How do I come rotten as friendly and graceful to cooperate to?
I really think no one at my school like me. I'm not sure what people think of me, but I think I might comes rotten as rude or anti-social- nobody ever tries to have a conversation with me. I'm shy around people I don't know, but around my friends I'm really spiteful. So sometimes when people talk to me for the first time, I don't know what to say short being sarcastic. And then I look posterior and it sounds like I'm rude. But I'm really not! So how do I come off as just sweet and friendly? I give attention to I give people the wrong idea.
other smile and just be open
allow them to do the talking
if you're a moral listener, people will think you're nice.
Wow... i think I a moment ago met my twin, lol.
I have the exact same problem, and act the exact same way around strange people... It's a real problem for me, because I try to be friendly and outgoing but I never know what to say.
But nearby are 2 things I've learned:
1. Just smile. Act like you enjoy to be around the individual, and then when you're being sarcastic, they shouldn't filch it the wrong way.
2. Actions speak louder than words. Help people out, do favors for them...
And you have to, a moment ago be perfectly blunt with them: You have a nasty sense of humor.
I hope I helped, because I'm working so hard not to sound rude also.
Answers: smaller amount of the sarcasm. a lot of people misinterpret it and dont like it or think through it, also its not easy to respond to if you dont know someone well. listen, ask lots of questions, they will be flattered! smile abundantly, look them in the eye, act like you are interested within what they have to say.
Smile ALOT like your smiling surrounded by your picture !
Just don't smile too much that its scary and unreal!
Also just say hi when you endorse by people you know from school or that live in your neighborhood.
Good luck
~Crystal
My dear infantile Lady..
Well.I sure can empathize with you.and understand you relatively well honey.and it's like "elliot kitten" has suggested.most ancestors do not "appreciate" sarcasm and "cynic folks"...(even though they watch "Stand-up comedians and some sitcom's where there's nothing BUT sarcasm & cynicism")-smile-
I am sure you are a sweet, lovable and generous person (deep inside) and you just express it in the form of one "sarcastic".but do NOT mean "any harm" to anyone.I understand this ..
But ..when you're socializing with others.in recent times try to be "yourself" and with a bit less sarcasm, honey ...and I am sure...it will work much BETTER for you in the adjectives ! Just be friendly, kind and be "YOU".and for the "shy-part" .most people appreciate "shy/bashful" people much MORE than those "loud show-offs" babe !
I sure wish you all the best for the future ! Greetings from Germany next to all my love & care..your friend.Annette***
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other smile and just be open
allow them to do the talking
if you're a moral listener, people will think you're nice.
Wow... i think I a moment ago met my twin, lol.
I have the exact same problem, and act the exact same way around strange people... It's a real problem for me, because I try to be friendly and outgoing but I never know what to say.
But nearby are 2 things I've learned:
1. Just smile. Act like you enjoy to be around the individual, and then when you're being sarcastic, they shouldn't filch it the wrong way.
2. Actions speak louder than words. Help people out, do favors for them...
And you have to, a moment ago be perfectly blunt with them: You have a nasty sense of humor.
I hope I helped, because I'm working so hard not to sound rude also.
Answers: smaller amount of the sarcasm. a lot of people misinterpret it and dont like it or think through it, also its not easy to respond to if you dont know someone well. listen, ask lots of questions, they will be flattered! smile abundantly, look them in the eye, act like you are interested within what they have to say.
Smile ALOT like your smiling surrounded by your picture !
Just don't smile too much that its scary and unreal!
Also just say hi when you endorse by people you know from school or that live in your neighborhood.
Good luck
~Crystal
My dear infantile Lady..
Well.I sure can empathize with you.and understand you relatively well honey.and it's like "elliot kitten" has suggested.most ancestors do not "appreciate" sarcasm and "cynic folks"...(even though they watch "Stand-up comedians and some sitcom's where there's nothing BUT sarcasm & cynicism")-smile-
I am sure you are a sweet, lovable and generous person (deep inside) and you just express it in the form of one "sarcastic".but do NOT mean "any harm" to anyone.I understand this ..
But ..when you're socializing with others.in recent times try to be "yourself" and with a bit less sarcasm, honey ...and I am sure...it will work much BETTER for you in the adjectives ! Just be friendly, kind and be "YOU".and for the "shy-part" .most people appreciate "shy/bashful" people much MORE than those "loud show-offs" babe !
I sure wish you all the best for the future ! Greetings from Germany next to all my love & care..your friend.Annette***
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