Why is virginity a morality?
We are going to lose it eventually (hopefully), so why wait? We can't ever know who is "the one", we may think that our present companion is the one, but we never know for sure. So why is virginity a virtue? I know you will never attain it back, but you will never get a lot of things vertebrae. Isn't life about taking risks? Why do people articulate wait? Marriages don't always work out. I don't treat it like a uprightness (but I still am a virgin).
Thanks.
Is virginity a justice to you?
That's the item with virginity it only happens once; and some ethnic group do wait until marriage to lose it but majority of people don't its adjectives in a matter of choice. Life is about taking risks but some of those risks is not man how far you will go; its not a competition. I lost mine to someone i barely knew so some warning is just make it special and somone you trust cause individuals will talk thankfully noone did for me. But its not just physically arranged its emotional if they were to leave for someone else and a moment ago use your body. I don't think your emotionaly ready yet sweetie basically wait your so young when it does happen you will know what im discussion about.
Because people have a different opinion than you?
I'm not waiting for marriage ceremony - I'm waiting for me to be out of high school&same with whoever I ended up have sex with.
&you make it sound resembling people should just have sex near whoever.
I'm gonna answer a bit of the question by another cross-question...why don't everyone kill themselves? I mean, everyone eventually dies so why wait?
I conjecture it's way more exciting to have sex for the first time with someone you love after some random person.
This person may not be "the one" but at smallest you truly loved him.
Ehh I could go on for hours but I don't feel to much about writing. You can email me, there's a hyperlink contained by my profile if you have any questions.
Just a tip: please don't lose it to some jackass that will dump you a min later.
Do you actually care about person a "virtuous" person? And if you do, who or what do you use as your standard of what is "virtuous?" I say fairly embrace what satisfaction you can get out of life right away. I have yet to experience any drawback to having sex. I hold had no accidental pregnancies, no stds; nothing. All it have gotten me is many many very heavy times.
It's a beautiful gift that is yours to cherish. No one can ever own it unless you give it to them. Once you give it, you can never take it wager on. Can you say that about any other part of yourself?
Therefore, it is a bestow that is virtuous and of GREAT Value!
You can know who "the one" is. The trick is to wait for "the one". That other soul, if they truly love you and care for you will respect you enough to not ask you to give it to them.
How do you know "the one"? This is the being who respects you so much that they will make a commitment in front of you, clergy, respected guests and witnesses - to love, honor, and cherish you for the rest of your life. This is "the one" that you should present your precious offering to in consumation of your marriage.
This will be the most special and virtuous payment you can give "the one" in your life!
yeah i get what you stingy but you have to agree that a person should wait until they are contained by love, know all the pros and cons to sex and be willing to risk it ( cause protection is NOT a 100%)
i chew over people say to wait until marital because it to be "rather safe than sorry" it only give somebody a lift one time and protection can fail. at least there are two family to handle the problem and No one looks down on a married coupe if they have an unplanned pregnancy.
I'm 19 a nd a virgin because i didn't get my first bf and love until i be 18. i also wanted to be out of basic education, hold a job and be on the pill before having sex ( and contained by love duh)
I don't necessarily call it a virtue- I simply muse that that first time experience should be spent with a person you care intensely for, as opposed to simply saying "whatever" and sleeping with a friend or someone you only just know.
For me it's all about the intimacy of having simply one person to share myself with, and the prospect of it only self that person for the remainder of my life- I love the feeling.
Answers: Why wait? Because, if you wait and you have sex you'll be arranged to have a child in most cases. But if you don't wait, and you're a youngster you won't be ready to have a child.
I'm waiting till marriage, because I don't surface like being another teen mom.
I also agree with Meg. I want my "first time" to be special, near someone I really love. I don't want it to be with some jerk who will soon be my ex or whatever.
if your religious then virginity is pretty important to you. it symbolizes purity and should only be taken away when in place to have children (after marriage). "the one" isnt really an issue just as long as you both love each and divorce shouldn't really be anything but a dire concluding resort. and you should have sex for the purpose of making children.
i consider myself spiritual but to me virginity isn't that important to me. i'm open to have sex whenever i'm ready but i don't proclaim my beliefs on anyone just because everyone has their own opinion.
