Do you ponder i handle this wrong?
okay well the other day my mom asked me to go grocery shopping for her because she couldn't be paid it after work, i'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17, so i asked him to take and go with me. so as we be walking down one of the isles we were pushing eachother around like jokingly ofcourse and there be a couple people further down the isle. as i stopped to look for something my boyfriend jokingly says, "yeah you would eat that; so in tears a pregnant teen" and some old lady next to me give me a nasty look. at first, i didnt say anything, i just benevolently said "excuse me" because she was in my way and instead of moving, she call me a **** and doesn't move. at that point i completely freaked out and yelled at her. my boyfriend ended up having to verbs me away from her because i was so shocked and angry. like how dare she? she doesn't even know me, and he was a short time ago kidding, clearly since we both started laughing. like what if i really was pregnant, resembling that would've been a horrible thing for her to say. I don't comprehend how some people can be so narrow minded. Anyways, do you think I overreacted, and what's your belief on how older adults view teen pregnancies?
oh and sorry it's so long, hahaha.
i dont think you overreacted... that lady didnt even know what she was chitchat about, and even if your boyfriend wasnt joking and you were pregnant, it shouldnt be any of her business...so i imagine you had every right to do that =)
Nope not overreacting, (I would of been mad at my bf for that though). I would of be so ticked, I probably would of told the lady off and had to hold back myself from hitting her.
that not right you should of liked slapped that lady contained by the face ok not really but you so didnt not over react
I don't think you overreacted. That lady shouldn't enjoy done that. It was wrong of her.
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that was tremendously wrong of her she had no right to do that and i would have reacted like peas in a pod way
i would have done teh same item..i guess not everyone can take a joke.
I do think you reacted inadequately. She was wrong in doing that, but you should have be the better person. If I were in that position, I would hold smiled and said "Excuse me?" and if she just ignore me, I would have said, "You don't enjoy to be so rude." and walk off. It shows what she said made no effect on you, and then she'll surface like a real *.
Older people would enjoy gotten beaten in their time for getting pregnant young. In their time, they couldn't enjoy sex until marriage. They were raised their holy energy to be closed minded. Let it go, she wasn't worth it.
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you did. you could of just walked away. I have a sneaking suspicion that that was rude of her. alot of older people are similar to that. they are stuck in their ways. my grandpa grew up during the depression. and he uses everything until it is gone. his blender is from the sixties on it's last leg and still in their kitchen human being used. its just how they grew up. she asn't worth your time.
Answers: While I don't think you needed to freak out that path, something definitely needed to be said to her and I'm glad you had the guts to.
I'm not an "older" adult, individual 28. I just had my first baby 9 weeks ago. All I can vote about teens having babies is GOOD LUCK. I feel fruitless for them. I'm an adult woman, married to the most responsible man in the world, and we are lucky enough to know how to afford anything we want for our baby; And with all of that said, have a baby is the HARDEST thing we have ever have to deal with! The sleepless nights and crying are the worse! Even next to all the support we have had, I cannot see how a teenager would be able to cope.
No one understands how much work a babe is until they have one themselves.
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oh and sorry it's so long, hahaha.
i dont think you overreacted... that lady didnt even know what she was chitchat about, and even if your boyfriend wasnt joking and you were pregnant, it shouldnt be any of her business...so i imagine you had every right to do that =)
Nope not overreacting, (I would of been mad at my bf for that though). I would of be so ticked, I probably would of told the lady off and had to hold back myself from hitting her.
that not right you should of liked slapped that lady contained by the face ok not really but you so didnt not over react
I don't think you overreacted. That lady shouldn't enjoy done that. It was wrong of her.
=]
that was tremendously wrong of her she had no right to do that and i would have reacted like peas in a pod way
i would have done teh same item..i guess not everyone can take a joke.
I do think you reacted inadequately. She was wrong in doing that, but you should have be the better person. If I were in that position, I would hold smiled and said "Excuse me?" and if she just ignore me, I would have said, "You don't enjoy to be so rude." and walk off. It shows what she said made no effect on you, and then she'll surface like a real *.
Older people would enjoy gotten beaten in their time for getting pregnant young. In their time, they couldn't enjoy sex until marriage. They were raised their holy energy to be closed minded. Let it go, she wasn't worth it.
ofεαlεo
you did. you could of just walked away. I have a sneaking suspicion that that was rude of her. alot of older people are similar to that. they are stuck in their ways. my grandpa grew up during the depression. and he uses everything until it is gone. his blender is from the sixties on it's last leg and still in their kitchen human being used. its just how they grew up. she asn't worth your time.
Answers: While I don't think you needed to freak out that path, something definitely needed to be said to her and I'm glad you had the guts to.
I'm not an "older" adult, individual 28. I just had my first baby 9 weeks ago. All I can vote about teens having babies is GOOD LUCK. I feel fruitless for them. I'm an adult woman, married to the most responsible man in the world, and we are lucky enough to know how to afford anything we want for our baby; And with all of that said, have a baby is the HARDEST thing we have ever have to deal with! The sleepless nights and crying are the worse! Even next to all the support we have had, I cannot see how a teenager would be able to cope.
No one understands how much work a babe is until they have one themselves.
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