14 years prehistoric am i a "fit" mom?
im 14 and pregnant, but when the babies born ill be 15. abortion and adoption arnt options,
my family have to move since our house wasnt big enough and im to young to move out. So we moved closer to my 16 yr old bfs house. In our unsullied house i get the downstairs rooms since im closer to the kitchen. i get a room and a bathroom connecting to another room (the nursery.) my room has a door prevailing outside so i can come and go (my bf has a car) to doctors oppointments, and my classes so i can graduate. my bf has a duty and is paying for all the babies stuff. when i turn 17 me and my bf are planning to move out and get our own appartment. so this is only impermanent and very realistic.
does it sound fine?
ya
sounds qood...
Being a good mom isn't only about providing monetary things for your child, it's also in the order of knowing how to be a good parent. You should take a lot of parenting classes. People imagine taking a class means that they can't be a good parent on their own, but it isn't true. Classes help you promise with stress and they teach proper disciplinary techniques. It's correct that you have food and shelter for your baby, but being a devout mother is about a whole lot more.
Your life is ruined.
I pity you. Adoption should be an option, and even abortion, in my judgment.
You are only 14. you can't handle a kid, even though you think you can.
sounds close to a nice house ;D
got a car = good ;)
sex below 16 = bad, but whats done is done :)
it's good that your going to graduate but a baby is really tiring and what if nearby is complications like the baby has a bean organizer and/or is retarded and/or has downs?
you people never think of that!!
and your bf will take off you and you will be a single parent with grey hair at 18 and you will live in a slum.
on the brighter side you'll procure loads of benefits!!
now that sounds more realistic!
You are young but you nouns very responsible and sounds like you are taking responsibility for everything. You do sound find!
Good Luck!!
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honestly i dont devise your parents handeled it very responsibly but i will give you one word of advice that my mother have always told me always be independent and able to provide for yourself and your kids surrounded by your case and never ever rely on a guy because when hes gone your screwed so get a job:)
It may all sound like a flawless plan, but its not as easy as it sounds.
Having a kid doesn't mean just feed it then making it sleep.
You have to have love for you kid, school him things, talk to them even if they don't understand yet.
Adoption is a much better odds since the baby would have a parent that is in fact read for a child and not a 14 year old who has only see movies and shows about kids having babies.
It will be very expensive to cart care of the baby (appointments, equiptment, food, diapers, toys, health thoroughness insurance. nannies)
And to be honest, it really doesn't sound like you are prepaired for all this.
I strongly suggest you hand over your child up for adoption.
Going to school, and taking care of a kid only works out contained by movies.
Your youth will be be brought down by this kid,
and you won't have time to be a teen.
Please. Just please give it up for adoption.
You will be alright. Yeah these probably aren't the circumstances you wished for you first kid, but that's life isn't it? You will figure it out as you go. It sounds close to your family is very supportive also.
14 and pregnant?
Silly mistake to sort, sorry.
How are you going to PAY for this kid?
How are you going to progress to school?
This is going to be your everything now.
I do not envy you.
I give you props for doing the right article and taking care of your baby. I don't know that I'd move out when your 17, you wouldn't want to get stuck contained by a lease that you can't afford. I'd just stay at home for a while until you can save up quite a bit of money.
It sounds fine to me just don't try to pon the baby on your parents when you own the baby. It all sounds good immediately but it all changes when the baby is REALLY here.
it sounds fine,
but why be irresponsible enough to grasp pregnant in the first place?
its going to be a big challenge at first at your age.
I can't really right to be heard you're fit to be a mom, since you're only 14.
But it seems to me, you have everything set.
Answers: it wasent terribly responsible to get pregnant but im glad you are taking full action and responsibility for your baby...dont listen to those relatives who say you ruined your life...you did not ruin your life how can a short time baby ruin your life...you just made your natural life way way more difficult...people who ruin their time are girls who use having a kid at a young age as an excuse for not accomplishing what they be suppose to in life (finishing HS, going to collage).you didint make the best edict but you are making the best of it...you are 14 so might not be a very fit mom but you will learn dont worry...finish lofty school follow your dreams do it for your baby..i will bet you that he or she will admire you so much soon for it...i moved out at 17 you will do fine...