I'm waiting because I'm afraid that once I lose my viriginity I'm going to be easy meat for stupid boys who think they can get contained by my pants because I already lost my virginity. I'm also afraid that once I lose my virginity I won't care about who I own sex with, and i don't want to risk getting pregnant or an STD.
I know I don't sound normal saying this but I really plan to stay a virgin my complete life! I think it's a virtue because it make people see you as all innocent and pure and, not like most adults would know these things, but it's a big bonus beside adults if they somehow ever found out.
Because that's the right thing to do. . .besides if you get prego at the age of 13 you're considered a . . .yeah
Well in some religions it's a virture and in some not. It's right to skulk right now. Because the economy is bad and babies aren't cheap. And the diseases similar to AIDS and HIV yuck. I'm not saying be afraid to be intimate or be a holy roller. But think about your strength and your feelings. You want that first time to be rememberable for the good reasons, not remembering that someone used you!
Kkk..lets start here.
Do you knw the spiritual implication of having sex with anybody.
That alone but just giving that out to anybody ain't right.
If u quality u gonna give it up when you 12 then go right ahead..and see how ur life span turns out. Am not saying its wrong or right but what am saying is that there are psychological and spiritual implication of loosing it and have sex period.
Virginity is a virtue because surrounded by God's eyes, you are supposed to save yourself for only one lover. Sex is a magical and romantically intimate thing to do, and doing it near a person you may not love for the rest of your life is wasting the experience of it.
there are too many risks. u dont want to own to deal with those issues wen u are young
virginity is overrated and was revered hindmost in the days when men 'ruled', 'owned' and were in charge of women and so required wanted something 'clean' and 'untouched' as their wife.
I believe It's more important you commit to someone you're sexually compatible with.
So you devise that little 12 year olds losing their virginity is okay, because, you know, they're gonna lose it eventually, so why wait?
Why? Because sex is for adults, not little boys and little girls.
Oftentimes, saving sex for marriage is a religious point.
Some people think of it as a gift to their adjectives spouse.
You have to wait for it because. I guess because it is piece of the bible. But i still don't get why people say you hold to wait. You only get one karma in life. I would wait until I take married so I know what to expect. it is better
Sounds like a girl rationalizing to her self.
its yours a one time gift do you want to give it to some one that will act close to they got a trophy or just somebody that wants to hit it
its gonna mess near you emotionally some day so just make sure its not a push ?
Yes enthusiasm is about taking risks and not everyone waits till they are married but i do think you should love the soul you sleep with for the first time. Not just a random at a gala, not a boyfriend from high school, not a boyfriend you have have for 1 week.
Also if he pressures you into it, hes not worth it. If he waits and respects your feelings he is worth it.
Good luck
There is a reason to continue, because you're not responsible to handle the consequences and will regret it later on.
becauz the torment of giving birth is extreme and if u r 13 it will feel alot worse then pushing out a baby when u r 33. plus b4 20 u can kid sit and get paid for changing damp and dirty diapers... but if its your, the smell and pain is not going to gt u any money... u can do watever but u should follow me.
it depends on folks,religon and stuff like that :P
Not all people treat it approaching a virtue, I personally treat it like a uprightness because it shows I have enough respect for myself to not have sex next to a man I see no future with or has not shown me he is worthy of it. To me conjugal is the only way for a man to show me that he really cares give or take a few me and its not just for my looks, he is dedicating his whole duration to me and although marriages might not always work he did show you something when he asked you to marry him. If you take you're time and see who is out at hand, wait for a man who will treat you like a queen the marriage will work. I know thats ubberly cheesy but its true... Most men will agree that it is attractive when a woman hasnt have sex because then they would be the only ones to ever deliver real pleasure to her - if I can release that satisfaction for my husband then I will.
dont imagine you need to worry about sex at 13 anywaysssss
I am not sure. That is a impressively good question. I think girls similar to bragging about having sex so I like to say-so "well I haven't." I think, at least within my school it's like your clean or something. It's unexpected though. I never looked at it that way. I just asumed "oh when I find 'the one.'" How do you know? I guess when i get married even if we close up getting divorced. But unlike the Jonas brothers you don't need a ring to prove it.
