he'll wake up, and come cuddle near me, and we'l sleep in together. She lets us during the day lol
Well, my parents really wouldn't trust me. Are u sure that you didn't have sex next to him.
Well, your dad and mom be also once 16 and maybe they are thinking what they did at that age. Also, you dad knows what is going on through your 16 year old bf mind so I don`t know that's why they freaked. ALL males at that age. lol They are mad probably bc they didn't want him over there with you...alone. Therefore, there's probably going to be some trust issues between you and them. As a parent(I own a toddler), I'd be pretty mad too. Sorry. Someday when you have kids you'll understand the things your parents did for you. :)
How did they find out?
Im going to carry MAJOR thumbs down but
I'm 16 too and I got caught sleepingg over at a guys house.
Just take whatever punishment they contribute you,
Hopefully its not too harsh
(mine was 3 days grounding)
and then within the future figure out how they found out and make sure that you acquire rid of that varriable.
(If someone told them, make sure that person doesnt know. If he left something near, make sur ehe gets all his stuff, etc.)
Our parents be just as bad as us, or worse when they were our age.
You really just have a few more years to have fun, before your choices affect your adjectives and your career, so have fun while it lasts.
I would ground them for a few weeks to months and tell them I was dissapointed for hiding something from me and that it would be concrete for me to trust them for a while. I probably wouldn't freak out. But I'd think twice the next time I left my kid alone.
Answers: Your sixteen, a guy is spending the night, he sleeps in your bed, no matter what you say aloud your parents are going to think you had sex.
You can't change that.
Next time, it would be hugely wise to not have him over...
Another thing, I applaud you for if truth be told not having sex, most people that were surrounded by that situation would have done it in a second...
just aphorism. Source(s): also sixteen..parents will be parents.
if they didn't want anything resembling that happening they shouldn't have left you on your own for 2 weeks. instinctively I wouldn't have a problem with it.
They enjoy no proof whatsoever that you did not have sex. That is why they are freaking out, understandably.
Well, I would forbid the guy from coming over to my house. That way, he shouldn't take near your room.
Next time, do not do anything like that. Sex often lead to pregnancy, and getting pregnant at 16 is beyond stupid (I did not say that YOU are).
Well unless you have proof you didn't then they probably think you did. I estimate i would be upset as well Source(s): 26 year old mama to annysa(8) and giovanni (4 1/2)
Well, they probably trusted that you wouldn't have anyone over at the house. I aim if you guys fell asleep on purpose and he meant to stay, they would probably be worried about what you be doing. I know you say you weren't having sex, but parents don't always believe that. [Gr. I hatred when they do that!] If my mom found out a guy even came over when she was gone without asking her, she would be nutty at me, no matter what. I know to us it doesn't even seem bad! But parents construe it is. :P Just tell them that your sorry and it won't happen. And he fell asleep by mistake! :D
There would be hell to repay! My daughter is 4 years old and I can tell you there will never be behavior approaching that going on.
I would never leave a minor alone for 2 days let alone 2 weeks though!
I'd be pretty nutty. You guys didn't have sex THIS time..But what about next time or the time after that. Why are your parents departure you home alone for weeks at a time? I'm pretty sure they have laws about that.
ha! im 16, but if my parents found that out i would be signing my death warrant. literlaly id b dead! they would shishkabob me! and my boyfriend. lol. but really, hmm.. let think why their mad... maybe its cuz A BOY SLEPT IN UR BED SEVERAL NIGHTS WHILE THEY WERE GONE. ya, that tend to get parents a little upset lol. try seeing it from their point of view, after be VERY matrue about it, admit what you did was wrong.. etc.. dont argue or try to cause it seem fine! and also, how do they know u didnt have sex? your telling us that... but thats tough to believe uno? good luck xD id be in so much trouble omg..
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