*Parents*What would you do if your 12 year hoary son watches porn?
i am not a parent but i have look up porn but i was 14 and my mom said that i am not aloud to get on th internet very soon i am 15 and haven't looked up porn since
Depends how ready he is and how he feels about women, I'm not going to raise my boys to treat women close to a sex toy, that's not how it is and he should respect women but I'm a girl and I started looking at porn when I was 9 or 10 and I thought it was funny but when I was 12 I like it and what not but I respect girls and know sex isn't one big game for certain people.
If my 12 year out-of-date son was watching porn and I suddenly snuck across and found it I would probably not say anything especially if I know he was raise well and he knows how to treat a woman, he's going through puberty, my dad knew I be watching and tried to do everything to stop it, well guess what I found other ways around that and I did it anyway, and 12 is the experimenting age.
I might send my boyfriend or husband in in that to talk to him but I don't need to get involved if I know he's a apt kid and he respects women. Source(s): Nicole.
I presume I would be rather calm, and just present him "the talk." All teens are curious, and they're going to be watching porn. It wouldn't be beneficial to freak out.
My brother is thirteen and he watches porn. I've ended up checking the history and finding porn sites right after he's be online. So I spoke with him about it, and just told him to swot to cover his tracks better and then a couple of days later I ended up giving him the sex cooperate. I mean its only natural at his age. & plus I'm an eighteen year feeble girl, and I enjoy porn. I don't see what the big deal is.
If it were my son, I would do duplicate thing I did with my brother
Though I'm not a parent, my little brother, who just turned 13, does the same thing. Being 12, he's probably not going to stop watching it. Put locks on the "naughty" channel if you have cable, and monitor his computer access if you're really concerned. In all honestly, it's really no big deal. Give him "the talk" if you haven't already, and newly keep a lookout on your cable bill for some things you didn't order! If it hasn't happened already, he basically might order something without thinking that it will be on the bill, which is exactly what my brother did. Source(s): personal experience
I don't usually watch porn.I read it.No one really knows and the general public who do don't care.Everyone has looked at porn at some point or another in their duration.If I found my son looking at porn I wouldn't care.Its normal for boys around that age.I may try to embarrass him some and if he hasn't had the chat then give him that as well.
As a dad, I would sit down while hes watching it and begin to masturbate. When he jump up yelling "ewww" I would stand up, zip myself up calmly and enunciate "yeah that's the reaction everyones gonna have to you doing it to son. Besides, watching that crap is gonna rot your mind. Girls don't really act that method and your just not that good boy. Get a real girl, acquire a real life". The whole time I would have my paw on his shoulder that I masturbated with. Then I would walk out of the room. He will forever remember that day anytime he even think about watching porn. 'Nuff said?
im not a parent, haha, but i hold brothers.
all boys go through a "perverted" stage if you would. i've seen tons of my brothers move about through it. and they eventually grow out of it. take him aside and tell him that it's wrong, and just bestow him a talking to, tell him not do it anymore, and check the internet history so you make sure he's not doing it. porno is sick, yes, but guys find curious around that age, just talk to him, couldn't hurt?
I would confront him if you hold a problem with it, and talk with him more or less it and maybe it is time for the "Birds and the Bees" talk. But personally, I would do nought about it, because porn and normal masturbation is healthy for the growing boy.
Regards,
Joe S.
now is this "porn" porn, or christian thought "sexual education tapes" porn. because within is a difference, and if anything "the miracle of life" video is a path to abstinence of there ever be one.
As a dad I would chat with him almost this then install parental controls on his computer to prevent him from accessing them. Boys will do this but as a parent it is my job to build it harder for them to do it and therefore deterring him from doing it.
I would be relieved to know he's straight. And then I wouldn't do anything, because it's totally normal. 12 years old is the average age of when boys start to become sexually curious.
I'm not a parent, but he's a moment ago a kid and young preteen boys are curious. Leave him to it. Source(s): Bella/16.
He's a boy...he's going to watch porn. IT's more availible now days. I'd merely leave him be. He'll be interested in sex even before he hits puberty
I wouldent do anything. Boys will be boys.
i wouldnt do anything
every guy watches it
I am still a teenager so I'm not a parent, but when I am, I will keep the computer in the living room, not tolerate my children have any electronics in their rooms, and talk to them in the region of sex and stuff so they aren't as curious and don't feel compelled to look at stuff like that. I don't think that "boys will be boys" or doesn`t matter what should be an excuse for letting your child watch stuff that tends to objectify women and is illegal for children to view.
If I had a twelve year old son or daughter who was already watching porn I would filch away their source of it and I would talk to them about how degrading and disgusting stuff like specifically and how pornography doesn't portray realistic, healthy relationships. I wouldn't punish them or anything, because that might make him or her construe they couldn't trust me enough to talk to me about sex or something.
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let him watch it he
aint doing enything wrong??
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