14yrs.4 weeks pregnant. What do I do?
Abortion is out of the question.
Adoption... but to who? Im not letting my kid go to just anyone.
I cant maintain it.
Help.
Ask if your parents or one of your family members would look after the toddler for you while you are at school that way you will be able to preserve it and still finish school.
First ask around your family and see if anybody would be willing to adopt while you finish college. Everybody's family is different, but a lot of times parents will have an attachment and want to hold the baby, and if you live with your parents you'd still be taking care of the babe-in-arms and be around it. Otherwise, you can call adoption agencies and whether or not you want an open or closed adoption... you still can interview families and choose which one you regard is best. Open adoption, you still get to communicate with the child and family, carry pictures, usually visitations and everything. Or you can go the other route, and maybe it would be too hard for you to save in contact and you don't want to be around or know anything, I can understand how that may be hard, too. Either way- categorically talk to your parents, grandma, older sister, aunt, teacher, conservatory counselor, boyfriends mother? anybody you trust and feel most comfortable talking to. They will be the best people to help out you sweet heart.
Abortion IS KILLING Somebody!!
You are really young so if you really can't keep it put your child up for adoption.
Everyone DOES deserves at occasion at life.
Don' kill a child beause of your stupid choices.
meet with different couples. i would go next to an older couple who are unable to have a kid but who own always wanted one. that's the hardest thing for them, and if they hold been together for awhile a baby will only engineer them happier and the baby will be happy too. :) They should have angelic jobs and they will love the baby unconditionally. Meet with them first. You will find people with good morals and a fitting home.
I commend you for not doing the abortion, so many people would. Telling your parents might be agonizing for a bit, but its nothing resembling killing someone who could have been something. well brought-up for you :) i think everything will work out in the end. you still own 8 months
If you really do not want to keep your child, then go to the hospital or a church to find out around adoption agencies or any known couples that want to adopt. They would know couples and know if the couples are trustworthy and good people so you know your tot will be in the right hands.
Please also consider outside the "normal couple" close to gays and single women.
If you KNEW that you be allergic to condoms, why didn't you get on the PILL? We're you just that fvcking lazy? YOU SHOULD KNOW that no birth control is markedly very risky. Being "allergic"to condoms is no damn excuse.
Seriously.
You should not even having sex.
EDIT:
By the way, support to my point that being allergic to latex is no excuse: THEY MAKE LATEX FREE CONDOMS!
You are not "allergic to condoms", you're allergic to latex.
Answers: There are many many kinds of adoption agencies, you lately need to do your research. Call around, ask alot of questions, check their refrences,and make sure they are economically recognised.
Meet with the potential parents, and just keep asking question...
Dont do anything that you will regret.. if you do not feel comfortable with one agency, try another one...
I wish you luck,and I know it will be knotty being pregnant so young... just please remember this subsequent time you are tempted.
You will have the rest of your life to enjoy sex, but your only 14 once!
Just let your parents AND yourself AND your boyfriend nick care of the baby. Both of your parents might say they'll disown you, but when you push out that infant, they'll help.
at hand are different types of condoms. i bet you wish you would have had hives. relay your mom. you had sex why would you punish your baby. there are pills call birth control
I cant sympathize with you there. You made a dumbass outcome and now ur paying huh? Really you may have to get an abortion.
adoption if you dont want the baby. dont abort, everybody deserves a chance at enthusiasm
I think you should keep it. It will teach you responsibility and adjectives that jazz.It will be hard but we all have to business deal with our issues.
this is why abstinence programs dont work.
its called lecture about the pill and protection
om gees
For the adoption, look at JUST me. But for the condoms, they do have non-latex ones you know.
Hey. I'm 17, and I have a two year old almost three year old.
I be pregnant at 14, and it was hard. But I'm glad i kept her.
Under my circumstances it worked better to keep her after to give her up for adoption, I just dont know how I could do that and I KNOW i couldn't do abortion. We need to know the facts previously we can give you advice.
Are you with the father?
Are your parents supportive?
You are reaction to email me at
Youngmom1234@yahoo.com
I'll talk to you. Ive been there.
I'd go with abortion. Easy bearing out :]
And geez, look it up for adoption? Why can't you keep it? And how the hell did you get pregnant? Unprotected sex... Yea considering you did that, you shouldn't keep the tot. You'll just teach it all your stupidity.
I despise people like you.
Doesn't mean you couldn't use birth control, spermacide, the morning after pill. There's tons of things.
