15 yo daughter and the pill for her period?
My daughter has EXTREMELY bad cramps. I have have to pick her up from where ever she may be when they hit. She has fainted, thrown up and is contained by obvious pain. We have tried various different things to help her but nothing will. Our Dr. has mentioned to me that putting her on a low dose pill it will comfort her. My problem is I don't want her to think because she is on the pill she has an ok to have sex (we hold talked about sex and what not but I remember what it was like) I also don't want her to EVER deem she can have sex without a condom. So I am torn between her pain every month or giving her some nouns and me one more thing to worry almost.
If they will really help her, I reason you should get her the pills. Just make sure she knows why you are getting them for her and be sure to agree to her know it's no excuse to start engaging in unprotected sexual activity.
Explain to her what the pills are for and what they mean. Tell her your fears and concerns. Basically, share your daughter what you just told us. She'll probably be so happy that her cramps are gone that she won't even think something like anything else.
Or, you could always lie to her and tell her they aren't birth control pills. Although, I would insist on against this since it could blow up in your face.
I think you should have a fitting heart to heart with her and be honest. Let her know your fears and anxieties for her. Also tell her that you really care for her and you want what's best for her.
Listen to her and hear her honest evaluation when it comes to having sex and what she feels about it. Don't freshly assume that she will have sex just because she's on the pill. Teens hate when parents assume things resembling that and sometimes it pushes them to rebel. So just have an honest chat next to her and tell her how you feel, but not until you hear her opinion nearly it. Who knows; it might be the farthest thing from her mind. Hope everything works out for you and your daughter and upright luck to you!
I would go with, putting her on the Pill. BUT, I would make it conditional. On, Her not have sex until she reaches the 'Age of Consent'. Otherwise, She gets the pain of her menstrual cramps wager on by, you having her taken off the Pill.
I would let her know the facts. And report to her exactly your position.
Well describe her what you just said to us...
Put her on the pill but tell her exactly what you told us. She probably will have sex, but at smallest she can use a condom if you tell her. Definitly get her the pills
Well, talk to her. Just manufacture sure she knows that it's still not okay. Make sure she's aware of all the consequences and stuff and you'll be fine.
My mom went through matching thing when she was young, but at the time, near was no way to stop it. They couldn't just step get birth Control for it lol Be thankful, you should stop your daughters pain, and trust her ample not to do something stupid. Good luck :]
Go get her the damn pill!
Answers: Please don't let her be in pain...Even if she does hold to take birth control.
I am almost sixteen and I suffer from PMDD (a condition where your period is categorically dreadful.) I have severe cramps, muscle aches, and REALLY bad mood swings (sometimes even depression) because of my PMDD.
I am currently taking Kariva (a birth control pill) and fluxotine for my severe mood swings.
I also enjoy a boyfriend that I have been serious with for nearly 3 years...
And we are both virgins, even though I'm on the pill. :-)
My point is, your daughter is prehistoric enough to make mature decision. You need to let her know exactly how you feel. Just agree to her know that you will do everything in your power to help her with her length issues, but she needs to be mature and smart at the same time.
Don't read out, "YOU CAN NOT HAVE SEX!"
Say, "I know that you are in pain on your period, and to be exact the only reason I'm allowing you to take the pill. I expect you to be become fully grown and make smart decisions. Please don't abuse this privilege. Just because you're on the pill doesn't tight-fisted you should have sex."...Something along those lines.
And make sure that your daughter knows nearly STD's, possible pregnancy, and just the fact that her body and mind are not ready for sex even so. (And yes, a teenager's body is NOT ready for sex. It is not fully developed yet!!)
Also, let your daughter know how much you love her and support her, and that you really want to back her; just that she has to help you too by individual responsible and smart.
I really hope she gets better; I truly emphasize. Good luck!!
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If they will really help her, I reason you should get her the pills. Just make sure she knows why you are getting them for her and be sure to agree to her know it's no excuse to start engaging in unprotected sexual activity.
Explain to her what the pills are for and what they mean. Tell her your fears and concerns. Basically, share your daughter what you just told us. She'll probably be so happy that her cramps are gone that she won't even think something like anything else.
Or, you could always lie to her and tell her they aren't birth control pills. Although, I would insist on against this since it could blow up in your face.
I think you should have a fitting heart to heart with her and be honest. Let her know your fears and anxieties for her. Also tell her that you really care for her and you want what's best for her.
Listen to her and hear her honest evaluation when it comes to having sex and what she feels about it. Don't freshly assume that she will have sex just because she's on the pill. Teens hate when parents assume things resembling that and sometimes it pushes them to rebel. So just have an honest chat next to her and tell her how you feel, but not until you hear her opinion nearly it. Who knows; it might be the farthest thing from her mind. Hope everything works out for you and your daughter and upright luck to you!
I would go with, putting her on the Pill. BUT, I would make it conditional. On, Her not have sex until she reaches the 'Age of Consent'. Otherwise, She gets the pain of her menstrual cramps wager on by, you having her taken off the Pill.
I would let her know the facts. And report to her exactly your position.
Well describe her what you just said to us...
Put her on the pill but tell her exactly what you told us. She probably will have sex, but at smallest she can use a condom if you tell her. Definitly get her the pills
Well, talk to her. Just manufacture sure she knows that it's still not okay. Make sure she's aware of all the consequences and stuff and you'll be fine.
My mom went through matching thing when she was young, but at the time, near was no way to stop it. They couldn't just step get birth Control for it lol Be thankful, you should stop your daughters pain, and trust her ample not to do something stupid. Good luck :]
Go get her the damn pill!
Answers: Please don't let her be in pain...Even if she does hold to take birth control.
I am almost sixteen and I suffer from PMDD (a condition where your period is categorically dreadful.) I have severe cramps, muscle aches, and REALLY bad mood swings (sometimes even depression) because of my PMDD.
I am currently taking Kariva (a birth control pill) and fluxotine for my severe mood swings.
I also enjoy a boyfriend that I have been serious with for nearly 3 years...
And we are both virgins, even though I'm on the pill. :-)
My point is, your daughter is prehistoric enough to make mature decision. You need to let her know exactly how you feel. Just agree to her know that you will do everything in your power to help her with her length issues, but she needs to be mature and smart at the same time.
Don't read out, "YOU CAN NOT HAVE SEX!"
Say, "I know that you are in pain on your period, and to be exact the only reason I'm allowing you to take the pill. I expect you to be become fully grown and make smart decisions. Please don't abuse this privilege. Just because you're on the pill doesn't tight-fisted you should have sex."...Something along those lines.
And make sure that your daughter knows nearly STD's, possible pregnancy, and just the fact that her body and mind are not ready for sex even so. (And yes, a teenager's body is NOT ready for sex. It is not fully developed yet!!)
Also, let your daughter know how much you love her and support her, and that you really want to back her; just that she has to help you too by individual responsible and smart.
I really hope she gets better; I truly emphasize. Good luck!!
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