Yes, i expect You Have Every thing planned and if you and your boyfriend are staying together it should be fine, Good Luck. Xxx.
Im 15 and pregnant, and you are unambiguously in a better situation than me!
Good luck with everything, you do sound fine :)
mm yeah but nothing go the way you plan it. Dont think its all going to be nice how u said. But y are u ahving babies at ur age, you dont know if u are a fit mum until u hold ur baby reali.
But good luk
Its a start, but simply list the room arrangement shows you have a lot of learning to do. What else do you know in the order of taking care of a child, especially when they wake up for 4 months straight at 2am, 4am, and 6am?
Sounds very apt. Its very similar to what I am doing and I am fifteen with a 4 week old. Sounds pretty "fit" although I conjecture yo should get a job too after he/she is older.
Being a fit mom is taking care of you're child and loving him/her.
I don't assume age really matters when it comes to being a good parent.
But it sounds approaching your living situation is good.
Good luck.
you seem to depend on your boyfriend alot.
you need some independence.
what if he leaves you?
you'll be fxcked.
i am 12 my birth mom gave me up for adoption she still loves me its newly she couldn't give me a good live and i live with a rich kinfolk i have 5 dogs a 22year old brother and nice parents if you put ur baby up for adoption you can see her/him when he/her is 18 years antiquated but you seem to be a very fit mom for your age were your parents ok when you told them you be pregnant Source(s): cookie_3040@yahoo.com and me having been adopted
Yeah that sounds cool :)
Sounds like a great house too lol...
Good luck in your pregnancy/motherhood.
x
you are contained by no way "fit" to be a mother. you just have a more just what the doctor ordered situation than most pregnant teenagers.
no thats stupid idea honestly it is easier said afterwards done i say you put it up for adoption thats should be a solution
Honestly? That child deserves better than you and why is adoption not an option? As a 15 year old you DO not have the time or size (considering previous choices) to care for a child. No, it doesn't sound even remotely "fine".
First of all, that be very irresponsible. Your baby will likely be premature since your body is not fully developed, your hips necessitate to spread out more. And the responsibility of caring for a child is all but easy. Watch the show 16 and Pregnant and you'll achieve an idea of how hard it is. And why would your family move in need you? Too young to move out? What kind of nonsense is that? Most of adjectives you need your family there near you to help you! You will most likely break up with your boyfriend as men do not approaching the chore of doing anything with the baby. So, good luck to you as you will inevitability it.
i think that your handling it really well, i be going to your plan sounds realistic, although i think that maybe you should dawdle till your 18 to move out and start living with your boyfriend.
also, just wondering, but why isn't adoption or abortion an option ? i niggardly they aren't ideal but your young and having a babe is a major change, that could affect your life for worse.
own you also planned for after graduating ? are you eventually planning on going to university ? or collage ? otherwise a job ? because your boyfriend may not be able to support you adjectives once your living together without your parents help.
being so youthful and being pregnant is definitely a bigger challenge someone your age typically face. you have to be willing to make profoundly of ifficult sacrifices, such as not being able to suspend out with your friends as often as you'd like, juggle school work, and othr stuff girls you age may be doing. i'm not saying that having a newborn takes awy all your fun, i'm just truism you have to grow up faster than you should, bean adult about your situation, and be inclined to give up time to spend with your child.
also, you should do you best to stay in institution and not drop out because of you baby which typically happens. also, don't expect to move out of your parents how at 17. it may seem resembling a good idea, but small children are expensive. and staying with your parents is the best resort you have.
it's hardto say if any 15-16 yr old will be a polite mother, but if you're willing to take the time and dedication, patience, and readiness it takes you'll probaly make a great mother. although it will be difficult, in the terminate it will be rewarding
Its going to have to be isn't? This is a better situation then most who seize pregnant at 14 so yes it seems like its going to work.