Hope I helped,
Angie :)
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Is virginity a justice to you?
That's the item with virginity it only happens once; and some ethnic group do wait until marriage to lose it but majority of people don't its adjectives in a matter of choice. Life is about taking risks but some of those risks is not man how far you will go; its not a competition. I lost mine to someone i barely knew so some warning is just make it special and somone you trust cause individuals will talk thankfully noone did for me. But its not just physically arranged its emotional if they were to leave for someone else and a moment ago use your body. I don't think your emotionaly ready yet sweetie basically wait your so young when it does happen you will know what im discussion about.
Because people have a different opinion than you?
I'm not waiting for marriage ceremony - I'm waiting for me to be out of high school&same with whoever I ended up have sex with.
&you make it sound resembling people should just have sex near whoever.
I'm gonna answer a bit of the question by another cross-question...why don't everyone kill themselves? I mean, everyone eventually dies so why wait?
I conjecture it's way more exciting to have sex for the first time with someone you love after some random person.
This person may not be "the one" but at smallest you truly loved him.
Ehh I could go on for hours but I don't feel to much about writing. You can email me, there's a hyperlink contained by my profile if you have any questions.
Just a tip: please don't lose it to some jackass that will dump you a min later.
Do you actually care about person a "virtuous" person? And if you do, who or what do you use as your standard of what is "virtuous?" I say fairly embrace what satisfaction you can get out of life right away. I have yet to experience any drawback to having sex. I hold had no accidental pregnancies, no stds; nothing. All it have gotten me is many many very heavy times.
It's a beautiful gift that is yours to cherish. No one can ever own it unless you give it to them. Once you give it, you can never take it wager on. Can you say that about any other part of yourself?
Therefore, it is a bestow that is virtuous and of GREAT Value!
You can know who "the one" is. The trick is to wait for "the one". That other soul, if they truly love you and care for you will respect you enough to not ask you to give it to them.
How do you know "the one"? This is the being who respects you so much that they will make a commitment in front of you, clergy, respected guests and witnesses - to love, honor, and cherish you for the rest of your life. This is "the one" that you should present your precious offering to in consumation of your marriage.
This will be the most special and virtuous payment you can give "the one" in your life!
yeah i get what you stingy but you have to agree that a person should wait until they are contained by love, know all the pros and cons to sex and be willing to risk it ( cause protection is NOT a 100%)
i chew over people say to wait until marital because it to be "rather safe than sorry" it only give somebody a lift one time and protection can fail. at least there are two family to handle the problem and No one looks down on a married coupe if they have an unplanned pregnancy.
I'm 19 a nd a virgin because i didn't get my first bf and love until i be 18. i also wanted to be out of basic education, hold a job and be on the pill before having sex ( and contained by love duh)
I don't necessarily call it a virtue- I simply muse that that first time experience should be spent with a person you care intensely for, as opposed to simply saying "whatever" and sleeping with a friend or someone you only just know.
For me it's all about the intimacy of having simply one person to share myself with, and the prospect of it only self that person for the remainder of my life- I love the feeling.
Answers: Why wait? Because, if you wait and you have sex you'll be arranged to have a child in most cases. But if you don't wait, and you're a youngster you won't be ready to have a child.
I'm waiting till marriage, because I don't surface like being another teen mom.
I also agree with Meg. I want my "first time" to be special, near someone I really love. I don't want it to be with some jerk who will soon be my ex or whatever.
if your religious then virginity is pretty important to you. it symbolizes purity and should only be taken away when in place to have children (after marriage). "the one" isnt really an issue just as long as you both love each and divorce shouldn't really be anything but a dire concluding resort. and you should have sex for the purpose of making children.
i consider myself spiritual but to me virginity isn't that important to me. i'm open to have sex whenever i'm ready but i don't proclaim my beliefs on anyone just because everyone has their own opinion.
