I hold guy problems...approaching everyone else?
I started seeing this guy back in April, April 13th to be exact. I knew him for 3 years prior to this but I never really talk to him. I haven’t had some crazy crush on him for all that time or anything though. Anyway, we hung out almost weekday in April and on May 6th we couldn’t see respectively other because the semester ended at our college and my parents don’t want me seeing him if he doesn’t meet them ( He doesn’t want to, he feels it is unnecessary to prove himself to my inherited to hang out with me) Well July 3rd we hung out for a bit (after not talking for a month) and he kissed me for the first time. When I articulate I was seeing him, I just mean sagging out, we weren’t calling each other BF/GF. Anyway, he called me the next daylight (Saturday july 4th) and we talked and decided to hang out Monday hours of darkness. I snuck out of my house at 11:30 and went to his house and we hung out until 3:30 am and I had to go home to carry some sleep because I had work in the morning. Well, this past Friday, july 10th, I go and spent the night at his house (told my parents I was at a GF’s house) and we watched movies and we made out on the couch for a bit and we give each other massages and cuddled a little. We slept within the same bed, but we didn’t have sex…=/
I’m not a virgin and neither is he, and we were making out and I be sending signals that I wanted to have sex but the most he did was graze my boobs a bit and when we be cuddling he let me know he was excited by bumping his member on my rear. Anyway, when I told him I liked him in May he told me he wasn’t looking for a GF right then and be kinda evasive about the subject. What I am confused about is he told me this at the very instigation of may and I thought maybe he is just in this to be friends or he wishes some booty but now that he kissed me and all of the things we did Friday idk, did he not have sex beside me because he respects me or something? I don’t want to ask him quite yet because I don’t want to push the subject or seem dependent, but what are your thoughts about this? Sorry it is so long. =) Oh, and I am 18 and he is 21.
Answers: From what you mentioned, you don't seem to be clear if you want a relationship with him or not. If you are enjoyig what you hold with him right now, enjoy it but don't expect anything else. He said he doesn't want a gf and doesn't want to join your parents...
If you want more than a friendship then you might wanna look elsewhere but think about this: why take-home pay when you can milk the cow for
free?
Some guys don't want to have sex right away for different reason, maybe he feel it's too soon? Only sees you as a friend? Maybe he didn't have condoms that nite? Soooo many possibilities.
Good luck!
What i reflect is that he is not ready for a relationship. If he was he would have asked you out a while ago. I also construe he is sending you mixed signals on what he wants. Anyways tell him what kind of relationship both of you guys are going to own. Is it a frienship? Friends with benefits? or just a booty call??
Tell him how you quality about the whole situation and make things right.
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I’m not a virgin and neither is he, and we were making out and I be sending signals that I wanted to have sex but the most he did was graze my boobs a bit and when we be cuddling he let me know he was excited by bumping his member on my rear. Anyway, when I told him I liked him in May he told me he wasn’t looking for a GF right then and be kinda evasive about the subject. What I am confused about is he told me this at the very instigation of may and I thought maybe he is just in this to be friends or he wishes some booty but now that he kissed me and all of the things we did Friday idk, did he not have sex beside me because he respects me or something? I don’t want to ask him quite yet because I don’t want to push the subject or seem dependent, but what are your thoughts about this? Sorry it is so long. =) Oh, and I am 18 and he is 21.
Answers: From what you mentioned, you don't seem to be clear if you want a relationship with him or not. If you are enjoyig what you hold with him right now, enjoy it but don't expect anything else. He said he doesn't want a gf and doesn't want to join your parents...
If you want more than a friendship then you might wanna look elsewhere but think about this: why take-home pay when you can milk the cow for
free?
Some guys don't want to have sex right away for different reason, maybe he feel it's too soon? Only sees you as a friend? Maybe he didn't have condoms that nite? Soooo many possibilities.
Good luck!
What i reflect is that he is not ready for a relationship. If he was he would have asked you out a while ago. I also construe he is sending you mixed signals on what he wants. Anyways tell him what kind of relationship both of you guys are going to own. Is it a frienship? Friends with benefits? or just a booty call??
Tell him how you quality about the whole situation and make things right.
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