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Adoption... but to who? Im not letting my kid go to just anyone.
I cant maintain it.
Help.
Ask if your parents or one of your family members would look after the toddler for you while you are at school that way you will be able to preserve it and still finish school.
First ask around your family and see if anybody would be willing to adopt while you finish college. Everybody's family is different, but a lot of times parents will have an attachment and want to hold the baby, and if you live with your parents you'd still be taking care of the babe-in-arms and be around it. Otherwise, you can call adoption agencies and whether or not you want an open or closed adoption... you still can interview families and choose which one you regard is best. Open adoption, you still get to communicate with the child and family, carry pictures, usually visitations and everything. Or you can go the other route, and maybe it would be too hard for you to save in contact and you don't want to be around or know anything, I can understand how that may be hard, too. Either way- categorically talk to your parents, grandma, older sister, aunt, teacher, conservatory counselor, boyfriends mother? anybody you trust and feel most comfortable talking to. They will be the best people to help out you sweet heart.
Abortion IS KILLING Somebody!!
You are really young so if you really can't keep it put your child up for adoption.
Everyone DOES deserves at occasion at life.
Don' kill a child beause of your stupid choices.
meet with different couples. i would go next to an older couple who are unable to have a kid but who own always wanted one. that's the hardest thing for them, and if they hold been together for awhile a baby will only engineer them happier and the baby will be happy too. :) They should have angelic jobs and they will love the baby unconditionally. Meet with them first. You will find people with good morals and a fitting home.
I commend you for not doing the abortion, so many people would. Telling your parents might be agonizing for a bit, but its nothing resembling killing someone who could have been something. well brought-up for you :) i think everything will work out in the end. you still own 8 months
If you really do not want to keep your child, then go to the hospital or a church to find out around adoption agencies or any known couples that want to adopt. They would know couples and know if the couples are trustworthy and good people so you know your tot will be in the right hands.
Please also consider outside the "normal couple" close to gays and single women.
If you KNEW that you be allergic to condoms, why didn't you get on the PILL? We're you just that fvcking lazy? YOU SHOULD KNOW that no birth control is markedly very risky. Being "allergic"to condoms is no damn excuse.
Seriously.
You should not even having sex.
EDIT:
By the way, support to my point that being allergic to latex is no excuse: THEY MAKE LATEX FREE CONDOMS!
You are not "allergic to condoms", you're allergic to latex.
Answers: There are many many kinds of adoption agencies, you lately need to do your research. Call around, ask alot of questions, check their refrences,and make sure they are economically recognised.
Meet with the potential parents, and just keep asking question...
Dont do anything that you will regret.. if you do not feel comfortable with one agency, try another one...
I wish you luck,and I know it will be knotty being pregnant so young... just please remember this subsequent time you are tempted.
You will have the rest of your life to enjoy sex, but your only 14 once!
Just let your parents AND yourself AND your boyfriend nick care of the baby. Both of your parents might say they'll disown you, but when you push out that infant, they'll help.
at hand are different types of condoms. i bet you wish you would have had hives. relay your mom. you had sex why would you punish your baby. there are pills call birth control
I cant sympathize with you there. You made a dumbass outcome and now ur paying huh? Really you may have to get an abortion.
adoption if you dont want the baby. dont abort, everybody deserves a chance at enthusiasm
I think you should keep it. It will teach you responsibility and adjectives that jazz.It will be hard but we all have to business deal with our issues.
this is why abstinence programs dont work.
its called lecture about the pill and protection
om gees
For the adoption, look at JUST me. But for the condoms, they do have non-latex ones you know.
Hey. I'm 17, and I have a two year old almost three year old.
I be pregnant at 14, and it was hard. But I'm glad i kept her.
Under my circumstances it worked better to keep her after to give her up for adoption, I just dont know how I could do that and I KNOW i couldn't do abortion. We need to know the facts previously we can give you advice.
Are you with the father?
Are your parents supportive?
You are reaction to email me at
Youngmom1234@yahoo.com
I'll talk to you. Ive been there.
I'd go with abortion. Easy bearing out :]
And geez, look it up for adoption? Why can't you keep it? And how the hell did you get pregnant? Unprotected sex... Yea considering you did that, you shouldn't keep the tot. You'll just teach it all your stupidity.
I despise people like you.
Doesn't mean you couldn't use birth control, spermacide, the morning after pill. There's tons of things.
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