I'm waiting because I'm afraid that once I lose my viriginity I'm going to be easy meat for stupid boys who think they can get contained by my pants because I already lost my virginity. I'm also afraid that once I lose my virginity I won't care about who I own sex with, and i don't want to risk getting pregnant or an STD.
I know I don't sound normal saying this but I really plan to stay a virgin my complete life! I think it's a virtue because it make people see you as all innocent and pure and, not like most adults would know these things, but it's a big bonus beside adults if they somehow ever found out.
Because that's the right thing to do. . .besides if you get prego at the age of 13 you're considered a . . .yeah
Well in some religions it's a virture and in some not. It's right to skulk right now. Because the economy is bad and babies aren't cheap. And the diseases similar to AIDS and HIV yuck. I'm not saying be afraid to be intimate or be a holy roller. But think about your strength and your feelings. You want that first time to be rememberable for the good reasons, not remembering that someone used you!
Kkk..lets start here.
Do you knw the spiritual implication of having sex with anybody.
That alone but just giving that out to anybody ain't right.
If u quality u gonna give it up when you 12 then go right ahead..and see how ur life span turns out. Am not saying its wrong or right but what am saying is that there are psychological and spiritual implication of loosing it and have sex period.
Virginity is a virtue because surrounded by God's eyes, you are supposed to save yourself for only one lover. Sex is a magical and romantically intimate thing to do, and doing it near a person you may not love for the rest of your life is wasting the experience of it.
there are too many risks. u dont want to own to deal with those issues wen u are young
virginity is overrated and was revered hindmost in the days when men 'ruled', 'owned' and were in charge of women and so required wanted something 'clean' and 'untouched' as their wife.
I believe It's more important you commit to someone you're sexually compatible with.
So you devise that little 12 year olds losing their virginity is okay, because, you know, they're gonna lose it eventually, so why wait?
Why? Because sex is for adults, not little boys and little girls.
Oftentimes, saving sex for marriage is a religious point.
Some people think of it as a gift to their adjectives spouse.
You have to wait for it because. I guess because it is piece of the bible. But i still don't get why people say you hold to wait. You only get one karma in life. I would wait until I take married so I know what to expect. it is better
Sounds like a girl rationalizing to her self.
its yours a one time gift do you want to give it to some one that will act close to they got a trophy or just somebody that wants to hit it
its gonna mess near you emotionally some day so just make sure its not a push ?
Yes enthusiasm is about taking risks and not everyone waits till they are married but i do think you should love the soul you sleep with for the first time. Not just a random at a gala, not a boyfriend from high school, not a boyfriend you have have for 1 week.
Also if he pressures you into it, hes not worth it. If he waits and respects your feelings he is worth it.
Good luck
There is a reason to continue, because you're not responsible to handle the consequences and will regret it later on.
becauz the torment of giving birth is extreme and if u r 13 it will feel alot worse then pushing out a baby when u r 33. plus b4 20 u can kid sit and get paid for changing damp and dirty diapers... but if its your, the smell and pain is not going to gt u any money... u can do watever but u should follow me.
it depends on folks,religon and stuff like that :P
Not all people treat it approaching a virtue, I personally treat it like a uprightness because it shows I have enough respect for myself to not have sex next to a man I see no future with or has not shown me he is worthy of it. To me conjugal is the only way for a man to show me that he really cares give or take a few me and its not just for my looks, he is dedicating his whole duration to me and although marriages might not always work he did show you something when he asked you to marry him. If you take you're time and see who is out at hand, wait for a man who will treat you like a queen the marriage will work. I know thats ubberly cheesy but its true... Most men will agree that it is attractive when a woman hasnt have sex because then they would be the only ones to ever deliver real pleasure to her - if I can release that satisfaction for my husband then I will.
dont imagine you need to worry about sex at 13 anywaysssss
I am not sure. That is a impressively good question. I think girls similar to bragging about having sex so I like to say-so "well I haven't." I think, at least within my school it's like your clean or something. It's unexpected though. I never looked at it that way. I just asumed "oh when I find 'the one.'" How do you know? I guess when i get married even if we close up getting divorced. But unlike the Jonas brothers you don't need a ring to prove it.
Hope I helped,
Angie :)
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