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my family have to move since our house wasnt big enough and im to young to move out. So we moved closer to my 16 yr old bfs house. In our unsullied house i get the downstairs rooms since im closer to the kitchen. i get a room and a bathroom connecting to another room (the nursery.) my room has a door prevailing outside so i can come and go (my bf has a car) to doctors oppointments, and my classes so i can graduate. my bf has a duty and is paying for all the babies stuff. when i turn 17 me and my bf are planning to move out and get our own appartment. so this is only impermanent and very realistic.
does it sound fine?
ya
sounds qood...
Being a good mom isn't only about providing monetary things for your child, it's also in the order of knowing how to be a good parent. You should take a lot of parenting classes. People imagine taking a class means that they can't be a good parent on their own, but it isn't true. Classes help you promise with stress and they teach proper disciplinary techniques. It's correct that you have food and shelter for your baby, but being a devout mother is about a whole lot more.
Your life is ruined.
I pity you. Adoption should be an option, and even abortion, in my judgment.
You are only 14. you can't handle a kid, even though you think you can.
sounds close to a nice house ;D
got a car = good ;)
sex below 16 = bad, but whats done is done :)
it's good that your going to graduate but a baby is really tiring and what if nearby is complications like the baby has a bean organizer and/or is retarded and/or has downs?
you people never think of that!!
and your bf will take off you and you will be a single parent with grey hair at 18 and you will live in a slum.
on the brighter side you'll procure loads of benefits!!
now that sounds more realistic!
You are young but you nouns very responsible and sounds like you are taking responsibility for everything. You do sound find!
Good Luck!!
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honestly i dont devise your parents handeled it very responsibly but i will give you one word of advice that my mother have always told me always be independent and able to provide for yourself and your kids surrounded by your case and never ever rely on a guy because when hes gone your screwed so get a job:)
It may all sound like a flawless plan, but its not as easy as it sounds.
Having a kid doesn't mean just feed it then making it sleep.
You have to have love for you kid, school him things, talk to them even if they don't understand yet.
Adoption is a much better odds since the baby would have a parent that is in fact read for a child and not a 14 year old who has only see movies and shows about kids having babies.
It will be very expensive to cart care of the baby (appointments, equiptment, food, diapers, toys, health thoroughness insurance. nannies)
And to be honest, it really doesn't sound like you are prepaired for all this.
I strongly suggest you hand over your child up for adoption.
Going to school, and taking care of a kid only works out contained by movies.
Your youth will be be brought down by this kid,
and you won't have time to be a teen.
Please. Just please give it up for adoption.
You will be alright. Yeah these probably aren't the circumstances you wished for you first kid, but that's life isn't it? You will figure it out as you go. It sounds close to your family is very supportive also.
14 and pregnant?
Silly mistake to sort, sorry.
How are you going to PAY for this kid?
How are you going to progress to school?
This is going to be your everything now.
I do not envy you.
I give you props for doing the right article and taking care of your baby. I don't know that I'd move out when your 17, you wouldn't want to get stuck contained by a lease that you can't afford. I'd just stay at home for a while until you can save up quite a bit of money.
It sounds fine to me just don't try to pon the baby on your parents when you own the baby. It all sounds good immediately but it all changes when the baby is REALLY here.
it sounds fine,
but why be irresponsible enough to grasp pregnant in the first place?
its going to be a big challenge at first at your age.
I can't really right to be heard you're fit to be a mom, since you're only 14.
But it seems to me, you have everything set.
Answers: it wasent terribly responsible to get pregnant but im glad you are taking full action and responsibility for your baby...dont listen to those relatives who say you ruined your life...you did not ruin your life how can a short time baby ruin your life...you just made your natural life way way more difficult...people who ruin their time are girls who use having a kid at a young age as an excuse for not accomplishing what they be suppose to in life (finishing HS, going to collage).you didint make the best edict but you are making the best of it...you are 14 so might not be a very fit mom but you will learn dont worry...finish lofty school follow your dreams do it for your baby..i will bet you that he or she will admire you so much soon for it...i moved out at 17 you will do fine...
Yes, i expect You Have Every thing planned and if you and your boyfriend are staying together it should be fine, Good Luck. Xxx.
Im 15 and pregnant, and you are unambiguously in a better situation than me!
Good luck with everything, you do sound fine :)
mm yeah but nothing go the way you plan it. Dont think its all going to be nice how u said. But y are u ahving babies at ur age, you dont know if u are a fit mum until u hold ur baby reali.
But good luk
Its a start, but simply list the room arrangement shows you have a lot of learning to do. What else do you know in the order of taking care of a child, especially when they wake up for 4 months straight at 2am, 4am, and 6am?
Sounds very apt. Its very similar to what I am doing and I am fifteen with a 4 week old. Sounds pretty "fit" although I conjecture yo should get a job too after he/she is older.
Being a fit mom is taking care of you're child and loving him/her.
I don't assume age really matters when it comes to being a good parent.
But it sounds approaching your living situation is good.
Good luck.
you seem to depend on your boyfriend alot.
you need some independence.
what if he leaves you?
you'll be fxcked.
i am 12 my birth mom gave me up for adoption she still loves me its newly she couldn't give me a good live and i live with a rich kinfolk i have 5 dogs a 22year old brother and nice parents if you put ur baby up for adoption you can see her/him when he/her is 18 years antiquated but you seem to be a very fit mom for your age were your parents ok when you told them you be pregnant Source(s): cookie_3040@yahoo.com and me having been adopted
Yeah that sounds cool :)
Sounds like a great house too lol...
Good luck in your pregnancy/motherhood.
x
you are contained by no way "fit" to be a mother. you just have a more just what the doctor ordered situation than most pregnant teenagers.
no thats stupid idea honestly it is easier said afterwards done i say you put it up for adoption thats should be a solution
Honestly? That child deserves better than you and why is adoption not an option? As a 15 year old you DO not have the time or size (considering previous choices) to care for a child. No, it doesn't sound even remotely "fine".
First of all, that be very irresponsible. Your baby will likely be premature since your body is not fully developed, your hips necessitate to spread out more. And the responsibility of caring for a child is all but easy. Watch the show 16 and Pregnant and you'll achieve an idea of how hard it is. And why would your family move in need you? Too young to move out? What kind of nonsense is that? Most of adjectives you need your family there near you to help you! You will most likely break up with your boyfriend as men do not approaching the chore of doing anything with the baby. So, good luck to you as you will inevitability it.
i think that your handling it really well, i be going to your plan sounds realistic, although i think that maybe you should dawdle till your 18 to move out and start living with your boyfriend.
also, just wondering, but why isn't adoption or abortion an option ? i niggardly they aren't ideal but your young and having a babe is a major change, that could affect your life for worse.
own you also planned for after graduating ? are you eventually planning on going to university ? or collage ? otherwise a job ? because your boyfriend may not be able to support you adjectives once your living together without your parents help.
being so youthful and being pregnant is definitely a bigger challenge someone your age typically face. you have to be willing to make profoundly of ifficult sacrifices, such as not being able to suspend out with your friends as often as you'd like, juggle school work, and othr stuff girls you age may be doing. i'm not saying that having a newborn takes awy all your fun, i'm just truism you have to grow up faster than you should, bean adult about your situation, and be inclined to give up time to spend with your child.
also, you should do you best to stay in institution and not drop out because of you baby which typically happens. also, don't expect to move out of your parents how at 17. it may seem resembling a good idea, but small children are expensive. and staying with your parents is the best resort you have.
it's hardto say if any 15-16 yr old will be a polite mother, but if you're willing to take the time and dedication, patience, and readiness it takes you'll probaly make a great mother. although it will be difficult, in the terminate it will be rewarding
Its going to have to be isn't? This is a better situation then most who seize pregnant at 14 so yes it seems like its going to work.
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